My husband likes how I look actually. Even when I was overweight I was never "curvy"...I was just fat
I am actually in shape because I do regular exercise. But, like the above poster said, this weight becomes draining and to me I see no glamour in it. I can say been there, been that weight....but I am just going to work at maintaing and not losing anymore. I am a vegan--thus my diet is loaded with fruits, veggies, nuts, beans. My point is during maintenance sometimes staying the same weight is as difficult as not gaining more. It all depends on who you are and where you are it. Our society has some rigid standards that few can meet and many don't want to maintain once there!