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u2girl
08-27-2006, 04:22 PM
The Winning Losers
Wk. 8/27/06

Well, it is a new week, full of new experiences, laughs and challenges. Let's get this week kicked off on a postive note. I ran across this quote and loved it:

You've got to say, I think that if I keep working at this and want it badly enough I can have it. It's called perseverance.
Let's persevere ladies and get healthier and lose weight by making good choices in our eating and activity.

Challenge(s) this week*

Water - Shoot for at least 10 8oz. glasses

Physical Activity - Get in some type of activity as many days out of week as you can.

*No one is obligated to participate in the challenges.

Elycia

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Butterfly50
08-27-2006, 05:35 PM
Hey u2girl Man I jest got done doing my WATP and boy . My DH went out and Bought me 4 New videos to do 3 WATP these are different then the ones that I was using. The other is By Jillian Michaels ( The Biggest Winners) She has a whole line of Workout videos and they are all based on Kick boxing I watched it and I am going to try it but it might be a few weeks before I do . She kinda may be feel like I would need alot of strength to do but a real challenge to do it. What makes it cool is that she has a section on the DVD that you put the DVD in the computer ( Must Have A DVD driver) and she has printable workout logs and eating logs and even recipes. It is so cool and then their is a special section on how to get in shape for bikini season. I will have to try the other two that I didnt do taday.

Amany
08-27-2006, 06:08 PM
Hey, has anyone heard from Laramie?? I don't think she's posted in two weeks.

Danielle - Hi there lady. Boy do I know what you mean about coming home from the grocery and being shocked by your purchases. Many times I've gone there hungry and come home with a bunch of costly junk.
I hope to see you around today Chicky. Enjoy the new mama truck. You'll like it more as you get used to it.
BTW, maybe you don't have to do a specific plan. You've learned about a lot of different ones. Maybe just take the best from each plan, decide what you can live with and then do that. Tweak it as you go along. Meanwhile keep at it with the bike and keep hanging out with Bob. :)

IChanged - Welcome, welcome! Sounds like you're doing a good job. Portion control and awareness are very important when you're changing your eating habits.
Please don't be a stranger. Post often!

Tricia - I'm sorry to hear about your electricity going out. I'm glad you're back in business! Great job on your eating though! No big deal about the cornbread. Just keep going.

Melissa - I'm so glad you enjoyed the wedding. Good for you on preparing for the coming week. It's much easier to have success when you're prepared. I love those digital scales!
I can relate with your daughter not wanting to leave. I remember being a kid and hating to leave when there was more fun to be had.

Mia - Great job on the growing bank! :bravo:

Elycia - Your scale calcs body fat? I gotta have one!!! I didn't even know they existed. I'm bidding on one on Ebay right now. Hope I get it! You have all the weight loss info and goodies over there. Plus you've always got something good to share with us. Thanks so much!! I know I've thanked you a million times for even coming up with the idea to start this thread, but thanks again. :hug:

Bonnie - I'm so glad you didn't throw in the towel. We need you around here lady. Don't leave us!! :^: Please....
Yeah, losing lots of weight can affect your cycle. The hormone estrogen is stored in fat cells. When you start losing the fat all that estrogen is released into your blood stream. It can then cause a little havoc at times. Things will eventually normalize.
How sweet of your husband to get those videos for you! He's a beautiful, beautiful man. It's great to have that sort of loving encouragement.

Sara - I love the farmer's market. I haven't had to go recently though because my mom has a bunch of tomatoes, peppers, zucchini, and cucumbers growing in her yard. I'm sooooo spoiled. :)

AquaChick - Great job on the workout. I know what you mean because I was drenched today. You're makin' money chick!!
Good for you on moving past the Snickers craving too. Those cravings can be wicked. Thanks for reminding us that weight loss is mostly mental. We need to read it over and over and over again. One day things will click and we'll all "get it".
I know what you mean about having that food around. Last night my husband and I saw the commercial for lasagna pizza at Pizza Hut. He said that he was going to buy one today. So far I think he's forgotten. I PRAY he doesn't remember!

Needhelp - I'm glad you joined us!

Kandice - There used to be another poster on our thread Rkrs, I think. I'm pretty sure her name was Stacy. She tried the Special K Plan and lost. I don't remember how much though. It seemed that she had good success with it though.

GOOD NEWS!!! I just won my Ebay purchase!!! I'm gonna be able to calculate my body fat!! You know what? All of a sudden I'm feeling a little ambivalent...... :?: :shrug:

BTW, I watched the Harvey Walden dvd last night. :drill: :coach: I'll do it tomorrow. I'm convinced that man has some major, major issues. The workout seems pretty good though. I might be in the minority, but I love that guy. He's so funny! And he doesn't cut them any slack.

Speaking of, did anyone see Celebrity Fit Club today? Angie Stone really got on my nerves. The big guy (I don't remember his name) didn't do her any favors by feeding into her excuses and pity party. The Baywatch chick was lucky to have been voted off. They did her a favor.
Anyway, Angie Stone was making all these excuses and pointing the finger. Meanwhile she was in the bathroom smoking and next week they'll find out that she hasn't been taking her diabetes meds. :rolleyes: Unbelieveable. I can't stand attention greedy, drama queens! :mad:


needhelp27
08-27-2006, 06:44 PM
Im really happy I joined this! I went out with some friends for lunch today and i ordered a salad with dressing on the side (barely used any), a burger with a brown bun and water, I never order a salad and if i do, its cesar salad and i never ask for brown bread and i usually get pop or iced tea so I am really excited to start losing this weight and eating healthier. I walked around the parking lot a bit after (nothing like a workout) but I was content and satisfied. I do need to start walking at least, cause Turbo Jam doesn't come until the first day of school, which is september 5th and its 9 days away so I have do some sort of exercise to warm my body up, cause I haven't done a lot of physical activity (especially not everyday). I don't want to injure myself when I start. Anyways, I'll proabably check on in later for updates from ppl. Thx everyone for supporting me!

Heather;)

Amany
08-27-2006, 07:11 PM
No problem Heather. This is just the best group of ladies!

My current weight is 8 lbs more than yours, and there's only a five pound difference in our goals. I'll be watching. I'm gonna try to keep up with you! :)

Good job on the food choices.

lovethatsara
08-27-2006, 07:11 PM
Share your list! :D

1. My supportive Matt & my family- w/o them i think it would be harder.
2. My Ipod - love those tunes to get me in the mood, or when im frustrated listen to the music and go running
3. The Winning Losers - You guys are one of my biggest supporters. It's nice to have people you can lean on and you guys can lean on me too!
4. INK - wanting tattoos and knowing I cant get anymore until I get to my goal weight. Plus that series INKED makes me really want them.
5. CLOTHES - I have this outfit I bought thats hanging up in my room so I can see it so that I can drive myself to one day fit in it.

AquaChick
08-27-2006, 07:20 PM
u2girl- Hi sweetie! I really like the intro to this thread! :)

Butterfly50- Sounds like you're doing good!

Amany- Gotta love putting money in the "fat box"... :D You are doing so good. I thought about trying out the CFC, but, Harvey scares me!!! I guess that's his job, but I don't respond well to being hollered at. I'm hard headed that way... lol...I love CFC though! More inspiration to add to my stash.

needhelp27- I'm happy you joined too. :)

Top 5

1. My old clothes I have hanging in front of the treadmill. They are size 5/6. It's like the carrot on a pole. (think of old bugs bunny cartoons, they used the carrot as a "lure". lol...
2. My husband. He made me really upset about a bowl of cereal, yet he orders delectable cuisine that is loaded with what I am not allowed to have. I am displaying my will and he will know that I am quite capable of doing this despite either of those extremes. (all in all though he has told me how proud he is of me and he is sorry about the cereal incident, quite embarassing for him)
3.My health. I have heart issues, and I want to live to 100 or more. I'm sick of high blood pressure.
4. The back of my legs. I have what I have dubbed "ham ***". You know, those cans of ham...lol... I laugh and cry over it, but "ham ***" is about to be gone forever, I ain't even playing around. (that was a brutally honest motivation confession)
5. Feeling beautiful. I think this is in my head more than anything, but I hide under big clothes. (too big really). I want to walk around and feel like I can move with grace and dexterity, and feel beautiful. I think it will make me happier.

Amany
08-27-2006, 07:24 PM
1. My fear of having a problem pregnancy due to being overweight.
2. The Winning Losers!
3. Having an eating plan that doesn't leave me hungry or with cravings.
4. My husband's constant support.
5. Exercise. I am falling in love with exercise and it's rewarding me.

Hun.e.B
08-27-2006, 08:12 PM
Good Afternoon ladies!! thought I'd pop in and check on you guys before the game starts. We are HUGE Denver Bronco fans in this house and the game is on tonight, plus big brother, plus the emmys! Sheesh with a schedule like this you'd think i was a couch potato...naaa not me! LOL!!

My top 5 things that help me lose weight:
1. Support support support!! I would say being an active member of a group like this is what drive me and keep me on track the most.
2. My girls, when I dont want to do it I just tell myself its for them, and lets face it I'll do anything for them, but mostly I want to live for them!
3. Journaling, I find that I stick to plan much better if I journal daily.
4. Drinking water!
5. Graduation coming!

I hope everyone has a wonderful night!! I'm having my official weigh in tomorrow morning on the new scale, and tonight is a free for all! We are having tenderloin, mashed potatoes and corn on the cob for dinner...oye!

AquaChick
08-27-2006, 08:25 PM
lol, we are Vikings fans over here.Yes, we bleed purple, or my husband will kick us all out of the house. I am going to get a brand spanking new Viking T-shirt when I lose my weight, it's a gift from hubby. That and a nice big bottle of Victoria's Secret lotion and Body spray. Mmmmmm, I love that stuff!

brat_61886
08-27-2006, 10:03 PM
Hey Ladies, I'm baaaaaaaaaack!!!! lol i'm glad to be back. i love my grandparents but i get tired of answering to them about everything. i lost five pounds there tho so i'm happy about that. Anyways i need to get all my stuff put away but i wanted to say hey to everyone and hope everyone has been doing good!!!!!!

Butterfly50
08-27-2006, 10:04 PM
Ladies good evening I jest got back from my two mile walk.


My top five would be.

1. My husband and Children
2. The winning Losers
3. Exercise
4. Being actually full now when I eat.
5. To know that I am giving myself a chance to stick around longer and see my kids grow up.

Let me tell you My DH blesss his heart went over to the convient store across the street to buy my daughters some Slim Jims and Came back and said I got you a bag of Skittles. I took them and Didnt say anything. I looked at them and they have 250 Calories per bag. I set then aside he asked me if I was going to eat then and I said sorry but I dont need that 250 calories. He looked at me and said he was sorry he wasnt thinking. They are still sitting on the top of the frig.

I gtg get my kids in the bed school tomorrow.

u2girl
08-27-2006, 10:19 PM
Hello Ladies:

Glad to see that everyone is doing well and ready to get a new week started.

Aww, Bonnie that is so sweet that your husband went out and bought you those new workouts. That was so thoughtful. Now you have some new workouts to add some variety. I am glad that you have support in your home. Jillian Michael workouts, yep I know of those. I have not done them though. I may rent from Blockbuster to check it out and if I like it well enough, I will buy. Let me know what you think of it. My 10% goal is to buy a new workout, so if I like it, maybe Jillian will be it. Let us know what you think of your new WATP. I have a few of them, but I still need to get Walk & Kick. :)

Amanda, thanx for the thanx, but you know that this check-in wouldn't be a thing if you guys weren't so good at posting and being encouraging. I am very thankful to you guys. Accountability here has helped me so much and you guys keep me pumped up! It's great! Glad that you won the scale. I hope you like it. I tell ya, I don't even fool with Ebay anymore because I get so frustrated with it. I will bid on the most obscure things and someone else bids on it. It's like - Give Me A BREAK, somebody really wants this? I have to get in bidding wars with everything, so very seldom do I go to Ebay. It use to be one of my favorite places. Anyways, congrats on your scale. Now you have a new motivator ~~ watching the body fat percentage lower. :) I hear ya on trying to keep up with Heather since you have similar goals. I thrive on a little healthy competition. :D

Heather, good job on the eating today. You made some great choices. I know what you mean about salads. Last week, I ate a salad for lunch and lord knows that is the unusual for me. You are doing wonderful and it sounds like you are determined to lose weight. That is great! If you stick with us and keep your determination, you will be wearing that small size dress for your graduation/prom. Hang in there Heather. :)

Sara, I am so glad that you feel that we are supporters to you. Losing weight is not an easy job, so you need all the support that you can get. We are happy to have you. :)

Motivations

ETA: I think I misunderstood the question. I thought it was talking about support, but from others responses, I think it is talking about motivations.

1) My Family - My number 1 motivations are by beautiful daughters. I don't want them to imitate my bad eating habits and have weight issues, so I want to get it under control NOW. Also, my wonderful husband Stan. He is very cooperative and supportive.
2) My girls here at "The Winning Losers". You girls are awesome and a tremendous help in keeping my mind focused and giving me a good laugh now and again.
3) Fitday.com. It has helped me because I know exactly what I put in my mouth and makes me keep a watchful eye on what I eat. Great site and free.
4) Ya-Ya's. A great fitness forum that gives support and answers any questions, I may have regarding fitness and weight loss. I also keep a journal there of how I am feeling from day to day and sometimes others pop in to encourage me. That helps alot.
5) My sister. She is a good bit heavier than me and she really wants to lose weight. She has not been eating any fast food or drinking pop right alongside me. Not wanting to stumble her has kept me in line as well.

Aqua, I am glad that you liked the intro. Your support and motivators are great!

Melissa, hope you are enjoying the game and your new scale. :)

Well, I hear one of my little ones. I gotta go.

Ciao!

Elycia

sapphire35
08-27-2006, 11:32 PM
Hello Ladies!:wave:

Warm WELCOME to the new ladies, Heather, Icanchange, Altari. You ladies are going to love the support.

Heather great job at lunch with your friends.;)

I have been so busy this weekend. My gym is closed on Sundays (Ladies of America) so I'm going to make that my day off from exercise. I only got in 4 days of exercise this week, but I'll catch up with you ladies that are doing 2 mile walks and 6 days of solid exercise.:)

With the support of Winning Losers my first week was a real success. :D I lost 3 lbs ( water weight). And i thank you ladies for that. My second week should be a breeze I Hope. My husband brought me home some coolers saturday night and i refused them due to the sugar and carbs. So I know my head is on straight this time. Because I generally would have wolfed them down..

I will have to catch up on personals later. You chicks are on a role lately.
Gotta go babie needs to go to bed. She doesn't sleep until I do, she likes to cuddle.

1. My Miracle babie. If she can survive being 1lb 3oz then I can definitely loose this weight so that I can take care of her as I should. Unitl she no longer needs that mommie support.

2. Winning Losers!!!!!:carrot: :carrot: :carrot: :carrot: :carrot:

3. My legs rubbing together, that drives me nuts.:mad:

4. Exercise:jig:

5. Health

u2girl I'm all for the challenge this week. I failed on the water 2 days last week and had to do 40 squats at the office. 10 squats an hour if I fail, so what does that tell yah.:o

Talk to you guys later. Glad there is a new thread now I can keep up better again.

Altari
08-27-2006, 11:52 PM
Elycia I love the quote! It's so entirely true.

Bonnie How are the Jillian tapes (besides hard)? Are they easy to follow? Are they expensive? Do they require equipment? I hadn't heard anything about those! I've been doing TurboJam and it's really getting to me, but I can already see the results. Only 2 pounds gone, but 11.5 inches have flown away.

Amanda I didn't see CFC, I was at work. :mad: Is there any place to download it that you know of? That's the only way I can get my TV show fixes

Heather great job on the salad! Send some of your willpower this way. It's awesome that you can resist the temptation to splurge while you're out.

Top Five

Seeing my reflection in the window
Having shirts ride up just a little through the waist
My stack of size 12 clothes
Giving my daughters a healthy body image
Being able to keep up with DH

AquaChick
08-28-2006, 06:36 AM
:sunny: Good Morning Ladies! :sunny: :cofdate:

brat_61886- Hi! :hug: Glad to see you back! Way to go on the 5 pound loss! Man, that is awesome! :high:

Butterfly50- Good job letting those skittles alone! This is really good you did this. It was an act of kindness on your husbands part, but now he knows, and he can see what you are trying to do- which takes a lot out of a person to resist, so it is probably good that it happened. :)

u2girl- Hi!

sapphire35- Yay 3 pound loss!!!! :carrot:

Altari- Oooooh, good one, reflections in the store windows make me e-mo-tion-al!!! Especially the walking in view, I can see the front of my thighs. I also wear my husbands clothes (even though he weighs less than me, he wear XL so it is baggy on him) Sheesh, another motivator for me could just be wearing women's clothes and feeling feminine for the first time in a very long time!

