Hi DanceDiva!
I JUST broke an EIGHT MONTH PLATEAU, so I know how going the wrong way can feel!
I've created my own plan based on eating the right portions of nutritious foods, adding more fiber to my diet, increasing the water I drink, watching fats, while TRYING to double my exercise. I read a lot about what REALLY works rather than try out any "wonder" plan that claims a quick fix.
First I just had to get committed to wanting to go the distance to lose this weight. I had to get my head in the right place. A Christmas photo of me at 275 pounds was my wake-up call. That was Christmas 1999. I've been zig-zagging along since then. My first loss was 25 lbs. within the first six months. My next big loss of 20 pounds was a number of months later in 2001. I stayed pretty much the same weight for the next couple years. I had another lagging period until August of 2005 when our oldest son became engaged and I thought how great it would be to weigh at HIS wedding what I weighed AT MY OWN WEDDING back in 1976!
I set my goal and went for it! I have lost 68 pounds toward my goal. At 55 and menopausal the task is tougher than it would have been if I just would have gotten my act together sooner. I'm hanging in there, though! I will make it!
You will, too!
Cheryl