I met my hubby on a chat forum (just a general one, can't even remember how I found it) just over 9 years ago and it took a lot of emails, chatting, phone calls, letter, photos etc, before he came over here from Canada for a holiday that October and we haven't been apart since. We are coming up to our 7th anniversary in June. On that same forum there was a girl who ALWAYS had something incredible happening in her life. The last time I bothered 'listening' to her was when she was supposedly sitting in a hospital bed, typing messages to us, just an hour or so after miscarrying her twins. She was talking quite normally and didn't mention anything about the pregnancy after that. No matter what the reason for this unusual behaviour, she needed help. On another board, for teachers, there was another lady who constantly had 'dramas' happening in her life, but after she left the board (although people say she is still visiting under different names) people said that they had met her and read about her in online newspapers and she was a 'real' person and very nice. So, I'm still not sure about that one.
I have met some people from that teaching site on a trip to the US and they were fantastic people. I guess you just have to sort out the good from the bad, just as you do in real life.
Zelma
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