I know we all or most of us have a mother in law who gives us problems at times. Some more than others. I just don't know what to do with or about mine... I've had issues with her since my oldest son was born 7 years ago. It's lots of little stuff that she does and the fact that it seems like she just doesn't care. She watches my kids while I work and seems to keep stepping over the parent/grandparent boundry. This year alone she has replaced a perfectly good backpack for my preschooler just because she didn't like the one that we bought(my son even picked it out), made up christmas party favors for him to take to school for the party without consulting me, and the lastest she got my daughter's hair trimmed...for the first time. This is just stuff from this year. I have a list that could go a mile long with similiar "little" stuff and don't know what else to do or say to her to make her understand. I'm really upset about this lastest thing because she cut my daughters hair for the first time. She is only two and did NOT need one nor did i want her to have one. I'm not planning on having bangs on her and that is what she had "trimmed" up.
I'm just so frustrated and guess I needed to vent to somebody other than my husband, who just doesn't see a problem with anything his mother does. I just want to be the parent and get to do the parent stuff without worrying about doing it before my mother in law gets a chance....