Hi, first congratulation on your weight loss. For the rest, you are probably your worse critic and do not compare yourself to someone else.
I guess the trick is look your best at whatever weight you are. Do not wait to lose the weight to go embrass life, it is a vicious circle you stay home because of the way you look, you isolate yourself and put yourself in a situation to overeat. Go out there. Live, laugh, danse and enjoy other people company, I am sure they miss you today.
Like you I do not want to wear short sleeves, dont like my arms but I have a whole collection of 3/4 sleeve bolero that are light weight that can compliment a short sleeve dress. According to your body type you can make yourself look slimmer.
By the way you might envy those skinny blonde woman.....but not all man enjoy that look anyway. Be proud of who you are a woman on a mission.
Last edited by Michou; 06-14-2014 at 03:47 PM.