I'm in a pretty good mood this morning. Hubby told me last night he is very happy for me, and proud of how I resisted all those fattening yum yum's he put under my nose.

Amany
08-28-2006, 07:31 AM
Whew!! I just completed Donna Richardson's 30 Days to Slimmer Arms and Abs. I loved the toning and stretching sections. They're really challenging. The aerobic part is even more challenging cause it's gonna take me a week to get all that dancing! :mad: So I'll be doing it every morning this week until I get it. Dang it!

AquaChick - I agree. Harvey is really scary, but there's nothing he can do to me from the television set. ;) On the video it's funny when he says things like, "Suck in the danggone gut and do the danggone warm up." or "You will git off yo butt and do it!". :lol:
Isn't it great when your husband notices how hard you've been working? Awww.... It seems like he's really starting to empathize with what you've been going through. Good for him! You've been doing a great job of resisting those temptations.

Oh, Danielle.... Where are you Chicky??? :?: Hope you had a great weekend.

Melissa - Let us know how the weigh in goes. I'm cheering for you! :carrot: Did you ever pick up your mat?

Hey Britt!! - Congrats on the 5 pounds girlie. So good to have you back. :hug:

Elycia - Don't give up on Ebay so soon! :lol: I just looooove Ebay! Sometimes I get carried away though. Sometimes I buy things and forget. I don't remember it until it arrives!
I got a Tania 2001 fat calculating scale. With the shipping it all came to about $14.

Sapphire - Fantastic job on the exercise. Pretty soon you'll be a workout queen like Bonnie. So glad to hear about your miracle baby. What a blessing. She's been fighter from the very beginning, huh?
Congrats on the weight loss.

Hi Altari. You can catch CFC again. VH-1 will replay a billion times between now and next Sunday. It was a great one too. Lotsa drama, just the way I like it!!1 ;)
You're doing a fantastic job by the way. 11.5 inches! That's outstanding girl. :bravo:

Bonnie! Your husband is just the sweetest guy. Yeah, they forget things sometimes, but he was thinking of you. :)

Well, I'd better start getting ready for work. My husband is on the couch knocked out. He gets up with me at 445 to keep me company (not participate :lol:) when I exercise. Then he falls asleep! :) Oh well. His heart is in the right place.

Remeber ladies to challenge yourselves this week with the exercise!! At least 4 days of aerobics, at least 15 minutes each time. If you haven't started, then start! If you've been doing it, then kick it up a notch!! BAM!!! Oh wait.... I was having an Emeril moment. I'm sorry I forgot where I was....

u2girl
08-28-2006, 09:03 AM
Good Morning Ladies:

I start my new job, well training, this morning, so i definitely won't be around as much. I am going to have to play catch up because I know you guys will be posting away.

Hello Brat, congrats on that weight loss and welcome back!

Sapphire, congrats on that weight loss. It's a good idea to compensate in another way when you don't meet your goal of water. Good idea!

Altari, I hear ya on the shirts riding up around my waist. I bought a shirt without trying it on not too long ago and I was like "What is going on?" That sucker kept riding up. It was making me so mad. I put that shirt away and haven't worn it since. It will be nice when you whittle down that waist. Don't give up and neither will I. We will be there soon. :)

Bonnie, I missed your skittles post. Good for you. Wow, you are doing great! That is definitely an NSV in my book. You passed on a snack that would have cost you 250 calories. Even making sure that you look at the labels is great. Great job, Bonnie! Great job!

Aqua, I am so glad that your husband is being more cooperative. Now we just have to stop him from eating that fattening stuff in front of ya. Well, there is a good side to that. If you can PERSEVERE through that, you are really seeing your strength. You are seeing how strong you are and that will help you in moments of weakness. You are doing great Aqua!

Amanda, it sounds like you have a variety of workouts as well. That is great! Variety is the spice of life as they say. That's so nice that your hubby gets up to support you. I wish my husband would because if he did, I could probably get him to workout with me. It was so funny, one time I did a FIRM workout and tried to get him to do it. My husband is such a "guy", and he was like :NO WAAAAY! That's a girly workout. " I got him some Gilad, but he really can't stand working out. I will get him though. :D

Well, I gotta work with my girls. Unbelievably, they are still sleeping. What is up with that? :?:

Well, I will talk with you guys later and let you know how today was.

Ciao!

Elycia

TriciaK
08-28-2006, 09:23 AM
I can hadly believe that it is Monday already and I am seriously getting ready to go back to school. I just took about 6 trips to the car to load up boxes to take to school. My finace is still sleeping. I told him he had to get up at 830 so I am letting him sleep til then. I cannot wait to see my classroom. Someone told me no air and that it is the hottest class in the school... not something to look forward to, but oh well, some teachers do not even have a classroom.

Well, the brunch was a bust.... it was bad food galore. THe choices were eggs benedict, prime rib or begian waffles... I went with the belgian waffle with fruit. I also ended up eating junk like bacon and sausage. My body did not appreciate that on bit. I became very ill when I arrived home. I think it was the combination of too much grease. My body just was saying no way... so it goes to show you that when you are getting your body in check, it will let you know what it accepts in it. ha ha..

it sounds like you have alll done a most incredible job. I am hopingthat I can post tonight after i am done at school, but I am staying at Michael's. If I cannot, I am thinking of you all... make good choices today....:carrot:

Butterfly50
08-28-2006, 09:44 AM
Altari I havnt done Jillian yet I was thinking of giving it a shot today. Since Dh and DS has gone to work and the other kids are at school. I watched it and it seems very tough. The one I got was not expensive I got it at Kmart for 9.99 that . I almost flipped I thought it would of been more then that. I believe their are some that need like the step bench to use I dont know for sure Ithink iam going to search the internet and see what up.


Elycia I got my Walk and Kick from Walley world it was only 9'99. Not a bad price You can only find them in the Exercise Section in sporting goods. The three I got yesturday was Two in the weight Loss Series 30 min walk and then Walk and strong and that one every few minutes they do strenght traning then the last one was The walk Diet 1 and 2 miles on one dvd. other two was only 9,99 and the one with 1 and 2 was 12,99 that wasnt bad at all.My husband asked me last night If I wanted to go get some more and I told him not right now may be later after I get my new computer out of layaway. Then Iam getting high speed service. :carrot:

For everyone else I hope everyone has a wonderful day.

kandices2ndtry
08-28-2006, 09:46 AM
Hey everyone! :wave: Happy Monday Morning!

My 2cents for the day- don't forget to drink milk during your diets. 9 out of 10 girls and 7 out of 10 boys don't drink enough milk- on my milk carton this AM. we want toned muscles and healthy bones!

it's going to be a busy and tempting week though- esp the end. the battle of the bridge football game- we take football seriously down here in NC. against the city across the river. that's on friday and the whole town goes! seriously my first year of living down here and they played I went out that night and the streets were empty and I mentioned it to the coworkers "gee, there were no cars on the street last night" "oh it was the battle of the bridge" and You always have to get food. - hotdogs or burgers and peanuts... we have a couple of birthdays in the office this week and everyone gets a cake and gets to go out to eat. ugh.

ANyone have a good reliable pedometer? I had a couple cheap ones before and it never seems to record all my steps. Sometime I'll count and then check it and it's not right. where can I get one?

Back to 208 this AM but I will do better this week. still it was 3 lbs last week...


Amanda- congrats on the ebay purchase- I saw those at walmart- I thought I'd like one too because we all know muscle weighs more than fat. make sure you post your results!
Thanks for the motivation challenge- least 4 days of 15 minutes! we all should be able to do that!

Heather- welcome! These are a great group of supportive ladies. I was an overweight teen all through highschool - I'm 26 now- but I was always in a 16/18. had 1 boyfriend. definitely does something to your selfesteem! so all the best- and we'll be here to keep you in line! good choices the other day!

5 things that help weight loss?
1. the clothes I used to wear and want to get back in them and the easier shopping trips.
2. of course the winning losers- I said when I first rejoined that I need you guys!
3. kinda goes with number 1 but seeing my muscles- I know they exist and I like seeing them esp my strong legs- quads and hamstrings and my tight belly/abs. I know it's there and I want to see it again!
4. water- while drinking so much water throughout the day I tend to stay away from the worse soda and koolaid.
5. stamina, wanting to be able to do more activity without getting winded so soon. My DH and I walk for almost everything- march of dimes, race for the cure... and I feel silly getting out of breath so soon, so working up to that.

bonnie- I look at the labels now too and make decisions off of that. wtg on passing on the skittles.

trish- oohhh that drives me crazy too- the thighs rubbing together. that's a good one!

off to do some work- will check in later!

Amany
08-28-2006, 10:54 AM
Hello Lovelies!!

Hey, I have a little tip for you. Try holding your stomach in for as much as you can during the day. As you do it more, it will become easier. Here's why....

1. It will strengthen your abdominal muscles, giving you a sleeker look.
2. When your abs are stronger, they will help the back support you. That way all of the strain is not on the back.
3. This will force you to use your lungs more. A lot of us have a tendency to inhale and exhale using our stomachs more than our lungs; sometimes causing the stomach to stretch. So this will also make the lungs stronger.
4. Muscle burns fat even while you're at rest. Adding muscle boosts your metabolim. BTW, the real reason that our metabolism slows down as we get older is that due to our lose of muscle as we age. Build a little muscle, burn a little more fat. You don't have to be bulky. Lean muscle is what we're going for right? Muscle tone.

Kandice - I hate milk!! Yuck! :mad: Got my yogurt though! :D
Hey, a three pound weight loss is still good news.

Bonnie - Having variety with your workouts will make them better. At least it does for me. It takes the boredom out of it, and prevents my muscles from getting complacent.

Tricia - I hope your week, even with it's challenges, will feel like a breeze. Or at least breeze by :lol: I know what you mean about your body letting you know that it doesn't want certain things. I ate some full calorie, full fat ice cream about a month ago. Oh, did I suffer...

Elycia - Have a great day today lady. Sometimes I'm grateful for when my husband falls asleep during my work outs. He thinks some of them are hilarious. So he laughs, which makes me laugh and throws me completely off. He was up for like the first 5 minutes or so of my Donna Richardson work out today and he was like, "It looks like you're in a Janet Jackson video.". Then he started singing "Control" and laughing. He's a mess! :lol:

Hun.e.B
08-28-2006, 11:20 AM
Hi ho Hi ho its off to school I go! LOL! Just had to pop in and let you all know the horrible ugly details!.....248.6 OUCH!!! Big difference from my other scale, but I can see it once and let it all be down down down from here right!

I'll be back to catch up with everyone this afternoon, I'm running late and parking is usually a nightmare, but I had to wish you all a FANTASTIC on plan day!!

~melissa

AquaChick
08-28-2006, 11:28 AM
Amany- It is pretty great to feel noticed. :) I guess Harvey is just doin' his doggone job. :D
I hope I'm not stepiing on anyone's toes or offending anyone when I say this, but some of those fit clubbers p@#$ me off! I know we all have a tendancy to fight with our food and lose. I know, I understand. But, we do not have personal one on one help the way these people do. The audacity to order a pastrami sandwich, carrot cake, to moan about her heart (I do not have congested heart failure, granted)but I do have an arrythmia that freaked me out too when I began my journey.(remember? ;) ) But once my cardiologist said, Ma'am, you are overweight. You need to help yourself to feel better- I knew I had to push past my fear of dropping dead, and get some sense when it came to how to eat to lose weight (ahem*liquid diet*cough*). She is keeping that crutch even though her cardiolgist basically gave her a green flag, told her nutritionist she needs this, and told her it was to get a little better. (you never recover from congested heart failure) She's also diabetic, what the **** is she doing eating all that bread and carrot cake? :mad: I guess I am mad because people that keep wishing never get anywhere. I'd be mad if she was on my team. Excuses. If you don't really want to, it's your business. She should have never signed up for the show. Man I'd go batty if my husband wanted to chat while I worked out. :dizzy: Me: muscle....burning.... ouch..ow..ow...ow... *looks at husband looking at me* WILL YOU GET OUT OF HERE so I can whimper in peace..." lol....


u2girl- Good luck on the new job today! :hug:


TriciaK- It's hard to say no when you are out with people at something like that. I am barely learning to grasp ahold of myself with stuff like that. I haven't had to go out to dinner with anyone yet. I'm such an obsesser...I'm already figuring out what I will order out of an array of like 5 different places that we will probably could be having dinner at with my in-laws in the near future. I'm just gonna say it, and not look back. What's hard is when people say things like "that's it? Oh, honey, eat, we're here to have a good time" :rolleyes: They wanna derail your diet, and make you feel like your commiting a crime by trying to teach yourself a new way of living. My family is sooooooo bad about that. My mom gets mad if I order salad in a public place! :lol: I know for a fact it's because she doesn't want to see me eat healthier than her. Her and my sister are bad about just dropping by McDonald's and getting you some lunch to be "nice"- er, when they know you're on a diet.... I have no respect for that kind of sabotage, and I have been mentally prepping myself to stand up for myself and say something like "Thanks anyway, but I don't eat like that anymore". I've worked too hard. It's about us baby!!! For once!!! To us! :cheers:

Butterfly50- Hi! I hope your day is going wonderful! :hug:

kandices2ndtry- I hate milk. :( I do take calcium supplements, do you think this is enough? Calcium is so important, I know.
We take football dead serious in this house too...well, my husband does, I'm dragged along for the ride. Pretty soon I am going to be designated to cook a feast for his friends for a game. I love doing it, I really do. It makes them so happy, but the temptation will be unbearable.
My sister has been overweight her whole life. I can't remember her being small. I feel bad, because she was the youngest and I was the second youngest. My mom totally gave up on cooking and we were raised on McDonald's and other fast foods, I believe with all my heart that set her down the road to obesity before she was 5 years old. By the time I was a Freshman in high school, I got sick of it and refused it. It gave me a special appreciation for home cookin'. Of course now I have to eat frozen dinners to put myself in check... :rolleyes: McDonald's is highly addictive though, I think because they put so much sugar in it. My sister will go almost daily- even if she has to hide the fact. :(
I picked up my ice cream habit from both of my parents. My mother hid and ate it at night while we slept, my father would blatantly smash a cookie or peice of cake into a premium vanilla every night. Then he would look at me and say, "this is awful. I only have a fat belly because of this habit." I still picked up the tradition though and my Haagen Daaz habit added over 70 pounds to my 110 pound frame!!! I think if my husband brought something like that in the house right now I'd break down and cry. It is a drug to me. :(

Okay sweeties, I'm on a ramble this morning. I don't know what got into me, I must've had an adreniline rush from my morning workout... lol...:carrot:
You all have a good day, I'll be back tonight to check on ya...

AquaChick
08-28-2006, 11:31 AM
Hun.e.B- Have a great day, and don't worry about the dumb old scale! :)

Amany- Oooooooohhhhh, that is a solid tip! Thank you! :)

Butterfly50
08-28-2006, 11:59 AM
Jest something Quick. OMG I tried to do Jillian but I did the 5 min warm up and then 5 minutes into I was so exhausted and tired I could hardley catch my breath so I think Iam going to use it as a gaol . Witch will be the next time I do it I would like to get beyond the 5 min warm up and 5 minutes of the exercise. Before long I know I will be able to finish the whole thing. Yeah that will be great.

I looked into the Jillain videos and she has 4 videos. I went to collagevideos and it lets you have a 60 sec preview of the videos. But boy they cost Any where you can get them cheaper??? Let me know.

Thanks for the encouragment on the skittles they are still on top of the frige. I started the BL diet and it is full filling Im not hungry I look at the clock and think boy its time to eat again. This jest might be what I was looking for and its real food. Dairy, Protein, Veggies and fruit and it even lets you have whole grains. GTG lots to do 2 more days till granddaughter gets here.

iwantnewpants
08-28-2006, 12:11 PM
Good Morning Lady Girls!

It's been several days since I posted.....our computer system at the office was going HAYWIRE! Anywho, it's great to see some new members. Altari...I noticed you live in Chicago, so do I! What a great city, eh?!

I continued training for my breast cancer walk this weekend and did 14 miles on Saturday! It was TOUGH! But I felt so good afterwards (even though I couldn't really walk). Ha!

I love the 5 motivations.....so here are mine:

1. My high school cheerleading picture. I know that sounds ridiculous because it will be very difficult to get down to that weight, but it is a great piece of motivation.

2. My sister.....she just had twins and weighs about the same as I do right now. So (though I haven't told her), I've decided to "compete" with her in terms of weight loss. It's healthy competition. And my theory is that if she can handle two babies and a healthy lifestyle....I certainly should be able to!

