I think if you want to be successful in the long term with your diet, you should start practicing restraint now. When you've really learnt how to moderate your eating and choose healthy foods, then you could probably go with the cheese.
Anyway its just a thought.
In my diet i have no control over sweet foods, i so don't eat them and may not ever be able to eat them except in circumstances where i am unlikely to lose control such as in company.
But with cheese now and other things like that i can eat in moderation. If i were to show signs of out of controlness, i would ban them from my diet again.