Originally Posted by krampus
The love of your life? More like some a$$hole who doesn't deserve to be loved again if he treated you that way.
You never have to be with someone who treats you badly. Move onwards and upwards. Be with friends - it's an important time for you to stay distracted and firmly supported. Stay strong, hearts don't break - they just bruise a bit.
I agree, look I'm sure we've all been through **** like this at least once in our life. and Honestly months ago I was in the situation as well with a liar and a cheater who verbally abused me and kept me isolated of everyone...It sucks because when you let go of people whom use you, and you know you've done it for the right reasons it still hurts; because we don't have that someone (good or bad) there anymore with us and we feel so much more alone.
You're in a state of shock at the moment and under desperate measures to get him back because of the fear of the unknown. In reality though people who treat you like garbage don't respect you and never will, and with them constantly not respecting you, YOU will NEVER respect yourself. I get it break ups suck, but what's even worse is being with a piece of crap like that who will constantly bring you down to MAKE himself feel better, because that's what guys like that do. They are pathetic, useless and a waste of space.
Allow yourself breathing room, cry all you can and let out your anger and frusteration even if it's writing it in a blog. Give yourself a week to cry about it. You'll start to feel better about it, once you give yourself breathing room and time to concentraite on yourself. Forget him move on, there is soo much better out there and let's say their isn't. It's better to be alone and happy then to be miserable and with garbage like that.