Ok, I met this guy 17 yrs ago, and he became my BEST friend ever...we were inseperable, did everything together, had an amazing connection, we could look at each other an know what the other was thinking without having to say a word, we had this sense of the other persons feelings even if we weren't with that person, we knew each other so well...then 5 yrs later I moved away, and we lost touch, which devestated me beyond belief, but I hid it from everyone, because everyone would have teased me about it, because I did have a "thing" for this best friend of mine... so during those 10 yrs where we were without contact, I heard that he had gotten married, and had kids, and the usual, moved on with life... So I decided to do the same and move on, but I just couldn't get him out of my mind no matter what I did, where I went, who I met, it was weird! I'd never had anyone stick with me that long, but I never ever thought we would see each other again. In December of 2003, he came to mind again, and this time I couldn't let it go...I searched online, found him, which was a miracle, and in May of 2004, we finally after 10 yrs got back in touch.
We emailed back and forth and then a month later, my hubby and I, circumstances with work and junk, we end up travelling to boston, where my best friend lives! He ends up picking us up, and he and I spend alot of time catching up, etc...and I find out that he had been wondering for the past 10 yrs where I had been as well...all the same things I had wondered about him. Anyway in September I left and moved back to Canada, leaving behind my best friend...AGAIN!
But we phoned and emailed back and forth nearly everyday.... GREAT!
Then in December of this past year, I find out that he's getting a divorce, and his wife who abused him verbally for over 10 yrs, blamed me for their problems, when I had nothing to do with it!
So anyway, we've been emailing each other the past few months, and I've been doing my best to support my friend as he goes through all this. But the past month he's been really distant and the emails are few and far between now, he doesn't call....and I'm so upset!
I feel like I'm losing my best friend all over again! He's the only person that I've ever been able to be myself with, tell anything to, we've been there for each other through so much....he's like my other half...and I really miss him, and I'm worried about him as he's going through this divorce!
I don't have alot of close friends...alot of aquaintences but none that I really can share with, you know? The past few weeks I've really had this gut feeling that somethings wrong, I have his cell phone number, but I'm afraid to phone him....because I'm not really supposed to...I don't know what to do, or what to think, or anything! I'm so sad, frustrated, scared for him, for our friendship....