lol so...i never seem to get good dating opportunities. And, lately, I've been so focused on my new job and health that I dont really want any. However, sometimes i wonder about what it is about me that causes this recurring pattern with men.
Either I get the "lets just be really good friends. we have so much fun together" or "hey, baby, wanna __". The only guys that express an interest do it in an overly sexual and, frankly, gross way! I get these lewd comments OFTEN!!! So I was at the gym this AM and a guy tells me "hope this doesnt offend but I would love to eat all over that *insert another word for cat* of yours." Then I told him I wasnt interested and he said "You know you gonna change yer mind one day. I'm like a trash compactor. I suck it ALL out" (i'm not even sure I get the analogy....do trash compactor's suck?...did he mean garbage disposal?... but...whatever...) I dont consider myself to be a prude but guys like this sure make me feel like one! I mean, how is that appropriate to say to someone you just met? yuck.
Is this a chubby chaser thing? Do you guys think this will become less common when I lose weight? just curious.