So I have lost alot of weight and was maintaining. Then I got into a relationship. I really like him. But from the start I have had this fear that I would regain the weight back.
He started taking me out to eat or bringing me food after work. I think he feels like the guy should take the girl out...and feed her. Lol
My dad has always been on to me about my weight when I was little and my mom has told me a few times that my dad has said that this guy is going to make me regain my weight and then he won't want me after that.
I guess that is a weird thing to say when your daughter met a great guy? But my dad isn't the nicest.
So from the beginning I have been afraid of regaining the weight and I did gain about 10-15 pounds this year.
Its tough balancing things. Like I want to spend time with him but also need to exercise. I want to go out to eat with him or stay home and make cookies and watch tv with him...but I also shouldn't be eating those sweets.
Can anyone relate?
And when I tell him why I can't eat XX or need to exercise he says I look beautiful the way I am.