I'm 25 and my boyfriend of 2.5 years is 33. I weigh 273, he weighs in excess of 290 (I don't know exactly how much).I'm not sure, I'm really bad about eyeballing these things, but I think he's about 6'0'' to my 5'4''. I am making a conscious and determined effort to lose weight and he says his "diet starts Monday." Well, that particular Monday was about a year ago and nothing's happened yet. (in all fairness, mine was supposed to have started right around the same time, but that's not the point. the point is that my man is still quite husky)
Secretly, I'm kind of happy. I like him better fat. I want to be slimmer, but I want him to be fat, and it isn't because of any competitive insanity or anything, I just prefer meaty men. I have dated men of all body types and this is the one I like the very best. If he were to lose all the weight plus too much and be skin and bones, I would still adore him and want to be with him, I'm just afraid that I might not feel as physically attracted to him as I am now, if he gets down to what he calls his "fightin' weight," about 160. I don't think I have to much to worry about, as his idea of 'diet' appears to be alternating Mt. Dew and Dr. Pepper every other day, instead of a 20-ouncer of each daily.
As long as we are happy and healthy, nothing else matters, but I was just wondering if being over weight is what makes me prefer overweight men. I liked a medium build when I was younger and thinner. I'd appreciate some feedback from anyone who can relate. I just think it's interesting the way being overweight works on your body on one level, and your mind on another.