ok, quick rundown...i've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. he's great - we spend allll our time together - i honestly spend like 6 nights a week at his place - he's ALWAYS asking me to come over - he always makes me dinner - pays for everything - is a real gentleman when it comes to everything - knows a few of my friends - i know his friends. does anything and everything i ask of him - and yes, we DO have our own time apart too...(not a lot, but enough to keep us both sane...lol). Also - he only JUST started calling me his "girlfriend" about a month ago...before that - he didn't like the word and would only call me "the girl i'm dating"...
ok. So. friday night - i took HIM out for an early valentine's day dinner and movie - i paid for dinner (Bucca Di Beppo's - his fave italian place downtown) and he paid for the movie before I had a chance to pull my $$ out...lol.
LAST night i was supposed to go out dancing with my best girlfriend. I ended up bailing on her last minute (around 9) because i'm sick again...hacking, coughing, sneezing, etc...yesterday, when i left, he asked me if i was gonna go back to his place or mine after we were done dancing (assuming at that time i was still going) and i told him, "i'd like to come back here, but you do live on the northeast side of town and she and i both live on the west side...since i'm driving - there's no point of me driving back up here at 3 in the morning..." and he was cool with that...ok fine. whatever - "i'll see you tomorrow night"
so i called him around 4 p.m. yesterday telling him that my coughing had gotten worse and i was running a mild fever. and he suggested i take a nap before i go out and see if that helps...so i slept and around 9 p.m. i wake up getting texts from both him and her. both asking me how i was feeling...well, i told my girlfriend that i didn't feel like going - i wouldn't BE any fun nor HAVE any fun. so she was cool with that. and I told my boyfriend, "not better, i think i'm gonna stay in tonight" then i sent a second one saying, "hey, if you wanna, come over tonight, i've got the place to myself, since i'm not going anywhere" (meaning the roommate was gone) and he replied, "nah, I'm doing laundry"...ok - so i told him, "ok, no prob. i'll see you tomorrow night"
that was the end of that...then - at 4 this morning i get a call from my best girlfriend - and knowing it was her ringtone i answered...first off, she's NOT the kind to start any drama - she would NEVER start any thing like that or make anything up. she'd have no reason to at all. well, she called and said, "hey, i saw your boyfriend at the danceclub...i was dancing all up on this really hot guy and he came up to me and said, 'hey dana! where's keri-ann?'"
um what? ummm...huh? why would he have gone to the dance club after he KNEW i was staying home? and please, don't be all pessimests and say he's cheating on me...cuz if he was - first off, he wouldn't have gone up TO my girlfriend and asked me where i was and plus she said that when she saw him after that he was by himself drinking a beer...and second - i DO trust him with all my heart. and this was around 2 when the dance club closes at 3.
but my very first thought actually was..."was he checking up on me?" making sure i really WAS sick and didn't go out? he shouldn't have ANY reason WHATsoever NOT to trust me! plus, as valentine's day is 3 days away...HE'S the one who keeps telling me about all these plans he has for me - or wanted to do for me...and i have a feeling it's gonna be VERY good! :-P
and yes, i'm GOING to ask him about this when i go over there tonight - but HOW should i go about it? just be blunt and ask him..."soooo - dana called me at 4 this morning and said you were at the vogue...what's up?" or should i NOT say anything?
it just makes absolutely NO sense to me whatsoever as to why he was there looking for me. any advice???