Oh those are great posts! I am going to start the 10 min. rule immediately CGH! I think that would help a lot. And Stuffed Bunny...you nailed it. Somedays he may have only gone out and worked a couple of hours. He has been home all day doing reports and stuff, but been home....checking email, surfing the net, watching tv, not even needing to unwind. When I get in after what may have been a 10 hr day...same thing. He wants to lounge on the couch and kick back and talk, etc...I just want to unwind and have some time to myself to rid myself of the workday crap. I wanna check email and stuff so if I get my laptop out, I feel guilty and I feel like he is hovering around waiting on time from me. I wanna say, "I know you've been on that computer all day and read fox news and aol headlines, now I wanna do the same." I remind him..."Remember when we were dating, how we didn't get together every night or even talk on the phone everynight b/c work just drained us some days...Well just b/c we live under the same roof doesn't mean that has changed...Some nights I still want me time.". He says he understands but I'm not sure he does. "sigh"
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