3. My boyfriend.....for 2 reasons. First, he is so supportive and has made it abundantly clear that he loves me no matter what. Last night he told me that he would love me if I was 900 pounds and grew a third leg. He said we could start our own circus! Hahahahaha! He has such an amazing sense of humor and keeps me in smiles. Second, he weighs less than I do....about 170, so my first goal is to weigh less than him.....then I'll set another goal from there.

4. The Winning Losers! Though I've only been a part of this group for a short time, you guys are so inspiring. And I love the fact that we all come from different backgrounds and have different lives and are surrounded by different people......yet we all share this common goal! It's SO great!

5. WATER. I love water. I can't say this enough. I drink soooooooo much water and it really helps curb my appetite and ward off cravings. It's FANTASTIC!

Now for some shout outs!

Bonnie....way to go on the Skittles! And it's awesome that they're still sitting on top of your fridge. I would have had to give or throw them away! That is really really cool!

Aqua....I'm with you on Harvey. He scares the pants off me. I actually think Billy Blanks is really scary too. But, CFC, is AWESOME this season! I mean the drama of course. I was really annoyed at Angie too. This week was all about excuses. My favorite is Bone Crusher. He's so funny! And it seems like he's really sticking to the plan. Did you see him sumo wrestling?! Comedy at it's finest.

Amany....you're so inspiring. Getting so excited about a scale! That's so great! And I think you have about the nicest husband in the world. That's really cute that he gets up with you so that you have company.

U2Girl....good luck with the new job! Change can be scary, but is ultimately so exciting and so much fun.

Sapphire....your baby is really an amazing source of motivation. My eyes definitely welled up when I read about that being one of your motivations. That is so sweet. Obviously toughness runs in the family so I am pulling for you!

Tricia....I definitely know what you mean about the body rejecting certain things once you start eating more "cleanly". I find that my body even gets to the point of no longer craving certain things (like refined sugar, "bad" carbs, "bad" fats) when I've been eating healthily. I'm sorry you didn't feel well, but seriously, that's a really good sign. Way to go! You've obviously been taking very good care of yourself!

Hun.e.B....I can certainly relate to the scale plight. That happened to me last week. But, you just look at that number and say "fine." And know in your heart and mind that you won't have to look at that number for very long! And when you reach your goal weight.....you can brag about how much you lost! Woo hoo!

Okay, I know I missed a bunch of people, but love love love to everyone! 2 more days until my next weigh in!

Liz

sapphire35
08-28-2006, 12:15 PM
:( :flow1: :flow1: Good Morning Everyone

I hope everyone had a great weekend. Weekends come and go so quick. I do all my running errors on the weekend because I don't have much time during the week.
You Guys Are Not Going To Believe These Turn Of Events
I went to a friends funeral this weekend. He was diving off a clif in Hawaii and hit a coral reef and broke his neck. Very good swimmer, he didn't realize of course that it was shallow there. Very sad and unexpected 39 yrs old. Get this on top of all that, another friend of our family daughter just died on Friday. She was walking in St.louis and collapsed and died. Tashia has been on drugs off and on for a while tho. She got clean again and got married, was doing great. Has a three year old son and 16yr old daughter. She had the daughter at 15yr old. We definitely believe she lapsed and got a hold of some bad drugs. Her funeral is Wednesday. I know your not going to believe me but another friend of mines baby just died 8.5 months old. Cardiac arrest, this one really broke my heart. :( She was a preemie survivor like my daughter and was born 1lb 4oz. She never got to leave the hospital. OKAY sorry for that downer news.:( I just had to get all that.

Brit Great job on the 5lbs. :carrot: Gotta love those grandaparents. There so Sweet aren't they!!

Kandice I thought we couldn't really indulge in milk. And I don't like skim milk at all. But I love 2% milk but have not been drinking any since I started this diet. I can drink a gallon of 2% in 2 days.

Tricia Well tricia its time to get back to the books.:) Good Luck at your new school. Lets us know how your first day went.

Elycia[/COLOR] I don't undestand e-bay either. I mean I guess I understand it, but I can never out bid anybody. It just keeps going and going. I don't like the amount of time they give you to bid like 6 days or something weird like that.
I agree with you whole heartedly on how this group Winning Losers make you check-in. Its really exciting just to see what people are doing and check on there goal accomplishments.

Amanda If you get up at 4:45am, geeze what time do you go to bed? Your husbands sounds great, nice support. You're definitely and inspiration to follow. Your're like a machine right now.:coach:

Aquachick Glad to hear you're having a good day especially on a MONDAY. I'm glad your husband is being nice and thoughtfull. Family and spousal support is key to our success right now.

Okay if your still reading sorry for the long post. Lol. Did anyone see Fantasia from American Idol show about her life on Lifetime last week? It was really good I watched it twice. Lifetime reported that that was the biggest rating they have ever gotten in there history on television.

How About Tiger Woods yesterday, :carrot: Love him.

miafluker
08-28-2006, 12:18 PM
im with you im ready for this week u2 good luck on your first day of work, and everyone else thanx for the good tips i need them my 5
1. well during the preg. with my 6 month old i had gestational diabetes and pelvic dislocation (which dr said my size contributed) i was put on bedrest from 7months to birth, and she weighed 9lbs 11oz
2. to be a healthy role model for my girls
3. you guys keep me going
4. to build my self esteem so i can see what my husband sees in me
5. so i can become more active and fit into my clothes in the closet( im still wearing maternity tops)



i have a ? have anyone done pilates i have the old winsor tapes and i watched them the other day and the exercises look close to impossible to do i accidently said out loud i cant do that crap im not flexiable of course my dear old husband heard me and go on my case about being so negative anyways for anyone that kinda heavy are these exercises doable?
thanks
i hope everyone has a great day

iwantnewpants
08-28-2006, 12:56 PM
Oh my gosh, Sapphire. My heart goes out to you. That is such a horrible turn of events. I don't even know what to say. Hang in there.

Miafluker....to answer your pilates question....I have done Windsor pilates and I love it. It definitely is hard, but you can modify just about all the exercises and then work towards doing them "hardcore".....and then work your way up to the longer tapes from there. And you will notice results IMMEDIATELY. You feel infinitely more toned after just one session. It helps with flexibility. I have back problems and I find that it has really helped with that...I think mainly because you are strengthening your core. I've found that it even helps with my posture. And even that 20 minute workout feels like quite a workout! Good luck! Let me know if you try it!

Liz

lovethatsara
08-28-2006, 01:51 PM
Good Morning ladies, I am glad to see that everyone enjoyed the 5 reasons that help me with my weight loss. I thought it would be kinda fun and it was interesting to see everyones reasons. I could relate to almost all of them :) I'll write more when I get off of work I just wanted to say I miss you guys and Keep up the great work :)

kandices2ndtry
08-28-2006, 01:54 PM
melissa- sorry about the scale but now you know and that'll be the last time you'll see that number!

it's just calcium I believe. I don't know I've seen conflicting things about milk. Curves has a milk campaign and then other places I see don't drink milk. I got freaked out a little while ago because my maternal g-grandma broke her hip and my materal grandma has had problems with her back all her life and my dad's mom- has shrunk so much. I started taking Tums just for the calcium. now I take the multivitamin and it has everything in it, but still- something to think about. strong bones, healthy heart!

Liz- that's great- HS cheering picture. When I got down before I think I was even smaller than I was in HS. All I can ever remember is being size 14/16/18 and at 175 I was starting to fit in some 12s. my 10th year reunion will be coming up in 2008 and I would love to go back to it looking good and esp to rub it in a couple of people's faces that called me names. shallow I know, but there has got to be a piece of that in everyone.

Trish- wow, sorry for all the events this weekend! we'll keep your family and friends in our prayers!

question- I was originally going to ask if there were any males but it could be anyone- are there any people in your life that bring you down re: your weight? several of us have spoke a little about this anyways....

mine- not directly, my my father just left my stepmom- well in April this year, after 20 years of marraige (20 years- 8/16/06) because of her obesity. he said he couldn't stand to look at her anymore and had asked her to change and she wouldn't. (I'm not a good judge of weight on a person because I don't think I look 200 lbs but I'd say she's 5'6 and 300 or 325)
While I know that my DH is not my dad, and I'm not as big as my stepmom, and I KNOW my DH would never leave based on that alone, it is a thought that I have in my head sometimes. like I looked GOOD at the wedding and now I'm big again (I was this weight when he met me though) but you know what I mean, I want to take care of myself for him too.... so my answer would be my dad.

needhelp27
08-28-2006, 02:10 PM
Hey ladies,

Guess what! My mom baked an apple pie yesterday and offered me some...and she makes the best apple pie ever, i'm not even joking, its soooo good, and I said NO! well i said no thank you lol but you get my drift! I went up to my room and almost cried cuz i was so happy and then i drank a bottle of water in like a minute to try and not think about the apple pie! Then I went out with a few friends last night and we went to tim hortons (canadian donought shop like krispy cream but not as good.. if you don't know what it is) and they have the BEST iced cappuchino's in the universe and one of the guy's parents came and offered to buy us all one, and I said no also but it was really hard and I was like maybe I should just cheat this once then I thought of my goal and I said no. Then we went to a park which has a river beside it and me and another girl went swimming with our clothes on, it was fun... and then we sat on the beach after and we were really cold lol. Anyways even tho I just started this whole new outlook on life, etc. I will tell you my top 5 motivations...

1) Like someone said before but I can't remember who... to get legs where they don't rub together when i walk cuz I hate that too!:mad:
2) You guys, u guys are awesome and I really doubt that I would be able to keep going if it weren't for you guys!
3) My graduation...I hate pictures and graduation is when there are A LOT of camera's around and I don't wanna be the fat girl in the pic or if I am in the background I don't want ppl asking who's that big girl in the background. And I want to fit into a size 6-10 dress because my friend want to take me dress shopping in Spokane, Washington at David's Bridal (Prom) and I don't want to have to look for a size 18W when we go.
4) The look on some people's faces when I get to be a size 6 and who used to call me names because of my weight.
5) Health... I want to live till at least 95 and my dad's side of the family has a lot of health problems and I don't want the same sorts of health problems when I get to be older. My dad's side has heart problems, diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, high blood sugar, cancer and my mom's side has arthritis and cancer. So I don't have that great of genes and I hate needles so I am determind not to get diabetes. I also want to be a healthy young mom and be able to run after my kids and not have to stop every few minutes for a rest.

Everyone have a great day and keep working hard, we are all here for you no matter what!

kandices2ndtry
08-28-2006, 02:44 PM
needhelp! you're doing great!

needhelp27
08-28-2006, 02:52 PM
Thanks, do you have msn messenger?

kandices2ndtry
08-28-2006, 03:00 PM
no- just AOL-IM, sorry! you can pm me anytime or I can give you my email address.

Butterfly50
08-28-2006, 03:01 PM
Heather Way to go on saying no:bravo: .I still have the Skittles on the Fridge I think I will let me girls have them when they get home from school today. It is real hard to Say no all the time But these Ladies are making it easier for me to do that. I knw what youa re saying about Kids at school . I can never remember a day going by that someone didnt tease me in school. My heart goes out to all kids or adults that gets teased Not much fun. Keep up the good work Graduation going to be here before you know it and you will great. I never had one I got married when I was 16 and Never went back to school:(

Kandice I know all about tums I take them for heart burn though. But I was looking threw my diets ( I have Several) I wanted one that let me have dairy most of them dont. I believe that your body needs it It very important to your body.

Sara I hope that youa re having a good day at work.:)

Liz I have the windsor pilates but I never looked at them I have about 200 Exercise Videos. I have a set of the firm too I jest could never get into them. Any suggestions.

Mia I hope that your day is going great for you. So far mine is HAve to drink more of my water though.

Trish Iam very sorry for your loss I hope that your day gets Brighter:flow1:

By the way who is Harvey and what does he do I have never heard of him.
For everyone else I hope that everyone is having a great day..:goodluck:

n2luvnlife
08-28-2006, 03:11 PM
Okay, it officialy sucks. I gained one pound. Not that time of the month either!!!!!! I have been doing everything that I am supposed too. I am at 180 as of this morning. :?:

I was soooooooo busy over the weekend and couldn't stop in to post anything. You guys move at lightning speed. So here it goes on my top 5:

1. My skinny pictures when I was 30 - size 2!!!!:carrot:

2. I don't want the extra chin anymore.

3. Myself, I keep myself motivated and am my own best friend.

4. My husband for loving me.

5. My fat ankles.

And the question about who brings you down about my weight, MY MOTHER! She is skinny, always has been skinny ( I am adopted) I love my family dearly don't get me wrong but they are skinny. They don't know how to be nice about being overweight. They try but it comes out hurting my feelings.

I am doing great today, drinking all my water and I hope everyone else is having a great Monday.

Melissa: Don't worry about the new scale, take it in stride - that means it will all go down from here. Keep your head up! ;)

needhelp27: Great Job at not eating the APPLE PIE. Great Will Power mojo working on your part.

Trish: Sorry for your loss's. Breaks my heart. You are in my prayers as long as the families of those close to you.

u2girl: good luck on the job!!!!!!!!

Amanda: You bring me up when I am feeling down. Just reading your posts and all your motivation. Thanks!:hug:

Big hugs to everyone else :hug: and I am thinking of each of you and keep up the good work chickadees.

sapphire35
08-28-2006, 03:12 PM
Heather - you are doing wonderful turning down all the temptations. :hug: You're going to be the skinniest one at graduation.:) You just watch!! Keep it up girl. Take it day by day, one step at a time.

Liz Thanks, it was just one weird weekend, they say death comes in threes.

Melissa Don't you worry about that new scale. You'll show it! :carrot:

You guys have so many videos and work out tapes. I have got taboe the entire series, pilates, ablaster, buns of steels, and denise austin. I don't have any of this new stuff you girls are talking about. For some reason I feel funny doing those exercises at home by myself. So I go to the gym. I think I'm motivated by people around me doing things, I like to watch sometimes and try to out do them on one of the machines. Is that crazy or what? :?:

kandice There is really nobody that brings me down per say. I think I bring myself down, just because I know I shouldn't be this big. I was a size 6 throughout high school. I was 7/8 when I got married now I'm any where from 16-22 depends on the clothes. That just urks me so much.:mad:

iwantnewpants
08-28-2006, 04:48 PM
Trish -- I've heard that before.....it's just so eerie. In any case, keep hanging in there!

Bonnie -- You are so funny! I can't believe you have over 200 exercise videos! I don't even think I have that many CD's. As far as recommendations, I have to say, I'm probably not the person to consult. I've lived in various apartments since I graduated from college, usually on the 2nd or 3rd floor, so I've refrained from doing anything too high impact out of fear of disturbing/crashing through my neighbors' ceilings. Ha! But, I have done a lot of toning/pilates/yoga videos and of those, Windsor Pilates is the best. Sheesh, I feel like a commercial.

Kandice -- yeah, the HS photo is pretty hilarious. I have to say, I was that annoying blond skinny cheerleader. GRRR! And it's crazy because I look back at that picture and would kill for that body again. But, I also remember how self-conscious I was at that age. It's crazy how your mind works, you know? My ten-year reunion is this year, though I don't think I'm going. It sounds kind of nuts, but the reason I'm not going is due, in part, to my weight. I found myself getting so stressed out about taking weight off by that certain date and decided that it was a really unhealthy attitude. Obviously I want to lose weight, but I also don't want to be crazy about it and put any more pressure than I have to on myself. I figure I'll see everyone at the 15 year reunion and knock them dead with my killer 32 year old bod. Ha!

lovethatsara
08-28-2006, 04:51 PM
Bonnie - Those dvds sound really interesting that you can print out all that stuff. Let us know how they pan out for you. So good to have a husband who is so supportive like that. Thats nice of your husband to geet you skittles he was trying to think of you, I know matt doesnt really look at the back for calories either I usually have to remind him to look at the back for me but I thank him for the gesture anyways.
Amanda - I wish my family had a vegetable garden like your mom does. That's great! I really need to kick up a notch with the Aerobics! I have so many of these dvds and I never use them at least I'm walking though.
Trish - congrats on the 3lbs loss. Your doing good and no coolers thats great! You feel good when you resist temptation.
kandice - I cant get enough milk. I love drinking milk but now i traded my 2% milk to lowfat.
Aqua - I can see how that could be frustrating when people say they are going to do things and they dont. As for the husband in the room thing. I really dont feel comfortable excersizing when matt is even in the next room. I dont know why i just feel like hes watching me even if he isnt. weird i know
Heather- you are on the right track, good job making better choices when going out to fast food.
Brat - Congrats on the 5lbs loss thats awesome!
Needhelp - thats awesome. All those temptations and you never caved once! Be proud of yourself!

