I am looking for sound advice, or truly any advice about my current situation.
A little background...my fiancÚ and I have been together for nearly 5 years, living together for 3 and engaged for a 2 months. We have been working at our jobs for 2 years...I am fairly happy most days other days I'm bored out of my mind because I don't have enough f work to do. He on the other hand hates his job. His boss has told him he has wanted to fire him for well over a year now, but can't because he is doing a great job so the town counsel won't let him. (basicsally my fiancÚ world somewhere that is non profit and his boss hates his programs and would rather spend the town money on his personal business).
Now last week his boss tried for 3 hours to convince the town counsel to fire my fiancÚ to no avail. The boss even pulled the plug on a program to try and make my fiancÚ look bad. That was the last straw, my fiancÚ wants to quit now. Understandably so.
Here's my issues: his job is a limited field so he can't just find another job in the area, we will have to move. I am ok with this as long as its not too far from both of our families (this is for our future children and us so we can visit often). My problem is I feel like I am letting everyone down in my work if I leave. my work involves other families etc...that I visit regularly. I have said to coworkers that I plan on being here and helping build the company but now we may be moving. I feel so guilty and awful. then I feel terrible because I know this job is killing my fiancÚ. I just don't know what to do...
Any advice, personal opinions, anything would be greatly appreciated. Thanks..sorry its so long