Hi, welcome, this is a great place for support. You will hear about people just like yourself. I love reading about other people's struggles because then I remember I am not alone in this battle. Good luck. Check out the recipes, they are great.
It's the avatar. Check in ''profile'', go to 'edit option'. Just at the bottom you have the avatar section. You can pick up one from the database here or choose one you have stored in your computer.
Hope that helps !