I dont know who asked the question about "who brings you down about my weight" but I saw lori's post and figured I'd answer it. My nana, (grandma) she trys to help and but hearing it all the time whether good or bad just made me wanna eat and eat and eat but instead now when I get frustrated I go running instead of heading for the sweats. "When you get skinny you'll look just like a model" I'm sorry but I love myself big or small. I personally would rather be skinnier but when people constantly talk about how I need to loose weight or how nice Id look when I get there it irritates me.

Anyways I am at work and I figured Id drop in. I lost 2lbs so I marked it down but my official weigh in is on wednesday. I'll be sure to tell you guys how I did. Hopefully I go down but i really need to get a tape measure i want to get rid of some of these inches!!!

Amany
08-28-2006, 05:55 PM
Good afternoon Lovelies.

I was just thinking that one of the things I love most about our group is that when newer people come, the transition is seamless. When I came along, I think you guys were into the second week, and I immediately felt at home. You all are so, so special. I'm really blessed to be a part of this. :grouphug:

Liz - Girl you're literally working your hiney off with all that walking. You're doing such a great job.
I would love to visit Chicago again. I haven't been since I was 10 or 11. That's really ridiculous considering that I only live about 5 hours away. I'm really kicking myself for not having done any traveling over the summer.
I can't wait for you to knock em dead at the reunion! If you really want to stick it to them, pretend like you don't remember their names or who they are. :lol:

Melissa - I'm sorry to hear about the scale. I have a new scale coming this week, so it's possible that we'll find ourselves in the same boat. The scale at the doctor's is always 5 - 7 pounds more too. And that's with my shoes off. *Sigh*.... Damn numbers!
Chin up, Sweetie. That still doesn't negate the success you've had so far.

Sapphire - I'm sorry to hear about all the bad news. Good grief! When it rains it pours. One of cousins died last Friday of AIDS. She was only 6 months older than I. She and I were not close. Honestly, I really can't say I cared for her all that much, but it's really sad when someone dies way before it's time. It's tragic. My heart definitely goes out to you.
It's not strange at all that you prefer to exercise with a group. That's what keeps some people motivated. You should do whatever keeps you motivated and is fun.

Mia - Fear not chicky! You'll be done with those maternity shirts soon enough! We'll have nothing but success stories around here. I really believe we will all reach our goals. Even if I reach mine before some other people, I'm going to stick around to help everyone see this through. And help celebrate the success stories. :cb:

Kandice - I guess I'd have to say that my family, esp my parents, have brought me down in the past. I say the past because I just don't allow them to have that kind of power over me anymore. The last time my father said something rude to me I just told him to mind is own business. Disrespectful, I know. But I've just about had all I'm gonna take. 33 years is long enough.
The problem I'm encountering now (that 3 people have taken notice of my loss) is people trying to discourage me from me goal. They want to tell me what's "good enough". I think I'm at the point where I want to politely let some people know that I have a goal in mind, but I'm going to keep it to myself.

Needhelp - I know what you mean about those Iced Cappuccinos! I have craved those things more than anything else.
Hey, great job on turning down the apple pie.
I know what you mean about the gene pool. I have all those same ailments in my family. We're literally fighting for our lives aren't we?

Bonnie - Yes, get rid of the Skittles!!! :lol:
Harvey Walden is the drill sargeant on Celebrity Fit Club. He's hilarious! The thing about him is that you either love him or hate him. Personally, I love him, but I can see why other people would feel differently. He's probably partly deranged. :lol: He has a great fitness video though. The quality is a little cheesy, but the work out is good. Well it looks good. I've not done it yet. I've only watched it and I think it will give me the type of challenge I've been wanting.
BTW, who is that beautiful child? Is she your grandbaby?

Aqua and Liz - Angie got on my nerves too. I just knew she'd be like this. I just never dreamed it would be this bad. From an entertainment viewpoint, I love it. That's what makes reality television so great. From the view of a person trying to lose weight, though, she's infuriating. Did you hear that excuse she made for eating the sandwich? She said that she ate it because they had it there at Fit Camp. So what?? She's such a drama queen. I wonder how many more times she's going to threaten to leave before the show is over this season. I agree with you Aqua. What in the world did she think she was coming to? She had to have known that she'd be expected to eat right and exercise. She's nuts. :rolleyes: I love it though!!! :)

N2 - Awww... Thanks. You're such a sweetie. If anyone is helped by what I post, then that makes me feel good. I get so, so much from this thread. If I'm putting a little back in that makes me happy. :hug: Right back at cha!

Sara - Congrats on the two pounds! I love your statement about loving yourself regardless of your size. I love that!

Yeah, my husband really is rather sweet to get up with me in the mornings. I've said it many times, but he really is a prince. He does a lot of nice things for me. When we first started going out it used to overwhelm me because I just wasn't used to it. I'm grateful.

Well ma'ladies, I'm gonna shut down now. I try to catch up with you later.

Amany
08-28-2006, 06:45 PM
Someone asked about Pilates...

It seemed undoable to me at first. Then I bought Leslie Sansone's You Can Do Pilates. It's an instructional / beginner dvd. Now that I've gotten stronger with the exercises, I think I can move on. Definitely not to an advanced one! But I definitely feel strong enough to move on. It took me about 3 or 4 weeks to get to this point. At first even the Leslie Sansone was a challenging. The results are quick though.

needhelp27
08-28-2006, 07:29 PM
Hey ladies,

Kandices: I would love your email.

N2: Don't worry! You will lose that pound so quick plus a whole bunch more and it will make everything all better. Keep working out and eating right and as some wise ppl here have said, it doesn't matter if you screw up, just get back up and work a little bit harder. Don't beat yourself up for it, its not worth it!

Trish: Thanx, you are sweetie and I don't know if I will be the skinniest but hopefully one of them.

Amanda: We are fighting for our lives but we can do it! We may lose some battles but we are going to win the war!! Do you have an email address I can contact you at?

I have a couple questions for anyone who might be able to give me an answer.
1) I heard it wasn't a good idea to buy an outfit or dress when you are trying to lose weight because it can hinder what you do and if you don't accomplish that goal of fitting the outfit, then its not a good thing. I was thinking maybe in march i would do the dress shopping with my friend so I can get a good selection, but I am not sure if I will be able to buy it then and get it because what if i don't lose all the weight and can't fit into the dress then its like $200.00 down the drain. I am not sure what to do.
2) I have heard and seen horror stories about women who lose all this weight and then they end up with excess fat on their stomaches, legs, arms, etc. But because i'm young and I have elasticity still, would I get abs that I can see or will I have access fat that won't ever leave unless I get a tummy tuck, which I could never afford?
3) What is the best kind of calcium chews? Do they taste good? Would pills be a better way to go? How much do they cost? Can you get them anywhere?

Everyone, have a great day and keep workin those pounds off!

miafluker
08-28-2006, 07:38 PM
thanks for all of the input about pilates i think i will try it
today i already know is not a good day, its been kinda stressfull and i did what i shouldnt have done and snacked my problems away and hubby brought me a coolers light home, but its not too late to do my exercise so im going to at least complete that i messed up on water and food though thank god tomorrow is a new day hope you all had a better day than me
Sara congrats on the weight loss:carrot:

Butterfly50
08-28-2006, 09:00 PM
Yes the Baby is my Granddaughter. Isnt she sweet?Its nice to be grandma(NANA) and Iam only 36.

Mia Yes tomorrow is another day jest keep going .


Heather for Question one I think it is a good Idea to have something that you can consider as a goal. Now 200.00 Im not to sure about that it is all up to what you can afford and how determined you are.
Now 2 to me it alll depends on how much you are looking to lose. If it is alot of weight you will probley have some excess skin
No3 You should be able to go to walmart and get them easy. It all depends on what you want to pay and what you will like to take the best.


Amanda I will have to check on the Leslie Pilates I have not seen that one yet. Yes I got rid of the Skittles I split them between the three kids. NO MORE SKITTLES I will have to check HArvey out to see what he is about when does he come on day and time. I will check him out.

Sara Yes I know I love that they have these printables I dont realy know how I would use them but they are neat to have on hand. I write everything down in a notebook. When I bought school supplies I bought me a whole case of notebooks for a little over 2 dollars so I used them .

As for the Question about who brings me down is my Friend I think she does it cause I was losing and she dont. All she does now is Drink. Thank god I live 2400 miles away from her now. ( She still does it over the phone)

Liz Yes I do have that manyTapes my husband gets mad and tells to get rid of some But I wont . Most of them I would not think about doing until I was more fit and trim its hard to do some of these exercise when your heavy . I bught most of them when I worked in Salvation Army no one would buy them so I did. I knowhat you mean about the celing I was their once I always made sure their was no one home when I exercised .

I wanted to share this with all of you tonight. I did my Leslie and I could feel muscles in my Buttocks that I didnt know I had. Then When I was walking tonight I could feel the muscles that I didnt know I had in the Back of my thighs. Man they feel good I feel like i have shrunk some I will remeasure myself on Wednesday to see the final score. Got to go hope everyone is doing great.

Amany
08-28-2006, 10:24 PM
Bonnie - Your granddaughter is an absolute doll!
I just finished Leslie Sansone's Walk and Jog. When we came home from Rite Aid tonight, I wasn't in the mood for Harvey. Anyway, do you remember me telling you that the Walk and Jog would probably be a good next step for you? I no longer feel that way. Don't get me wrong, it's a very good work out, but you're probably already more advanced than it. I did with with 2 lb weights with no problem. Even though it doesn't call for hand weights.
I'm going to use it as one of my "light" morning work outs. You'd only jog in two minute intervals with it. I'm already jogging in five minute intervals - with my weights - when I do the shadow boxing moves my husband showed me.

u2girl
08-28-2006, 10:57 PM
Hey ladies:

First day went just fine. This is just training. Thanx for the well wishes.

Aww, Melissa, sorry about that scale thing. I tell ya, that scale can be a blessing and a curse. I'm trying real hard not to give the scale too much power. It used to be that if it was up, it would ruin my mood and if it was down, I was on cloud nine. But you know that is really giving that scale too much power. Like Aqua said a few days ago, even if the scale doesn't reflect anything just yet, when you are eating healthy and being active, so many other wonderful things are happening. You are keeping a great attitude about it all and that is wonderful! Just hang in there! :)

Bonnie, I do have the WATP Walk Strong. Did the workout come with the stretchie? I already had one from some other workouts. Hope you have fun with those. I have watched Jillian on collagevideo.com and I knew that workout was a little too advanced for me right now. I will get there soon.

Today, I did Calorie Killer by the FIRM. I "Assassinated Some Major Calories". It is so funny when she says that. I was surely sweating, but I did the whole workout. I think i am going to focus on FIRM right now.

Now, I am missing my buddies Danielle and Anna. Where are you guys? I miss you.

Well, ladies, have a great evening and an even better morning. I will see you lovely ladies tomorrow.

Ciao!

Elycia

needhelp27
08-28-2006, 11:42 PM
Hey everyone,

Does anyone listen to music when they workout? What do you listen to to keep you motivated and pumped up? If you could give me a few tips that help you, that would be muchly appreciated, thanx.

Heather

sapphire35
08-29-2006, 12:11 AM
I'm typing with one hand, little one is fighting her sleep.

Oh my god, i worked out with the ladies at the gym tonight. The instructor kept telling me to join them during the beginning stretches. I caved and joined in. i have never worked out with a group before. i liked it, felt bigger than the other girls. The instructor was really nice and it wasn't to fast.

Bonnie you making me want to use one of my workout tapes. You're just a powerhouse right now. You should just make a video! lol. I think I'm going to do my pilates tape first, then taebo.

No seriously. Let’s get to know each other. I want to know, like others, about you. The woman behind the weight. We are about to get all into your business. Just a few questions so have fun. Okay maybe not a few. Just copy and paste. Anyway here goes:

Name or nickname:
Age:
Location:
Birthday and zodiac sign:
How tall are you?:
How much, if any, would you like to lose or gain?:
Pet peeves:
What’s your drink(s) of choice?:
Martial status:?
Between you and SO, who is more aggressive?:
Anniversary date:
What type of job do you have:?
Own or rent?:
What time do you go to bed?:
What time do you wake up?:
What kind of books do you read?:
Favorite song:
Favorite movie:
Favorite restaurant:
Favorite quotes:
Favorite food or snack:
Where would you like to travel?:
Worse food or snack:
How many siblings do you have?:
What’s your favorite color(s)?:
Any pets:?
What does your screen name mean?:
What are some of the places you travel on BC?:
How do people perceive you verses how you really are?:
If you can change one thing about yourself what would it be?:
Do you play the lotto:?
Lucky number(s):
If you were given 2 million dollars what would you do with it?:
What are your plans for the holiday?:

mine for example ;

Name or nickname: Trish
Age: 37
Location: St. Louis, Missouri
Birthday and zodiac sign: Jan 19, Capricorn
How tall are you?: 5'2
How much, if any, would you like to lose or gain?: I would love to lose about 87 lbs, still got some baby weight from the twins.
Pet peeves: I can't stand hearing people chew. I can't stand dumb questions. People coming over unannounced. Guys grabbing at there crotch in front of you. Women who can't hold there liquor, ugh that one just urks me. Lazy mothers with there kids. People who brag about everything or they have everything you have and better. I could go on & on, so I'll stop.
What’s your drink(s) of choice?: Rum & Coke, margaritas, now water
Martial status:? Married
Between you and husband, who is more aggressive?: Me
Anniversary date: Dec 30
What type of job do you have:? Operations Manager For Contracting Firm
Own or rent?: rent
What time do you go to bed?: 12:30am
What time do you wake up?: 5:45am
What kind of books do you read?: Romance Novels, Jet, and essence magazines
Favorite song: Charlene, by Anthony Hamilton and Tonight is the Night by Betty wright
Favorite movie: Maid in Manhattan
Favorite restaurant: I'm a southern cooker, so don't do restaurants much
Favorite quotes: I brought you in this world I'll take you out!
Favorite food or snack: debbie cakes, oatmeal pies was now grapes
Where would you like to travel?: New York
Worse food or snack: Oysters
How many siblings do you have?: 3 one bro, & 2 sis
What’s your favorite color(s)?: Peach
Any pets:? NO
What does your screen name mean?: I love sapphire jewelry
What are some of the places you travel on 3FC?: just browse alot
How do people perceive you verses how you really are?: Everyone thinks I'm unapproachable and mean when they first meet me, but once they know me they love me. Lots of fun. I'm just straight forward.
If you can change one thing about yourself what would it be?: 87 lbs of unwanted weight
Do you play the lotto:? Only when its realllllly Big
Lucky number(s): 4, 5, 12
If you were given 2 million dollars what would you do with it?: Buy my mom and mother-in law there dream homes as well as myself. Invest, Invest, Invest, and buy a Walmart Franchise.
What are your plans for the holiday?: Spend it with my family. Going down south for the holiday to visit family.

good nght ladies, i'll let you know how my stress test go tomorrow.

u2girl
08-29-2006, 12:21 AM
Sapphire, GET OUT! (I'm having an Elaine moment :D ) I didn't know you lived in St. Louis! So do I!!! Small world. You think you are here on the internet and everyone is so far away and you are probably around the corner. :) That's funny!

Also, are you kidding me, you have twins??? So do I!!! Wow!

Well, I decided to check in one more time and I saw that and had to respond. I will do the "Gettin' to Know You" segment tomorrow.:)

Ha Ha Ha Small world. :)

Elycia

sapphire35
08-29-2006, 12:24 AM
thats what makes this fun, ha ha. now you know we're going to get together. i can'i wait.

Hun.e.B
08-29-2006, 01:08 AM
Good evening lovelies!! its 9:30 and I'm ready for bed already! LOL! DH was tired too, he went an hour ago. My leg has just been killing me lately. I'm gonna have to break down and see a chiropractor I think. I went today and did more shopping with my girls. They are getting closer to being ready for school. I splurged and bought myself a digital camera today. I've been wanting one forever and decided to just do it. Plus I ordered us a new 4'' memory foam mattress pad for our bed and a duvet cover. I got em from overstock and it said I saved almost $600, cant wait to get em! Okay I'm rambling! LOL! I'm determined to get caught up with you all tonight!

Aqua...I so agree with you about CFC, so spoiled some of these celebrities. I remember countess from a few seasons ago who ended up gaining weight over the course of the show and yet still got to win the prizes. that ticked me off. Everyone has excuses, and noone is gonna lose till you check them at the door. Myself included!!

Bonnie...I didnt get to say it before but WAY TO GO with those skittles!!!

Trish...gosh I'm so sorry to hear about all the tragedy that seems to be surrounding your life right now. Makes you want to hug your loved ones and cherish every minute you have, you just never know when its gonna be gone. about the milk, not sure if you have it in your area but its called Skim Delight by Viva. I dont like skim milk either but this stuff is really good. Its more like 2% but its skim. Not sure how they do it. My kids LOVE it too!

