Wow! Looking at your ticker you are almost back to Onederland! Hip hip horray!!! My husband has never wanted to watch porn, but he loves to read the magazines with the sex stories in them. He doesn't care for books with pictures just the stories. At first, I was not comfortable with it, but I have learned to realize that hey, maybe he will learn something new from them that we will both enjoy. We are in a sexless marriage due to my recent pelvic mesh surgery and the complications associated with it. I have noticed he is not reading much in the magazines. I think it is associated to our lack of sexual encounters. I am having the mesh removed in the coming weeks. I hope the pain associated with sexual intercourse and foreplay will go away after the surgery. I do feel depressed about not being able to please my husband, but there is nothing I can do about it at this point. (I tried to talk to him about pleasing him in other ways and he said 'No" he would wait until after the surgery. Just know that I am right here with you feeling the misery of depression. If the surgery does not correct my problem, I see myself going back to a counselor.
Grandma to 3 beautiful babies
NOTE- avatar picture is me at 208 lbs!
Restart March 24, 2014
Last edited by firegirl441; 03-20-2013 at 12:19 AM.