when i wanted to leave a particular man that i loved but had issues with, i made a list pros all the good things
cons all the things i could not comprimise and deal with
and a third list of things that annoy me but were acceptable.
i WANTED the CONS to be longer so i had a good reason to leave.
i found that my pros list was long..... very long
i married him.
my suggestion is to make a list.... it helps clarify your thoughts.
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