Mmm-kay. I'm not sure this really qualifies as 'drama' but I still need some imput...
I dated this one guy in high school. High school sweet heart and all of that. We broke up after about a year of dating. We also saw eachother briefly just after high school, then we lost touch.
Through facebook and myspace, we've gotten back in touch. Fine enough. No one's hitting on anyone else, no unprofessed love.
The complication is that I now have a cell phone. I've never had one and want to get away from my crappy housephone. He's one of the people who has my #.
Even though our conversations are mundane, it feels wierd. It feels kind of wrong.
I'm in touch with damn near all my other ex's but there's not the 'wierdness' that I have with this guy.
My husband and I are not secretive from eachother but we don't fill eachother in on every thing that goes on, I don't tell him what everyone said on myspace or whatever, just like I don't tell him the total mutinae of what goes on at work.
Part of me wants to tell him I'm in touch w/ Ed, but then he may ask why I feel the need to point this out, even though I never pointed out the other ex's I'm in touch with. This might create suspicion where there really should be none.
a ) He's just an acquaintance/friend who just happenned to be an ex boyfriend. Whatever!
b) Out of respect for my husband, I will keep my communication with Ed restricted to online ( facebook, myspace) and text.
c) I just go about my business and not worry about it. If I have no ulterior motives, then I should have no guilt. I have to have a life outside of my husband.
d) cut off all communication w/ Ed,as this could only get worse.
If it was the other way around I don't know how I'd feel about it. Probably that I don't care, I just wouldn't want his communications w/ an ex girlfriend to take away from our time together. Otherwise, like on the train ride to work? Go for it...