[juliebee]

So I was talking to my top boss today and she suddenly stopped talking and said "Wait, have you lost like a ton of weight?? You look great!"
At which point I almost fell over.

[collegebride]

Good for you, that is awesome to hear I bet

[Rosario]

that's always a good thing to hear. WTG!

[juliebee]

Yeah it's kind of exciting as silly as it seems
I'm used to people looking at me in the "oh my how you've gained weight since I last saw you" kind of way, so it was a confidence booster to hear someone say otherwise.

[collegebride]

In my own experience, I have realized how much nicer people are to me when I weigh less. When I was at 130 at the end of high school, many guys my age were nice and respectful. Now a lot of them are exactly the opposite. I don't act any different, I just look different. It sucks how people judge you so much by how you look..but I guess its only natural. I am sure that I do that sometimes myself.

[juliebee]

Originally Posted by collegebride

In my own experience, I have realized how much nicer people are to me when I weigh less. When I was at 130 at the end of high school, many guys my age were nice and respectful. Now a lot of them are exactly the opposite. I don't act any different, I just look different. It sucks how people judge you so much by how you look..but I guess its only natural. I am sure that I do that sometimes myself.

I totally agree. It really is awful how judgemental people can be.

[brismiley]

That is so great to hear .

And I agree about the judging of other ppl.