The deluxe package includes more dvds and the bands/gloves. You technically do not need weights to do the program, just the bands.
That Deluxe package is more expansive. Personally i bought the standard package and I added the extra DVDs since i already owned the bands and gloves. If you do not have the bands and gloves, then the Deluxe package is a better choice if you can afford it of course...
The Deluxe Package will be offered to you as an add on when you order. It is the same price whether you buy from BeachBody or a coach, the only difference is that you either pick your coach per say, or they assign you someone randomly
I forgot to mention that if you own weights, you can use them instead of the bands of course... I just do not have the money right now to buy them