Ok... so I have a good friend (we hang out a lot and text a lot) who is also overweight. We are different heights and weights (hers is lower than mine) but pretty similar BMI's. She wants to lose 60-70lb whereas I want to lose 120ish (have lost 33 so far).
I have been consistently dieting and exercising for a while now and she has expressed a lot of interest in going to the gym with me and everytime I tell her I want to go, she tells me to wait for her so she can come so I work around her schedule and wait for her to call me but it ends up not happening and then it gets too late to go. I have only worked out with her once. And I like it, I mean, its nice to have a gym buddy but it is so frustrating to always have to wait around for her.
I don't know. I am thinking she's not serious enough about losing weight to actually put in the time hard work and dedication. And I don't want to sound mean; I talked about how much I wanted to lose weight (while unknowingly gaining it) but I didn't get really serious about it until after my pacemaker surgery last winter.
Do you think I should talk to her about this?
Or just wait until she's serious about losing weight and keep going by myself?