Brit....WAY TO GO!!! 5 lbs!! OMG! Thats just amazing! What ever you are doing is working..you are shrinking!!

Liz...YAY you came back!!! Glad to hear it was just technical difficulties! I was a HS cheerleader too...oh to be that size again! LOL!! Hey we can dream right?!

Elycia...I hope your first day of work was a smashing success and it is all you hoped it would be! You are so right, I've said it before but I'll say it again, scales are for fish!! Who needs em! LOL!! Way to go on that workout!

Kandice....I'm harder on myself about my weight than anyone else ever could be, but, my grandpa said to me this summer (after not seeing me for several years) "well your a big girl arent you" thats just his way. But my SIL once told me she wished for everyone sake that I stop overeating. Shes a peach!And then shortly after I had my first baby I was like 160ish, my grandma was going around telling people I was as big as a house. That one hurt alot. Guess we all have to have those kinds in our lives.

Heather....I am SO proud of you!!! Way to go saying no to the pie!! AND the coffee!! You are doing so great!!! Keep up the excellent work!! Just so you know, a large (16oz) iced mocha with skim milk and no whipped cream is only 180 calories. A nice little treat and you arent breaking the calorie bank!!

Lori...fluctuations in the scale are normal, and I heard on Oprah once that its a really good sign to even gain a little in the beginning of a weightloss plan. means you are building muscle! Make sure you take your measurements too!! You are doing GREAT!!! Keep it up!

Sara....GOODBYE 2 lbs!!! yay!! Way to go!!! I bet the inches are wasting away!!! Keep it up!

Amanda...you and your dh are so cute!! I just love reading your stories about him and what he does! You are a lucky girl!! Course I bet you already knew that! I would love to try some shadow boxing, I need to go back and read those core exercises you gave us too.

Awww...I'm jealous you guys get to get together! Danielle and I used to be able to do that...speaking of Danielle where in the world is she!

I think I got caught up! I hope anyway, not to do the survey! Have a lovely evening!

~melissa

Hun.e.B
08-29-2006, 01:20 AM
My survey answers ( I love these!)

Name or nickname: Melissa
Age: I'll be 34 on 9/6
Location: Missoula, MT
Birthday and zodiac sign: Virgo
How tall are you?: 5'7
How much, if any, would you like to lose or gain?: lose 80 lbs
Pet peeves:people who smack their food when they eat and hiccups
What’s your drink(s) of choice?:alcoholic - mudslide, nonalcoholic - water
Martial status:? married, going on 14 years
Between you and SO, who is more aggressive?: him
Anniversary date: 10/24
What type of job do you have:?mom
Own or rent?:rent
What time do you go to bed?:in bed around 10, read till 11 or so
What time do you wake up?:once school starts 6:45
What kind of books do you read?:murder mystery and some romance
Favorite song:gosh this is TOUGH, right now its I Dare You by Shinedown
Favorite movie:A Knights Tale
Favorite restaurant:Jakers
Favorite quotes:"You do what you know how to do, and when you know better, you do better" Mia Angelo
Favorite food or snack:French fries w/ Ranch
Where would you like to travel?:Hawaii and NYC
Worse food or snack:seafood and mushrooms
How many siblings do you have?:3
What’s your favorite color(s)?: blue and pink
Any pets:? Denver the beagle!
What does your screen name mean?: My name (melissa) means Honeybee
What are some of the places you travel on 3FC?: here, buddy up and nutrition
How do people perceive you verses how you really are?: I think people get who I am
If you can change one thing about yourself what would it be?: my weight and fear
Do you play the lotto:? only when the jackpot gets up there high, cuz 1 million just isnt enough for me! LOL!
Lucky number(s):24
If you were given 2 million dollars what would you do with it?:pay off debt, buy a house
What are your plans for the holiday?:Spending it at home with my family

needhelp27
08-29-2006, 01:50 AM
This is my questionnaire i filled out

Name or nickname: Heather or needhelp27
Age: 17
Location: Rossland, British Columbia, Canada
Birthday and zodiac sign: April 21, Taurus
How tall are you?: 5’5’’
How much, if any, would you like to lose or gain?: I would love to lose about 80-90 pounds.
Pet peeves: women who stay in bad relationships because they really do “love” him! Ugh that makes me mad,
What’s your drink(s) of choice?: water, orange juice, I don’t drink
Martial status:? single
Between you and husband, who is more aggressive?: I’m not married
Anniversary date: Not applicable
What type of job do you have:? Student, babysitter, nanny during summer
Own or rent?: I am only in grade 12!
What time do you go to bed?: depends what I have to do the next day.
What time do you wake up?: depends what I have to do that day
What kind of books do you read?: novels, romance, drama, suspense, thriller, biographies, true stories
Favorite song: too many, let’s get this party started by Pink
Favorite movie: Save the Last Dance, Napoleon Dynamite, and Crash
Favorite restaurant: The Keg or Olive Garden
Favorite quotes: “Girls with asses like mine, don’t date guys with faces like yours”
Favorite food or snack: Chinese, pizza, chocolate, ice cream, chips,
Where would you like to travel?: Bahamas, Fiji, New York, Paris
Worse food or snack: oysters, mussels
How many siblings do you have?: 1 older brother, 1 step sister
What’s your favorite color(s)?: pink or blue
Any pets:? Hopefully we can get a dog but we did have 2 cats but they both died
What does your screen name mean?: its self-explanatory
What are some of the places you travel in BC?: Vancouver, Victoria, Prince George/Rupert, Kelowna, Penticton, Vernon,
How do people perceive you verses how you really are?: Most people think im probably lazy and self-conscious. I am self-conscious, but i am not lazy, i am really fun, funny, easy to get along with, vey bubbly
If you can change one thing about yourself what would it be?: My weight, wayyyyyyy too much!
Do you play the lotto:? Not old enough yet
Lucky number(s): 27
If you were given 2 million dollars what would you do with it?: haha, I would join a gym, get a personal trainer, get to at least a size 6 and go on a major shopping spree in New York, Paris, L.A. and Florida. But first, I would put money towards university, put money aside for my wedding and a house, buy my parents a new house, give my brother some money for college, give my step sister and her daughter some money and the rest I would put towards retirement after I go to the Bahamas on a cruise
What are your plans for the holiday?: ummmm, well my holiday is pretty much over, I have 8 days until school starts but I am going to Edmonton, Alberta to see my brother and step sister. He starts university at NAIT today so we are going there on Thursday for the long weekend.

Amany
08-29-2006, 07:35 AM
Trish is was such a great idea! The problem I'm going to have is that I'll want to come back 12 times today to change my answers. I don't have a lot of favorites. I like a whole lotta stuff :lol:

Melissa - Please hurry and have your leg checked out. We need you to stay healthy for us!! :hug:

Name or nickname: Amanda, I don't really have a nickname
Age: 33
Location: Detroit
Birthday and zodiac sign: February 3. (I don't believe in the zodiac stuff)
How tall are you?: 5'5"
How much, if any, would you like to lose or gain?: All together 100 - 120. Whatever a size 6 is.
Pet peeves: People who raise out of control children and subject them to the rest of us. Also, like Sapphire, people who smack and chew with open mouths. Yuck!
What’s your drink(s) of choice?: Lemonade, cognac
Martial status:? Married
Between you and SO, who is more aggressive?: We're equally aggressive (or unaggressive) most of the time. But it depends on the situation.
Anniversary date: June 23, 2005
What type of job do you have:? I have about 12 of them! :lol: It's administrative
Own or rent?: Rent
What time do you go to bed?: Between 9:30 and 10:30 usually
What time do you wake up?: 4:40 - 4:45
What kind of books do you read?: Anything except for sci-fi and westerns. I'm a book worm!
Favorite song: Because I Love You (Lenny Williams), The Love We Had (Dru Hill's version), Let's Stay Together (Al Green), It Takes a Fool to Learn that Love Don't Love Nobody. I'm such an "old head" :rolleyes:
Favorite movie: My Cousin Vinny, First two Godfather movies.
Favorite restaurant: I don't really have one, but I love Middle Eastern and Mexican
Favorite quotes: "Don't sacrifice the permanent and the altar of the temporary."
Favorite food or snack: Really, really good cookies.
Where would you like to travel?: Virgin Islands, Las Vegas, New Orleans
Worse food or snack: I've never met a food I didn't like :lol: j/k I really hate liver
How many siblings do you have?: 5 brothers and 1 sister
What’s your favorite color(s)?: All pastels
Any pets:? No
What does your screen name mean?: Nothing. I ended up with it when I signed up for AOL once. It was a suggest sn so I just stuck with it.
What are some of the places you travel on 3FC?: All around the Support Group section.
How do people perceive you verses how you really are?: People think I'm a pushover. At least 2 or 3 times year someone who tries to take advantage of me finds out the hard way that I'm not.
If you can change one thing about yourself what would it be?: I would be more disciplined
Do you play the lotto:? On occasion. If I can remember.
Lucky number(s): I always get the computer generated easy pick.
If you were given 2 million dollars what would you do with it?: Buy a modest home, upgrade one of my vehicles to a newer used one :) , bank the rest, finish school and keep working. Oh, and treat myself to a week long vacation to the Virgin Islands
What are your plans for the holiday?: I think I'm going to my parents'

BTW, I just finished Donna Richardson's 30 Days to Firmer Arms and Abs. It's quite a challenge! The aerobics part is challenging because I know it will take me the rest of the week to learn those moves. The abs and arms work outs are fantastic. Especially the abs! Boy do you "feel the burn"!

Butterfly50
08-29-2006, 09:51 AM
My Survey answers are,


Name or nickname Bonnie, Grandma used to call me bonbon
Age 36
Location South Carolina
Birthday and Zodiac sign July 29, Leo
How tall are you 5'4
How much if any would you like to lose or gain Lose 138 pds
Pet peeves People who let their elementry children walk or go to school by them selves
Whats your drink(s) of choice Coconut Daquire
Materal Statues Married 20 years
Between you and so who is more aggressive Husband
Anniversary Date June 29, 1986
What type of job do you have Homemaker ( Laundry girl, Housekeeper, Gardner, Babysitter,Cheif, Teacher)
Own or Rent Rent
What time do you go to bed 11:00 pm
What time do you wake up During school it is 5:30 am durning non school 10:00am
What kind of books do you read Weightloss
Favorite song SARA BETH by rascall flats. I start to cry everytime I hear the song or see the video
Favorite movie Steele Magnolias and Any thing with julia roberts
Favorite resturant Chick fil A
Favorite Quotes?
Favorite food or snack Chicken
Where would you,like to travel To wisconsin to see my family
Worst food or snackTurnips [/B}
How many siblings do you have [B]12 , 3 Brothers ( One has passed) 7 Sisters 1 Half sister
What is your favorite color Purple Any type

Any pets Cat
What does your screan name mean Butterfly jest because I like them
What are some places you travel to on CFC Surf around
How do people perceive you verses how you realy are I have had people that that I am scary and look mean or mad all the time, But when they get to know me we usually get along great
If you could change one thing about your self what would it be My weight
Do you play the lotto No my husband plays enough for the both of us
Lucky Numbers ??
If you were given with 2 million dollars what would you do with it. I would have to say that I would Buy me a house and Invest as much as possible
What are your plans for the Holiday Nothing much staying at home with the hubby and kids

This was a great Idea I got all my water in yesturday :carrot: :carrot: Now working on today. My granddaughter will be here tomorrow:carrot: :carrot: :carrot: Dont know how much I will be able to work out I want to spend time with her and her parents. I have to also take in the we have a hurricane ( Troplical storm ) Headed this way. They say it is going to hit Between Folly and Edisto beach and Iam half way between both:dizzy: Hope all goes well. Got to run I have to get started making my granddaughters First Birthday cake.

kandices2ndtry
08-29-2006, 09:58 AM
newpants- did you have a 5 year reunion? we didn't, I definitely want to go to my 10 year HS reunion- 2008 so I should be good by then- but even not, I want to go and finally show that I'm happy. Like to see what everyone did with their lives too. I know a couple of college friends grad from college and they are still working at Filenes or hotels as desk clerks and cashiers!

needhelp- I'll pm you my email. I bought a dress the last time I was losing weight- it's a red sparkly dress (kinda stretchy) I got off theknot.com forum I think when I was registered for the wedding- but it was only $25. size 10. DH promised he would take me out to a nice dinner and a night out on town- comendy connection or something and I would wear the dress. that was my goal and it was hanging on the outside of my closet and I looked at it everyday. I also had quotes and a 48 inch paper "ruler" to show how many inches I lost from everywhere. I was quite the inspiration. Do you have a pair of pant- jeans you want to fit into? I say don't spend a lot of money because what if you don't get to goal by the time, but it helped me to have something visual.
If you lose it gradual and yes, we're still young- elasticity, you shouldn't notice a difference in your skin. when I lost weight the last time I kinda had "reverse stretchmarks" if it makes sense to you- not noticeable to anyone but me I'm sure. but it was like place where I had stretch marks before- my hips, boobs, it was kinda indented and white. weird. Wasn't anything that kept me away from wearing a bikini or anything. and I wore a bikini on our honeymoon in March 2005 (never had a bikini ever- tankinis yes, but this one was a barely there! DH loved it!)
I'm taking the one a day weight control. it looks like it's got everything you need in it. Like I said before- I was just taking Tums for calcium, they taste fine to me- some people say they're a little chalky.

bonnie- yes she's adorable! only 36! that'll be like me- I was doing the math not too long ago, DS is 13 now- I'm 26, so that means in 7 years- hopefully not sooner I could be a g-ma. that's 33! DH and I are talking about adopting a baby girl and that's what brought it up- well, we have to get doing it soon or else that'll be just too weird! I know we're down south but there has got to be standards! :lol: DH is 33 now so he doesn't want to wait forever either- he thinks he's getting old. probably doesn't help with me making grandpa jokes to him when he snaps and crackles in the AM.
Bonnie- congrats about unhiding the muscles!

Trish way to go on working out with a group. just something I heard a long time ago- others aren't looking at you or judging you, most of them are worried about what other people think of them!

Name or nickname: Kandice, Kandi, Kan
Age: 26
Location: Jonesville, NC
Birthday and zodiac sign: jULY 26, LEO
How tall are you?: 5'11- the shortest one in my family! (between my bro and sis)
How much, if any, would you like to lose or gain?: lose 45 lbs to get to 165- size 10/12
Pet peeves: people who don't take responsibility for their actions or half do a job. (silly- I'm the keeper of supplies in the office and someone (man) will just come in and get a ream of paper for the copy machine instead of taking the whole box and piling it up next to the copier like we always do- assuming someone else will do it- I've seen him lift heavy things before- no reason why he can't lift a carton of copy paper!)
What’s your drink(s) of choice?: Margarita, koolaid, moutain dew, water....
Martial status:? married
Between you and SO, who is more aggressive?: me- we still would be holding hands if I didn't make a move on him!
Anniversary date: March 5, 2005
What type of job do you have:? Director of Accounting at a Country Club
Own or rent?: Own as of October 2005! although with all the interest, we probably own the frontdoor now. the rest is still the banks!
What time do you go to bed?: between 9 and 10 pm
What time do you wake up?: 5 am
What kind of books do you read?: trashy ones- recent ones were the devil wears prada and her new book- everyone worth knowing and mags- Star and Cosmo oh and our "local newspaper" it's such a small town it's news if someone catches a big fish and they put it in the paper with a picture. it's only about 12 pages long and published 3 x a week.
Favorite song: too many! I like Rascal Flatts, Mercy Me- Christian group, aerosmith, just about anything besides Rap
Favorite movie: Beauty and the Beast. and anything else disney- aladdin, lion king, but beauty and the best is number 1
Favorite restaurant: Red Lobster, Olive Garden.
Favorite quotes: "May you trust God you are exactly where you are meant to be" part of a larger poem. so hard because I want to live in Maine again sometime and it's hard to just trust that I'm here to do a purpose right now.
Favorite food or snack: Oreos, little debbies- nutty butties, salt and vinegar chips, now plums, peaches, trying to make healthier choices
Where would you like to travel?: DH and I have a travel wish log: 1) is Alaska- we're going there for our 5 year wedding anniversary- 2010. 2) grand canyon
3) take a ride on a mississippi riverboat 4) Turkey- I have a penpal that I've had since grade school that I still communicate with, would love to go to visit sometime 5) London
Worse food or snack: I eat about anything, I've tried (and liked) sushi, all fish, I tried liver once- it wasn't bad. I don't think I have a food I don't like. I don't like Canned peas.
How many siblings do you have?: 2- a bro that's 18 and 6'3 and a sis that's 15 and 6'1
What’s your favorite color(s)?: pink, black, blue
Any pets:? the zoo- 2 cats, 2 guineapigs, 5 koi fish- dh got 2 more and 1 died so now it's 5. but they're getting big so that's it. DH wants a Great Dane- maybe later I said
What does your screen name mean?: this is my second try at losing weight- this time for good!
What are some of the places you travel on 3fC?:just browse basically reply to ones that interest me
How do people perceive you verses how you really are?: as bossy and unapproachable, I can be bossy- I like to have things done my way and not good at delegating, but I am totally approachable. you don't have to knock to come in my office!
If you can change one thing about yourself what would it be?: I wish I could be more outgoing- some of it will come with weightloss I know.
Do you play the lotto:? scratch tickets only
Lucky number(s): don't really have any
If you were given 2 million dollars what would you do with it?: pay off all student loans and the house and cars. take a nice vacation for a couple of weeks and then put the rest in the bank. hopefully live off the interest and be able to quit my job and work at Hallmark or Walmart greeter or something- just to get out of the house but not because I HAVE to work.
What are your plans for the holiday?: staying in NC and then in Jan we're having a late christmas in Maine- DH and I don't get anymore vacation until Jan 07- his work is strict and won't let him borrow against it. and plus it's year end closing in the accounting office on Dec 26th- so I'll be busy working!

