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Originally Posted by sunflowergirl68
Would you talk about existentialism to kids? You have to be careful explaining these things to kids or else it could severely affect them. You have to be so careful in the way that you talk to kids about things. Why freak your kid out just because you don't believe in an afterlife?
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Talk about existentialism? Yes, would, have and will continue to.
Personally, I think telling kids that a strange fat man in a red suit sneaks into everyone's houses around the world (oh wait, not everyone, just the Christians, those who believe in Jesus!) is a horribly frightening and inappropriate thing to do. Don't get me started on the EASTER
BUNNY!!!
What about loving puppies and eating chickens? How about that disconnect? A value system that is inconsistent is a challenging thing to balance and can confuse and frighten children.
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Originally Posted by sunflowergirl68
And I personally think it's very selfish of parents to only explain their beliefs (or only one point of view), and not multiple ones. I really don't think it's fair to anyone's child if they're only raised with one spiritual point of view. I still have wounds from my religious upbringing and i would have really appreciated some variety.
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Variety is the 'Spice of (the after) life!'
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Originally Posted by sunflowergirl68
I think the best thing to say is that you really don't know what happens when you die, but you hope that you'll be together.
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Yep!