Lisa: That is GREAT news that your mom's house is in contract!!!
I am cautiously optimistic for you. What a relief and some closure it would be for you if her house finally sold. Please keep us posted!
Holly: Your co-worker sounds like an immature crybaby!
Good for you for reporting him ~ for fishing on the clock, for God's sake!!! What was he thinking?!? And what in the world is the deal with your doctor even thinking of categorizing you as anything resembling "obese" with your height and weight stats? That is just crazy!!! Although it sounds like the weight loss med is helping you, so that part is good. Our weather has been extremely warm and our swimming pool is open
but, although I've sunbathed briefly around the pool one time, I haven't swam yet because I've been so busy.
My kids have used the pool though, so at least it's getting used.
We have had a few more incidents with my son that have raised my level of concern about him and his mental and emotional health. He assures me that he is okay, but some of his behavior says otherwise. It has us worried sick.
He has been following up with the DBT counselor one on one four times now and made several more appointments the last time he was there. I am pretty sure he will get into the DBT group, which I think will be a great help to him. It is an eight month long program, so it's pretty intense. I think it involves both individual and group weekly counseling. He needs that ongoing support, and I think it will really help him to know that others have similar thoughts, feelings, and behaviors as he does. I might have him continue to follow up with his original therapist as well, because he really trusts her and she obviously cares about him a lot (especially evident in some personal contacts I've had with her recently). He simply cannot hold a job right now, as I had hoped. He needs to get emotionally and mentally stable first. I am just praying like crazy that it will happen as soon as possible. He desperately needs some relief! Our concern and worry about him has dominated our lives for so long that it has really taken a toll on all of us. We all need a break... but nobody more than him. All I can do is pray, be there to love and support him as much as possible, and have faith that brighter days are ahead. That is my hope and what keeps me going.
Tomorrow (Monday) will be six weeks since my surgery. I was finally able to get a silicon balancer form to add to my bras and swimsuits to balance out my breasts. That has helped me to be less self-conscious in my clothes, which is a relief. It does mean that I still have to wear mastectomy bras and swimsuits, which I already had but had hoped to get out of, but at least there was a solution to my problem. Six weeks out also means that I can resume exercise, so I am looking forward to that!
Well, that's all for now. Hope all is well with everyone!