that was fun!

been good at water and portion control- slacking on the exercising- but today I brought my tennis shoes and I'm going to do the stairs again today!
still 208 today.

hi to everyone else- sorry no personals for everyone- I think I took up 1 page for myself!

brat_61886
08-29-2006, 11:30 AM
Name or nickname: Brittni
Age: 20
Location: College Station Texas GO AGGIES!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol
Birthday and zodiac sign: June 18, 1986, Gemini
How tall are you?: 5'7
How much, if any, would you like to lose or gain?: 175lbs
Pet peeves: stupid people that talk way to much
What’s your drink(s) of choice?: tequilla sunrise!!! but since i cant buy it here water.
Martial status:? single and lovin it
Between you and SO, who is more aggressive?:
Anniversary date:
What type of job do you have:? full time student
Own or rent?: rent
What time do you go to bed?: when i feel like it
What time do you wake up?: when i feel like it
What kind of books do you read?: depends on my mood
Favorite song: show stopper- danity kane
Favorite movie: probably the Harry Potter movies...
Favorite restaurant: Fudruckers!!
Favorite quotes: Dont hate because i'm beautiful, hate me because your boyfriend thinks so!!!!!
Favorite food or snack: dont have one. i have learned that to lose weight all food needs to taste really blah!
Where would you like to travel?: Australia, Brazil, Europe, Egypt, South Africa, Thailand, Fiji, Jamaica, Bahamas, the list goes on and on!!!!!!!
Worse food or snack: doritos
How many siblings do you have?: 4 brothers and 1 sister
What’s your favorite color(s)?: pink!
Any pets:? 4 dogs, 2 cats, 2 fish.
What does your screen name mean?: nickname my ex gave me
What are some of the places you travel on 3fc? nowhere really just here and there this is the only place i come back too
How do people perceive you verses how you really are?: *****y because i'm really honest, but after a while they realize i'm a badass chick lol
If you can change one thing about yourself what would it be?: my weight and how easily i get depressed
Do you play the lotto:? not really
Lucky number(s): 2
If you were given 2 million dollars what would you do with it?: buy a house in australia, pack up my grandparents and my animals and live there forever!!!
What are your plans for the holiday?:well summer is over i started school yesterday, but for xmas i have no idea yet. maybe go back to mexico or something.



Hey Chicas!!!!!!!! i had my first day of school and i'm scared!!! ive never taken chemistry before and now i'm taking college chemistry!!!!!!! oh well ill get thru it. if i make straight A's this semester and lose weight i get a big prize from my grandparents! its kinda sad having ur grandparents reward you when you 20 but hey, its either do really good in school or take the change of not doing so good and getting a job. Anyways, something strange has happened to me. over the last week or so my appitite is GONE!!!!!!!!!!!!! i mean i barely eat and im not really hungry. 2 meals a day (small ones) and i'm good. i dont have cravings, or anything! oh well i'm not complaining. I was going to start Slim in 6 this week but i have to go home this weekend to get my comp fixed. plus i was going to order this 2day fast. its a shake that you mix up and it helps get rid of toxins so you can lose weight more easily. ive been told that it works and its only 20 bucks. Anyways besides that my great grandpa is in the hospital. we are basically waiting for him to pass. he is 93 and its time. anyways i need to get going. i have 2 classes today and i'm a lil nervous. Ill do the individuals tonight tho when i can really sit down and read everything fully. have a wonderful day!!!!!!!!

Hun.e.B
08-29-2006, 11:43 AM
Good Morning everyone!! I love reading these surveys!

Amanda I forgot about liver! EWW! LOL! Way to go on that workout! I need to feel the ab burn!!!

Kandice...you are doing GREAT! Have fun with those stairs today!

Brittni...I took chem 151 a few semesters back, it was rough, but luckily we had a professor who was all about volunteering and he'd give extra credit whenever we did it. I ended up with almost 100 points in just extra credit. Just stay on top of the lectures and you'll be just fine!! You can do it!! sorry to hear about your grandpa, our grandma is in the hospital too right now she fell and punctured a lung and has a few broken ribs. So sad to see them get old isnt it?

Alright, I'm running behind again, I had intended to make flyers for the school this morning. I've got to go meet with the principal today and get PTA stuff rolling for next week. Have a fantastic day everyone!!! Drink that water!! I've been horrible lately and I'm gonna pick it up bigtime today!! CHEERS!

~melissa

Amany
08-29-2006, 12:15 PM
Kandice - You just gave me a fabulous idea. Maybe a couple mornings a week I could run up and down the stairs in my building. I get up before five, so no one is likely to run into me and think I'm nuts. Hmmm...

The thing is that I really want to start jogging by the end of September. Maybe that will prepare me. I won't start with the stairs this week because I'm determined to learn all the aerobics moves for that blasted 30 Days to Firmer Arms and Abs by Donna Richardson. :mad: It's so complicated! But I know it will be fun once I learn it.

Isn't it great the way we can get ideas and inspiration from one another?

Danielle...... Where are you chicky???

Aqua...... Are you hiding??

Maybe their kiddies started school this week? :dunno:

iwantnewpants
08-29-2006, 12:21 PM
Good morning Girls! Great idea with the survey! This is such a fantastic way to get to know each other! So here goes....

Name or nickname: Elizabeth, Liz, Lizzie
Age: 28
Location: Chi-town, IL
Birthday and zodiac sign: March 22, 1978 and I'm an Aries
How tall are you?: 5'5"
How much, if any, would you like to lose or gain?: 60ish, I'd really like to get down to a size 4....we'll see what that weighs
Pet peeves: people who smack and chew with their mouths open, bad drivers, slow walkers who walk in large groups and take up the entire width of the sidewalk....GRR!
What’s your drink(s) of choice?: water, shiraz, vodka and soda
Martial status:? not married, have a wonderful BF Mark!
Between you and SO, who is more aggressive?: ME
Anniversary date: 10/02
What type of job do you have:? Attorney/aspiring actress
Own or rent?: Rent, hopefully not too much longer
What time do you go to bed?: 10:30
What time do you wake up?: 7:30
What kind of books do you read?: Anything really. I've been reading the Harry Potter books lately, but before that, I was reading a lot of creative non-fiction and some short fiction.....the BF has his MFA in Creative Writing with a focus on fiction so he's constantly shoving books under my nose, which is AWESOME
Favorite song: The Promise by Tracy Chapman
Favorite movie: Waiting for Guffman
Favorite restaurant: Cafe Iberico -- it's a Spanish restaurant in Chicago
Favorite quotes: "It's a dog-eat-dog world, so leave your milkbone underwear at home."
Favorite food or snack: SUSHI....I love it. It's like crack for me....and getting to be as equally expensive of a habit. Ha!
Where would you like to travel?: I think my next big trip is going to be to Thailand/China/etc.. I lived in London for a year when I was in college so I got to travel all over Europe, which was VERY cool.
Worse food or snack: Wow....I pretty much like everything. I guess I don't like black licorice.
How many siblings do you have?: 2 older sisters
What’s your favorite color(s)?: blue
Any pets:? No....boo hoo hoo. I really want to get a dog, but I'm never home.
What does your screen name mean?: It seriously means that I'd like some new pants.
What are some of the places you travel on BC?: I like the goals section.
How do people perceive you verses how you really are?: I think people don't think I'm as smart as I am. Not that I'm a genuis or anything....hahahaha!
If you can change one thing about yourself what would it be?: My weight at the moment....but I am in the process of changing that, so does that really count?!
Do you play the lotto:? When it gets really high.
Lucky number(s): 47
If you were given 2 million dollars what would you do with it?: I would pay off my law school loans, I would invest in property in Chicago, I would take a vacation, I would quit my job and focus on acting and writing
What are your plans for the holiday?: Well, my cousin's boyfriend is having a Labor Day BBQ, so I think I'll head over there!

That was really fun! Good call!

Liz

iwantnewpants
08-29-2006, 12:31 PM
And now some personals!

Bonnie....your granddaughter is too precious! I love the pursed lips.....a little diva in the making!

Kandice....we had sort of an informal 5 year reunion that was kind of a nightmare for me. I was in the middle of law school, was extremely unhappy, was overweight, and had a really bad haircut. Ha! So, I basically sat in a corner with my best friend and got entirely too tipsy. But, you live and you learn. That's another part of the reason I'm not too keen on the idea of going to my 10 year.

Amanda....yeah....I'm walking like a crazy person. As it turns out, it's a lot harder than I anticipated! But, it's so great and it's really wonderful to work towards this huge goal! I really want to learn how to box! I think I need some lessons from you and your hubby!

Melissa....yes, I am back with a vengence!

Alright loves, drink your water and have beautiful days!

Liz

kandices2ndtry
08-29-2006, 12:43 PM
hey everyone- that's me- since we're getting to know everyone... that's my face shot.

Amany
08-29-2006, 01:10 PM
Nice pic Kandice!

Liz I ordered Aerobox with Kathy Smith (I think it's Smith) and Michael Olijade (he's a boxer). I'll let you know if it's any good and if it passes my husband's stamp of approval. :rolleyes: :) I want an really in shape boxer's arms, abs, legs, back and shoulders. I guess I want a boxer's body overall. :lol:

miafluker
08-29-2006, 01:24 PM
Name or nickname: mia
Age: 26
Location:
Birthday and zodiac sign: may 4 1980 taurus
How tall are you?: 5'4
How much, if any, would you like to lose or gain?: around 40lbs
Pet peeves: cant stand fake people(people that dont like you but smile in your face, hate when my hubby collect things(he turns junk into things)
What’s your drink(s) of choice?: conyak, parrot bay coolers, fruity cocktails, #1 a good ole cold pepsi(i miss those)
Martial status:? married
Between you and SO, who is more aggressive?: hubby
Anniversary date: feb 14
What type of job do you have:? use to be troubled youth home coordinator but currently stay at home mom
Own or rent?: rent (for now)
What time do you go to bed?: 11p, 12a
What time do you wake up?: 9a,10a
What kind of books do you read?: spiritual, romance
Favorite song: dont really have one but love kenny g
Favorite movie: dont have one
Favorite restaurant: o'charleys, texas roadhouse
Favorite quotes: The Poem Footprints in the Sand by Mary Stevenson Learn about the new song and CD,
"Footprints in the Sand"
by Mark Hargrave
One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was
walking along the beach with the Lord. Across the
sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene, he
noticed two sets of footprints in the sand: one
belonging to him, and the other to the Lord. When
the last scene of his life flashed before him, he
looked back at the footprints in the sand. He
noticed that many times along the path of his life
there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed
that it happened at the very lowest and saddest
times in his life. This really bothered him and he
questioned the Lord about it. "Lord, You said that
once I decided to follow you, You'd walk with me all
the way. But I have noticed that during the most
troublesome times in my life, there is only one set
of footprints. I don't understand why when I needed
you most you would leave me." The Lord replied,
"My son, My precious child, I love you and I would
never leave you. During your times of trial and
suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it
was then that I Carried You."


Favorite food or snack: freeze pops
Where would you like to travel?: jamaica, puerto rico
Worse food or snack: hate banannas,coconuts, raisons
How many siblings do you have?: 15
What’s your favorite color(s)?: dont have one
Any pets:? 2 pitbulls ebony and face
What does your screen name mean?: my name
What are some of the places you travel on BC?: ny(my homestate)new orleans (hubby homestate)
How do people perceive you verses how you really are?: quite a few
If you can change one thing about yourself what would it be?: my weight/self esteem
Do you play the lotto:? no
Lucky number(s):
If you were given 2 million dollars what would you do with it?: buy a home, do something special for hubby because of all the things he has sacraficed as a husband,father and marine
What are your plans for the holiday?: to own my own home by then

Altari
08-29-2006, 01:59 PM
Trish, we have the same b-day!

Name or nickname: Becky
Age: 21
Location: Chicago-area, IL
Birthday and zodiac sign: Jan 19, Capricorn
How tall are you?: 5'7"
How much, if any, would you like to lose or gain?: -80 lbs
Pet peeves: incompetance, loud rooms, overly cluttered desks, june bugs
What’s your drink(s) of choice?: water and unsweetened iced tea (and milk shakes)
Martial status?: married
Between you and SO, who is more aggressive?: I am
Anniversary date: October 17
What type of job do you have:? retail management
Own or rent?: in the process of owning
What time do you go to bed?: 11PM
What time do you wake up?: 7AM
What kind of books do you read?: historical fiction, cooking, sci-fi/fantasy
Favorite song: Right Where it Belongs by Nine Inch Nails
Favorite movie: Man on Fire
Favorite restaurant: Big Bowl
Favorite quotes: To have a choice at all is to be free - even when the choice is between two terrible things. Orson Scott Card (The Worthing Saga)
Favorite food or snack: Angel food cake
Where would you like to travel?: Japan
Worse food or snack: Anything with coconut
How many siblings do you have?: 0
What’s your favorite color(s)?: black or purple
Any pets:? 1 dog
What does your screen name mean?: I didn't know this when I chose it, but it means 'radish' in Korean.
What are some of the places you travel on BC?: huh?
How do people perceive you verses how you really are?: I think alot of people see me as very stand-offish or disconnected. I really just prefer to observe over participating.
If you can change one thing about yourself what would it be?: My lazy eye
Do you play the lotto:? No
Lucky number(s): Don't have any.
If you were given 2 million dollars what would you do with it?: Pay off all my and my family's debt.
What are your plans for the holiday?: See my kids without having to rush to work!

lovethatsara
08-29-2006, 01:59 PM
Name or nickname: Sara
Age: 22, 23 on superbowl
Location: Hilo, HI
Birthday and zodiac sign: 1/26 Aquarious
How tall are you?: 6'0
How much, if any, would you like to lose or gain?: lose 140lbs
Pet peeves:when people cant hold up their end of the convo or talk during the movie and play with their cell phone in the movie
What’s your drink(s) of choice?:alcoholic - smirnoff, nonalcoholic - strawberry smoothie
Martial status:? Long Term Relationship,Engaged
Between you and SO, who is more aggressive?: him
Anniversary date: 12/2
What type of job do you have:?I'm a clerk at an home owners association
Own or rent?:rent
What time do you go to bed?:in bed around 10
What time do you wake up?:6:10 gotta be at work by 7:30
What kind of books do you read?:all kinds
Favorite song:Pour Some Sugar On Me
Favorite movie:Gone in 60 Seconds or Breakfast Club
Favorite restaurant:Sizzlers
Favorite quotes:"
Favorite food or snack:Icecream
Where would you like to travel?:Ireland / Japan
Worse food or snack:Not sure
How many siblings do you have?:1 sister
What’s your favorite color(s)?: black and blue
Any pets:? 3 fishies
What does your screen name mean?: It means love that sara (my name) its kinda like "oh gosh... gotta love that girl" hehe.
What are some of the places you travel on 3FC?: here, chicks up for a challenge
How do people perceive you verses how you really are?: I think people think Im
If you can change one thing about yourself what would it be?: I like who I am maybe not have so much a temper
Do you play the lotto:? No
Lucky number(s):13
If you were given 2 million dollars what would you do with it?:Buy a new car and maybe a house
What are your plans for the holiday?:Spending it at home with my family

kandices2ndtry
08-29-2006, 02:31 PM
who's up for a sept challenge?
either weight or inches or exercise minutes or stairs climbed or water ounces drank- whatever you want it to be. report on fridays since sept 1 is a friday- the first full week would end on friday...
make a ticker at the bottom with sept challenge.
baby steps help! esp for us that want to lose a lot!

