to you both
I also lost my first child early on. It's nice to find people who understand and don't say, "it's all for the best dear, you can always have another"
I did have another, a wonderful boy who has grown to be a wonderful young man, but I was mourning the one I had lost. Part of my heart will always belong to that child, and the one I lost after I had my son. They weren't born, but they were still my children.