Idealmuse, I definitely understand where you are coming from! Granted, there are some 300 lb women that aren't able to do more than chair dancing, but alot of us can! When I was at my highest weight (340) I was DANCING in a musical in community theatre four nights a week for two months--one of the numbers was a TAP number at that!
It's too bad TBL won't consider a 300 lb woman. The closest to that, if I recall correctly, is one of the ladies in the engaged couples competition (the taller gal on the red team).
One day at a time is more than just a saying.....
First goal: Back under 300!