I would volunteer for sept to buy the "winner" to be determined- maybe voted on?- first to reach their goal? an exercise book or tape or whatever they want no more than $15 and to ship it to them. Maybe we could do this each month and someone else could volunteer the prize.

anyone interested? do you already belong to a challenge?

n2luvnlife
08-29-2006, 02:33 PM
Trish, Thanks for starting this...

Name or nickname: Little Lori, Lou Lou
Age: 36
Location: Charlottesville, VA
Birthday and zodiac sign: 10/22 Libra
How tall are you?: 4'11 3/4
How much, if any, would you like to lose or gain?: 60 lbs.
Pet peeves: Ignorance, burping in public, prejudice
What’s your drink(s) of choice?: Beer, Beer and more Beer - Water 2!
Martial status:? Married
Between you and SO, who is more aggressive?: Husband
Anniversary date: June 5, 2004
What type of job do you have:? Office Manager
Own or rent?: Both, have a house in Norfolk, VA we rent out, - rent apartment in Charlottesville
What time do you go to bed?: 11:30pm
What time do you wake up?: 7:00am
What kind of books do you read?: Mystery, Sci-Fi, any really
Favorite song: We Belong
Favorite movie: Shrek
Favorite restaurant: Outback
Favorite quotes: To thine own self be true.
Favorite food or snack: Sushi, Peanut Butter
Where would you like to travel?: I lived all over the world when My father was in the Navy but I would love to go to Greece.
Worse food or snack: Peas, liver
How many siblings do you have?: One brother
What’s your favorite color(s)?: RED
Any pets:? Nope
What does your screen name mean?: I love life.
What are some of the places you travel on BC?: Military Spouses Kicking Butt, Overeaters Anonymous
How do people perceive you verses how you really are?: I am very outgoing, but people don't realize that I lack self confidence.
If you can change one thing about yourself what would it be?: TO BE TALLER.
Do you play the lotto:? No
Lucky number(s): 22
If you were given 2 million dollars what would you do with it?: Buy my Mother a house and give her enough money to retire. Pay my Brother and SIL's student loans off and put money away for my nephews future. I would go back to school.
What are your plans for the holiday?: Going to my cousins house in Maryland for a POOL party if this hurricance doesn't put a damper on being outside.

Thanks for doing this. It was fun. I hope everyone has a great day and is OP!

sapphire35
08-29-2006, 02:57 PM
:flow1: GOOD AfterNoon Peeps:flow1: :flow1:

The stress test came out just fine! :cp: The doctor was making me nervous at first making think something was wrong with my heart. He had me all worked up. :fr: He kept asking me if I had had chest pain before, I'm Like No. Come to find out they had some leads on improperly.

Bonnie: You guys be careful and protect yourselves against this storm. Your grand daughter is gorgeous! I hope she likes her birthday cake. Its fun to watch them play in the first cake. I cannot believe you and Mia have so many siblings. WOW.:chin:

Amanda: I'm like you on the profiles I want to keep going back and adding pet peeves. So much S%#T urks me. But anyway I didn't know you was going to school. What are you taking clasess in?
The is no-way at this stage in the game can I run up and down steps. If I did it would only be about Ten of them. And maybe I'd last 5 times. But you know what I'm going to try that on my basement steps tonight after I do my pilates.:carrot:

Brat: I Love your quote, "Don't Hate because I'm beautiful hate me because your boyfriend thinks So! LMAO:D Chemistry can be difficult as you know. The key is to find you a Hot Tutor.;) Sounds your Stomach is shrinking, you go Girl. Thats alway a great feeling. sorry about your Great grandfather.:hug:

Iwantnewpants: Sushi-ewwww, Raw or not? I have friends that love that stuff, I'm afraid to try that. Do you work with agent for your acting? Thats a nice goal to have.

Mia: 15 Siblings!! Wow! You're like Bonnie, unbelievable. There has got to be a lot of love going on. Are you guys all close?

I am hurting from that work out yesterday. It was a body sculpting class. I'm going to do it a again on thursday. The instructor took the class out for drinks afterwards. I wanted to go but didn't. Its too earlier for me to drinking, I want to see results first then maybe I can indulge a little bit.

Its neat seeing where everybody is from.

Lets sweat til we're wet.:carrot: :carrot: :carrot:

sapphire35
08-29-2006, 03:40 PM
Kandice I definitely up for challenge in Sept.:carrot: Great idea! I haven't got in those other challenges cuz it seems like a lot of peeps already.

Prize idea was a good one, we can make it be the winners wish not max the $15 amount you said.

The water challenge is getting a little easier to reach. Sometimes!:smug: I guess if its a challenge it needs to be challenging. Did that make since? :?:
Like Stairs, that my bad knees hate, or making it through your hardest video 5 times this week (mine Billy Blanks or pilates) scared of these two.:nono:

Lets all decide whats best for everyone that wants to join. I don't care which one we choose either way. I'm up for the challenge.:jig:

Altari: I have never known anyone with the same B-day as Mine. :D I can't believe it.

N2: me and you have the same job title. The call me the Office Manager and the Operations Manager wish ever works at the time.

U2girl- I still can't believe we both live in st.louis.

Nice Picture kandice

Amany
08-29-2006, 03:56 PM
Hi Sapphire - I'm not in school. I'm going back in January. I didn't know I'd mentioned it.... Maybe I did. It's been on mind a lot lately.

I was originally going for elementary education / group science. A few years ago, though, I decided that I didn't really want to teach. I'm still undecided, but I don't want 80+ credits to go to waste. My job will give me tuition reimbursement to get either some type of business or engineering (not gonna happen) degree. So it looks like a business degree it will be! :) I'm still not really sure what I want to do when I grow up. Not as far as my 9 - 5 goes anyway.

Lately I've started writing childrens short stories again. I've been thinking of educating myself on how to have them published. I'm really enjoying it. I had forgotten how much I loved writing. I'm rambling, aren't I. Oops...

The short, more direct answer to your question is I'm not in school right now. I'll probably end up with a business degree though.

Hun.e.B
08-29-2006, 04:05 PM
Okay, I emailed Danielle to find out where she got off to!

~melissa

Amany
08-29-2006, 04:21 PM
Thanks Melissa :hug:

AquaChick
08-29-2006, 04:45 PM
Hello ladies!

Sorry I'm so late today!!! :grouphug: I've had a very busy day today, and I hope to be back tonight to play catch up!

lovethatsara
08-29-2006, 04:49 PM
Yeah the challenege sounds fun kandice. I'll join :)

kandices2ndtry
08-29-2006, 04:58 PM
so what are the rules? must be present for all the month in order to qualify? or can someone jump in whenever? so like the sept challenge you have to join Sept 1st- at lastest by sept 8th first week.

should we all have different goals? some water- some stairs- or should it all be the same thing like 5% weight?

we need some rules before we start playing... what does everyone think?

iwantnewpants
08-29-2006, 05:07 PM
Oooo yeah.....let's do a challenge! This will be great!

I think we should do a 5% of weight challenge. Either that or a minutes exercised challenge. If we do the 5% challenge....the winner is the person who reaches the 5% first. Or if we do a minutes challenge....the winner is the person who reaches a certain number of minutes first.

What do you guys think?

lovethatsara
08-29-2006, 05:19 PM
I like the 5% weight change, I think they should be present and since this will probably be a once a month thing then they can always join the next one. Personally I think everyone should have the same challenge. Thats just my opinion.

sapphire35
08-29-2006, 06:09 PM
Hi - Aquachick:wave:

Amanda: I think writing childrens books is a neat concept. I wouldn't know how to do something like that. Good luck with that, I hope you succeed. There just not enough time in the day when we want it. I came up with a really neat idea for a childrens game, toy, you know. I even had a patent lawyer take a look at the idea, he thought it was great and told me how to proceed with it. Can you believe I haven't done anything with the idea yet. I'm such a procrastinator.

Okay Ladies Kandice, sara, and Iwantnewpants, I don't care which we do. The 5% is fine with me. Is it 5% of the goal weight we set for Sept. or overall? And we should all definitely have the same challenge.

Someone could list the rules and we vote? Amanda is in a challenge maybe she can help with rules. Oh Amanda Help us get this going.:^:

Hun.e.B
08-29-2006, 06:48 PM
Good Afternoon all, I'm taking the girls to the waterpark this afternoon so I thought I'd better check in now.

As far as the challenge, love the idea! I did a challenge years ago where it was all based on your own statistics (you take your measurements) and whoever lost the biggest percentage of themselves won. We had a weekly checkin to see how we all were doing. and excel spreadsheet would be really easy to set up for that too, I'd be happy to do it! Something to think about rather than making it a race. The exercise minutes is great too, whoever has the most minutes at the end of the month?

I also think you've gotta be enrolled in the challenge by at least the 7th of the month to make it fair for everyone. And then for the reward, we can set up an amazon gift certificate for the winner and then they can pick whatever they want.

I love challenges! This is what I need to get things rolling!

~melissa

lovethatsara
08-29-2006, 08:06 PM
I just want to say I agree with everything Melissa said

n2luvnlife
08-29-2006, 08:10 PM
Oh, I would love a challenge. That would get me psyched. I agree with Melissa says. Let's do it!:hug:

Amany
08-29-2006, 08:49 PM
Sapphire - I'm so glad you didn't have any heart problems. I know that must have been nerve-wrecking. Now you can take a HUGE sigh of relief. Ahhh... Thanks again for the questionnaire. It was fun. The challenge that I'm a part of doesn't involve money. Just the satisfaction of knowing you've reached your goal. :)

Bonnie - I hope you don't get rained on to much out there.

Brit - Don't be afraid of chemistry. Just stay on top of it. Ask questions, get help right away when you need it and study, study, study. Someone recommended Slim in 6 to me today. Let me know how you like it.
BTW, I'm really sorry to hear about your great-grandfather. I hope he's not in any pain.

Melissa - You're a busy, busy woman! School, kids, PTA.... :faint: Please let us know if you hear from Danielle. I'm starting to worry a bit.

AquaChick - Hi there lady. Glad you dropped in! :)

u2girl
08-29-2006, 11:06 PM
Hello everyone:

Hope everyone had a Tremendous Tuesday. My days are pretty busy these days.

Trish, shocks the heck out of me that you are here in St. Louis and have twins. Have you joined MOTC? I an no longer active. Wow, that is amazing. How old are your twins? My girls are 9 months. We must talk!!! :)

Okay, here goes:

Name or nickname: Charley or U2girl
Age: 30
Location: St. Louis, MO
Birthday and zodiac sign: 12/9
How tall are you?: 5'8
How much, if any, would you like to lose or gain?: 90 or so pounds
Pet peeves: People that don't wash their hands after sneezing or using the bathroom, people that blow their nose in a restaurants, over the top people, adults that expect other people to clean up after them
What’s your drink(s) of choice?: Strawberry Daiquiri or Amaretto Sour, Pepsi, Cherry Coke
Martial status:? Happily Married
Between you and SO, who is more aggressive?: Definitely me
Anniversary date: 10/30
What type of job do you have:? PT CSA
Own or rent?: Rent
What time do you go to bed?: Too late
What time do you wake up?: 6:30 a.m.
What kind of books do you read?: Biblical, Technical and Self Help
Favorite song: Anything by U2
Favorite movie: BFL
Favorite restaurant:Outback
Favorite quotes: What's up with that??!!
Favorite food or snack: Shrimp Egg Foo Yung
Where would you like to travel?: Hawaii
Worse food or snack: Brussell Sprouts
How many siblings do you have?: 2
What’s your favorite color(s)?: Blue
Any pets:? Yes
What does your screen name mean?: I Love U2 and I'm a girl :)
What are some of the places you travel on BC?: ???
How do people perceive you verses how you really are?: Think I am snobbish, however, when you get to know me, I allright. :) Hey, what's wrong with a little confidence?
If you can change one thing about yourself what would it be?: My weight
Do you play the lotto:? No
Lucky number(s): None
If you were given 2 million dollars what would you do with it?: Buy a house for ourselves and our mothers.
What are your plans for the holiday?: Be with my family

That's all she wrote. See you guys later.

Elycia

needhelp27
08-30-2006, 02:18 AM
Hey all,

I am going to Edmonton, Alberta to see my brother and step-sis and neice for the long weekend. We are leaving early on thursday morning so I hope you guys don't write too much while i'm gone, I might be able to check it when I am there, I am not certain though. Anyways, hope all of you have a wonderful rest of the week, i might be on tomorrow in the morning or early afternoon but it depends if I am all packed, etc. Have fun on the long weekend and stay outta trouble!

Heather


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Butterfly50
08-30-2006, 07:53 AM
Good morning ladies it is early here this morning. Full of excitment that the Granddaughter will be here in about 6 hrs. Going to be decoration today its her 1st Bday today.



Wanted to say that I have lost 4 lbs this week and I measured and I have lost about a good 2 inches off of my waist:belly: The BL diet is doing real good I am so full that I dont want to eat or even have the urge to cheat. Not sure what I will be getting done this week the storm is susposed to be rolling in here tomorrow evening they may even cancel school. I dont think that it is going to be as bad as every one is thinking that it is going to be. I guess that when Hugo came threw it scared alot of people and now they dont take any chances. ( I couldnt tell you any things about that thought I was in the hospital having my son.) I was only around for the after effects.

I better be getting these girls ready to catch the bus will check in later if I can.
HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY.

AquaChick
08-30-2006, 08:55 AM
:sunny: :coffee2: Good Morning Ladies!!!:coffee: :sunny:

Sorry I never made it back last night, I had a super full day, and then- I worked out with my husband!!! We didn't plan on it, but I think he was trying to show me up or something. :lol: I treaded, he treaded... I did some weights, he decided to to some weights...

kandices2ndtry- Hi! I wanted to respond to your question about people treating you bad due to weight, sorry so late in response...

Honestly, my husband is being supportive now. But, I have felt his disgust- and seen it in some his family members and a couple of his friends as well. I do not believe he would leave me over it, but he took it awfully personally. Yes, it had an impact on our sex life. His attraction wasn't really there anymore. Thankfully, certain things have happened because of his attitude towards me that made him change his view. Now he likes to see me working out, he tells me all the time now he's proud of me. He's apologized a lot for being a weiner by acting a certain way towards me over something like body fat. I think he had to see my struggle to lose it to understand how deeply rooted emotionally my eating habits were. It's tough. I'm so sorry to hear about that. She must be hurting right now. :(

needhelp27- I'm so proud of you for resisting those treats the other day. It is hard, but the reward will come soon enough. That will also inspire you to turn away certain things. :hug: I love any music while I work out. I am a Bowie fan, he's on all the time around here. I might be an even bigger ABBA fan, and yes I will work out to ABBA... :lol: Have a good time visiting!

Amany- Hi!! I didn't completely disappear!!! lol...

iwantnewpants- A 14 mile walk is really tough! Great Job! :hug:

sapphire35 - I'm sorry to hear of your losses. :( I lost an immediate family member to a heroin addiction in July. We are pretty sure he got some of the tainted stuff, and I haven't heard what the coroner said yet, but it is bad in Chicagoland right now with that bad heroin.

miafluker - Hi! I like your avatar! You are so smilie... :)

n2luvnlife - Hey, it's pound. :hug: No big deal. I hate the scale. DOWN WITH THE HATED SCALE!!!!!! You could have water weight. All you can do is press onward. A lot of people get very defeated by the scale, and then they say screw it, I give up. Don't become a victim of the scale. Do what you gotta do (water, proper diet, excersise) and once a week step on that thing just to show it who's boss. If it insults you with a number, stick your tongue out at it, give it a few choice words, and tell it you meet it next week..... same place....same time..... ;)

u2girl - I love it!!! A calorie assasinator... :D

Hun.e.B - Shopping sounds good! So nice you got a camera. My husband said his mom is going to buy our children their winter coats this year. I told him that gets really expensive, she doesn't need to, but he said she wants to. I thought that was really sweet of her. She must be missing our babies.

brat_61886 - I hope school goes well for you this year!

Altari - Hi!

lovethatsara - Hi!

Butterfly50 - WAY TO GO!!!!! 4 pounds is a major victory!!!!! :carrot: I hope the storm is not so bad. Take care of yourself, and your family. :hug:

If I missed anyone I deeply apologize. I have been gone and it is so hard to catch up!!! I think of all of you, I promise!

Amany
08-30-2006, 10:03 AM
Morning everyone! Oh, the struggle I had last night...
I didn't do my evening exercise until about 8:50. I was so tired and I just didn't feel like it. I ended up doing Leslie Sansone's Walk and Jog again though. I also tried a new Pilates for Abs. Whoa mama!! It was intense! So, I guess I'll tussle with it for a few weeks. I didn't exercise this morning. I didn't get to bed until almost 11 and I just wanted to sleep this morning. I'll have to get around to doing Harvey's workout tonight.

