Just curious to know when people noticed you lost weight. Was it after you lost 10lbs., 15lbs., or 20lbs?
I've lost 6 pounds and my hubby can't even tell
Don't be too upset. When I was little my mother got sick(congestive heart failure) and lost 125 lbs. We didn't notice. She was just mom. She wasn't dieting and I guess when you are around someone all the time you just don't see it. She didn't notice either. It wasn't until we went to a family reunion and people who hadn't seen her in a year started telling her how thin she looked that she figured she better see for herself. I have lost 8lbs and I can see it in my boobs and feel it in my butt(saggy undies) but, no one has said anything about it. Hoping by 20lbs it may start to show! Good luck.
Today! I am down 18 lbs and someone at my sons basketball game came up to me to compliment me on my weight loss. It's not someone I see very often, and so the difference would be easier for her to notice than someone who sees me all the time.
My husbands been very supportive of my journey, but He only started to notice after about 12 pounds down.
I am 11.5 pounds down and no one has noticed, so don't feel bad. I have a goal of 50 pounds total, so I know that compliments will start coming sooner or later.
My husband is down by 94lbs and nobody can tell. They all think I've lost more than him, yet he's lost nearly double what I have lost. It's because he has gone from morbidly obese...to still morbidly obese. Whereas I've gone from obese to normal. So the change is more pronounced for me than it is for him.
The heavier you are, the harder it is to see the difference. For me, it was about twenty pounds before others could see much of a change. As I continue to drop, I do think it's becoming easier to tell just by sight.
And sometimes, of course, you lose weight in odd places at first. My face, hands, feet, and arms have all dropped weight...I'm an apple shape though and my torso has hardly changed.
Your hubby sees you every day so it's hard for him to notice a change. It took my hubby a very long time to see any difference in me....but other people seemed to notice after I lost about 10% of the body weight. The most important thing though is what YOU notice and not just on your clothes and body but in how good you feel.
I'm at a 14.2 lb. total loss as of my last weigh in this past Friday. I was starting to wonder when people would start noticing and that was the day my husband said he could notice a difference in my face. I couldn't notice a difference in the mirror but I can see the difference in a photo for sure.
Yes, like others say.. your husband sees you every day, so it's hard to notice any change. some people said something about 10-15 lbs to me (maybe they were being nice) but after 25 lbs, people were really noticing and making comments.
I've lost 20 pounds and my husband has not noticed. That is because he sees me every single day so he can't tell. I've only just been able to start noticing myself so I can't expect to much lol!
Every single day I hear from my parents "Omg, your a little skinny-mini" and I want to hit them. I know its mean, but I am really not that skinny, it does not need to been said EVERY SINGLE DAY and they even said that when I was gaining weight. I think they think it makes me feel good, but it makes me feel even worse when I really have not lost in a few weeks or something!
One of my other friends said the other day "omg have you lost weight", but she was just fishing for compliments on her weight loss since the day before she messaged me telling me she had lost 5 pounds. When she asked if I had lost weight, she totally said it in the way that wanted me to respond with "Wow, your the one who looks like you've lost weight!".
It took about 15-25 lbs before people started saying something about it. I can't remember who was the first to say something about it, either one of my girlfriends or my dh. It can be hard to tell sometimes. I think people know something is different, just not exactly what it is. About the time drop a size or two, it becomes really evident.
When did people notice your loss?