Bonnie - Cograts on the pounds and inches you lost! You're on a roll aren't you! I'm glad you found an eating plan that you enjoy. Great job.
You've been talking about your grandbaby's arrival so much that I'm starting to get excited too. :) I hope you all have just the best time ever. Be careful in that storm. I hope you're right about it not being that bad.

Aqua! :hug:
It's fun to work out with your husband, isn't it? I was thinking just this morning about how I like doing that on weekends as an alternative to the videos. My husband says he's going to take me to the track when I get my running shoes to help me work on wind sprints. Then I'm going to try and build up to jogging.
I'm glad your husband is on board. Sometimes people just have hang-ups. Until a person deals with his hang-ups he can be difficult. We're all guilty of that. We're all human and therefore, imperfect. He's really making up for it in strides though. :)

Ok, I've been a bit of a scale addict lately. Not a good thing, I know. But my news is good! I'm down 2 more! Yipppeeee!!! :cb:

kandices2ndtry
08-30-2006, 10:09 AM
great- personally i need an end in sight- not just the who loses the most of themselves. it can be a tiebreaker though- if 4 of us reach 5% lost then the one who lost the most by the end of the month? sound good?

I'm good with excel too but melissa if you want to take that one- it's yours!

whoever starts the next thread could you mention it- "join now for the sept 5% challenge?"

The scale is going in the opposite direction right now- 209 this AM! what's wrong?! I've been drinking my water and eating smaller portions but I haven't been real good on exercise. I need to start going to curves again- something just to get me motivated. I packed my change of clothes and tennis shoes and they're in my car for the trip back home tonight to stop by curves.

not a lot of time today- I'll check back in later!

u2girl
08-30-2006, 10:55 AM
I MADE IT!!!! I MADE IT!!!

:carrot: :carrot: :carrot: :carrot: :carrot: :carrot:

I have reached my first 5% goal. I actually exceeded it by 0.5 lbs. I am very excited, as you can see. Unfortunately, typically I lose weight great for the 1st 2 weeks and then the rate of loss drops off dramatically after that. Anyways, out to buy my new sports watch. Yep, I changed it, I have been wanting a new sports watch forever! My new pair of shoes will be my next reward.

I definitely want to get in on the next 5% challenge.

See you guys later.

Elycia

Hun.e.B
08-30-2006, 11:28 AM
Good Wednesday Morning everyone!! A smokey one at that, a new one must have broken out close by because its awful today. Giving me a headache already so that means we'll be staying inside! I went bike shopping yesterday and think I might have found one. Its white, a cruiser! Still thinking about it. I'm a bit tired today, stayed up too late working on those darn flyers for PTA, I need to get to the printers today though or they wont be done by school next week!

Heather...have a nice visit with your family! Keep making those great choices!! We'll miss you and we'll 'see' you when you get back!

Bonnie...I hope you have the BEST time with your granddaughter!! I hope the storm is a mild one. I'll keep you in my thoughts, I think anymore after Katrina we can never be too cautious! WAY TO GO on your loss!!! How exciting for you!!! Keep up the good work!! You are doing so GREAT!

Aqua...funny how life ends up keeping us busy sometimes huh?! Thats so fun that you worked out with dh....left him in your dust though I bet! LOL!! "apologized for being a weiner" HA!! I love it!!! I hope today goes easier for you!!

Amanda....WOOOOHOOOO!!! You worked out even when you didnt want to!! Girl, now that is determination!! You are so amazing!! And a 2 lb loss too!!! Yay!!!! You are my inspiration in such a major way!! keep up the GREAT work!

Kandice...dont put too much stock in that stupid scale. Our bodies just fluctuate too much to take it too seriously. could be retention is it getting close to AF? could be stress, who knows. Just keep making healthy choices for you!

Elycia!! You deserve to be excited!!! That is so fantastic!!! You are doing such a fabulous job and its all paying off!! Now that first reward!!! I'm so happy for you!! Keep up the amazing job!! Way to go!!!

Okay, gotta get going to class! I think on September first we should start a separate thread for the challenge and like Kandice said mention the challenge in our new weekly thread. That way things wont get lost. I'll throw together the spreadsheet later today and figure out how to post it to the web too and I'll dig out that old challenge we did so long ago to see how we did the rules..is that okay?

have a wonderful day everyone!! I'll be back to check on you later!

iwantnewpants
08-30-2006, 11:53 AM
Good morning Lady Girls!

Elycia....WAY TO GO!! I am SO proud of you! Every goal you reach is so important and you reached this one so quickly....NICE work!

Amanda....I think your new nickname should be "Tenacious A". I can't believe you're going to do Harvey later....tell him I said "Hi" and "please don't hurt me!" Also, that is really cool that you write children's literature. Way cool.

Melissa....thank you so much for being willing to put together the spread sheet. I am terrible with Excel, so kudos to you.

Aqua....I cracked up at the "apologized for being a weiner" comment as well. Though, I must say that it's quite impressive that his attitude has changed. I think guys, generally speaking of course, don't understand how difficult the weight issue is for women. There is so much more pressure on us to be fit and trim than there is for men.

Heather....have a wonderful visit with your family! And congrats on the great choices!

Bonnie....I hope the birthday celebration is fantastic! And I will be thinking about you and the rest of the SE folks as you brace for Ernesto. All of you take care of yourselves!

Alright, I know I forgot some people, but I'm just too excited to share my news......I hopped on the scale this morning and I've lost 5 pounds! Woo hoo! I get to move my ticker!

Everyone take care today!

Liz

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kandices2ndtry
08-30-2006, 12:48 PM
Okay, gotta get going to class! I think on September first we should start a separate thread for the challenge and like Kandice said mention the challenge in our new weekly thread. That way things wont get lost. I'll throw together the spreadsheet later today and figure out how to post it to the web too and I'll dig out that old challenge we did so long ago to see how we did the rules..is that okay?



sounds great! thank you! I agree new thread on Friday, can we link the 2 threads somehow...


real busy at work- no time to chat!

sapphire35
08-30-2006, 12:51 PM
Good Morning Ladies:coffee2:

You Ladies are "OFF the Chain" (means crazy, Wild, amazing)!

:cheer: CONGRATULATIONS:cheer:

U2girl - Great job on the 5% goal, Yeah! :carrot: :carrot: :carrot:

Bonnie - Great job on the 4 lbs & inches. Have a great time with your granddaughter. :woo:

Amanda - Congrats on the 2 lbs. You have an awesome will power you and Bonnie. :carrot: :carrot:

Iwantnewpants - Way to drop those pounds. Congrats on the 5 lbs. :carrot: :carrot: :carrot:. You ladies are animals right now.

Kandice - Don't sweat the 1 pound. It'll will be gone in no time. Its probably already trying to figure out how to runaway. lol. :D

Aquachick - Thats great about you and DH working out together. Love that team work. I'm so glad he apologized and is being supportive thats wonderful.:)

I do silly stuff to help me keep track of everyone in my head, Like names and weight lose, so here goes. Correct me if I wrong please.

Altari - 249/237/160 - 12 lbs lost
Amanda - 250/229/130 - 21 lbs lost
Aquachick - 185/172/110 - 13 lbs lost
Bonnie - 288/276/150 - 12 lbs lost
Brat - _?_/_?_/180 - 5 lbs lost
Danielle - _?_/_?_/_?_ -
Iwantnewpants - 189/184/125 - 5 lbs lost
Kandice - 211/209/165 - 2 lbs lost
Littlelori - 185/180/125 - 5 lbs lost
Melissa - 248.6/248.6/165 - o lbs lost
Mia - 227/223/150 - 4 lbs lost
Sapphire - 212/209/130 - 3 lbs lost
Sara - 285/272/155 - 13 lbs lost
TriciaK - 212/212/130 - o lbs lost
U2girl - 250.5/237.5/225.5 - 13 lbs lost

If I got anyone wrong just let me know. I just thought maybe this would help all of us if we see the numbers all together every now and then. I'm thinking once a month or every two weeks. What do you guys think?

AquaChick
08-30-2006, 01:29 PM
Amany- :hug: Back at ya babe! Yeah, I have some days like that too. The way I deal with it is to make a deal that I don't sleep until I get it done. Usually, I am sooo ready when I wake up, but sometimes the workout was so intense the day before that I slept like a brick. So, I just make myself, just like you made yourself do it. Don't worry, I know Harvey can light a fire under anyone's tail.... lol...

kandices2ndtry- You're on the right track, but excersise is half the process. When you do cardio you inhale oxygen- which in turn will help you burn fat. Whrn you tone (adding weights is especially beneficial for this) your muscles become hot, and I'm telling you, this sizzles your body. You burn a lot of calories that way. Curves would be awesome! :hug:

u2girl- WOOOOOOHOOOOO!!!!! You are doing so good, you are truly an inspiration to me!


sapphire35- That is amazing! You got mine right. I hope I can move it down some tomorrow. :)


Hun.e.B- Sorry to hear about your headache. :hug: Hope you get to feeling better.

iwantnewpants- 5 pounds!!!! Yay!!!!! :carrot:

brat_61886
08-30-2006, 01:35 PM
Hey ladies, i was going to post last night but i was soooooo tired. I found out i have to give an oral presentation for my tech writing class and i totally freaked out. I am terrified of standing infront of people. Honestly i feel like its judgement day and they are judging whether i'm going to **** or heaven. i shake and its just bad. last time i had a panick attack. anyways besides that things are okay. i'm going to start eating a lil more. i realized i was only eating like 800 cals a day and i know thats not good. Anyways nothing else new. My great grandpa is a lil better. they got him to drink, which is great considering is was comatose just a couple days ago.

I would love to join the challenge. I'm going to start going back to them gym when i get home from this weekend. But seeing as my cousin and her kids are coming ill have a work out just with that!!!


Trish, I think keeping track of everyones weight would be awesome. Its so hard to keep up with people all the time and honestly i usually forget or get peoples weightloss confused.

Liz- Congrats on the weightloss thats awesome!!!!!!

Melissa- Be careful with the fires. We have a burn ban going right now and only a few local ones got a lil crazy. It was kinda scary to watch. For the first time in my life i felt bad for cows and considered letting them out!!! As for the bike, its a great workout. Back when i really didnt workout or more except to go the fridge or bed, i road a bike and i got a good 5-10 miles, and i honestly wanted to do more. Go for it. you'll love it.

Elycia- Congrats!!!! thats awesome!!!!!! go girl!!!!!

Amanda- i know how you feel. its hard sometimes to get up and workout, but sometimes thats your body's way of saying just rest and let me catch up. Sometimes if its not dark just going for a short walk will wake u up a lil and then u wanna work out.

Aqua- Thats so cute u and ur husband worked out together!!!!!!! i think the last time i got to talk to you, you were at the doctor, but its sounds like everything is good now. I'm so happy!

Butterfly- u go with the 2 inches. thats awesome!!! keep it up. your granddaughter is sooooo cute!!! hope you had a great time with her!

Heather- have fun!!!!!!!

Kandice- I was pretty lucky. ive never really been treated bad by anyone. I wasnt really teased in school or anything like that. I think i'm harder on me then anyone else could ever be. When I feel fat its like i tell myself i'm not good enough to be friends with certain people, or that i look stupid going to a club and dancing. So i stay in my apartment alot. For some reason though the past couple of weeks have energized me and i feel like i can accomplish anything i want too. But as for people saying things to me my dad gets to me the most. thats one of the reasons i stay away from him. I remember one summer i came home to texasand i was doing the herbalife diet and i had lost 15-20 pounds (i was living in mexico with my grandparents and we would come home to texas in the summer). I had woken up one morning and he walked in and he looked at me and said to my grandma right infront of me "Mamma she might have lost 15-20 pounds in the front but if you look behind her you can see them." that was the end of the herbalife diet for me, and then end of my relationship with him. the sad part was i was only like 11 years old. but he isnt in my life now and i feel stronger without him.

Anyways i'm going to end this. I know i forgot people but if i didnt stop it was going to take up the whole page!!!!!!!!
Have a grea day ladies!

Sugar-N-Spice
08-30-2006, 01:36 PM
Hello you lovely ladies! :sunny:

Sorry I have been MIA the last few days. Thanks Amanda and Melissa for checking on me. :) Frankly, with the size of our little group & the speed of posting, I didn't think anybody would notice. You guys are posting like wildfire!

I have been doing a workbook for compulsive/binge eating and it has been VERY trying. I hadn't anticipated the emotional toll it would take on me, leaving me physically exhausted by the end of the day as well. I think I am finally getting down to the core of what my issue is with food and hopefully learning some things to do when I feel those urges again. Amazing how much stuff from 20 years ago can affect who you are today regardless of how much you think you've forgiven & forgotten.

I finally did get my book about the GL diet. Interesting to a point, not sure I'm completely sold. His theory is that you don't need to force all the water that is told to everyone to drink. He claims that there is enough water in all the foods we eat that while primarily water should be our main source of liquid, he just thinks we should gauge our "thirst" to be our meter for how much we choose to consume. I am not even halfway thru it yet so still have lots to find out. So far though it's interesting how this works...mainly just staying away from refined carbs, and all breads of all types. I'll let you know. So far tho, I am just enjoying watching my portions and keeping sugar low. I haven't weighed (I'm askeered to! lol) so no idea what I weigh now. I know that my appetite has been big the last few days and no exercise so I know I definitely haven't lost. I'll be happy if I maintained at this point.

Did the BL workout this morning. Good Lord Almighty! It irks me that I have such issues with those lunges and squats! I feel it mostly in my knees instead of where I should either in my thighs, hips or buns! LOL I think I figured it out tho, my core strength is not much. So I am going to concentrate on maybe some pilates or yoga to build that and see if that doesn't help with the other workout. I love the BL workouts, I just wish I was feeling the burn in the right places! :lol:

I am SO in for the challenge for September!! I think it's a brilliant idea girls and something I think that will really keep me motivated. 5% for me is like almost 13 pounds. :eek: but I definitely want to try and get as close to that as I can.

I am SO proud of all the losing that's been going on around here. You guys are absolutely amazing! :cp: :dancer: :cheer: I tell ya, I don't know what I would do if I didn't have all of you everyday. I seriously think I might be depressed and feeling like it's all hopeless. Thanks for everything ladies! ♥

I will try and get to personals later today...I am WAY behind. I wanted to let ya'll know that I'm still alive and doing alright. Hanging in there and determined not to give up, just trying to clean up my "mental messes" once and for all.

AquaChick
08-30-2006, 01:40 PM
brat_61886- Hi! :hug:

Sugar-N-Spice- I missed you!!!! :hug: Wow, that is pretty intense, the workbook you have been working on. I don't believe gauging by your thirst. That is a sign that you need water, so you are already dry. Plus I can say from personal experience that water has improved my skin, and I am sure it helps me with the migraines I get sometimes.

I am up for a challenge too. I didn't catch all the details, but I think something like that will be a huge motivation. :)

Sugar-N-Spice
08-30-2006, 01:49 PM
Aqua, the deal with the water......this is exactly one reason why I'm on the fence about this guy. I LOVE LOVE LOVE my water. It has so many health benefits that I find it hard for someone (especially a cardiologist) to say that water isn't something to try and get in every single day. Of course, this book was written eons ago, so go firgure...:rolleyes: Water definitely helps with skin and hair IMO. My son's orthodontist also told us that one big reason why he (my son) was probably having jaw pain was that he was dehydrated and to up the water and see what happens. It definitely helped, I was shocked! BTW, thanks for missing me. :hug: I missed being here, but really needed to take a few days and try and regroup.

lovethatsara
08-30-2006, 03:01 PM
Good Morning ladies. My 5% would be 13.6 Danielle. wow in one month hmm lets see thats about 3.4 lbs a week... I CAN DO IT!:running: I gotta do a lot of walking and now more than ever am I going to have to not cheat (I had pasta from pizza hut last night :( ) and do some more of those excersize videos I have at home that I dont use. Maybe in the morning do the video and at night do my walking. or maybe after my walk I can do one of the videos. :cheer: We can do it! good luck everyone :)

Hun.e.B
08-30-2006, 03:34 PM
WOOOHOO Liz!! Way to go on an EXCELLENT loss!!! You are doing so GREAT!

Oh Trish...I'm just not liking that zero lost for me!! gonna have to change that! LOL!!

Britt...I'm glad to hear your grandpa is doing better, you better be eating girl! Your body needs fuel to lose! I have to share a funny little story. My freshman year I took public speaking and had to do 4 speeches...they were ****! My final speech had to be a commemorative. And I did my best friend from highschool, It was very emotional for me and I started totally bawling right there in front of the whole class. But I made it through! And you will too! Everyone else has to do it too, and they arent judging you!

Danielle...there is no way in **** I would miss you not being around! And I think everyone agrees with me on that one! Interesting points on the water, I learned the same about supplements. But, I do agree with Aqua that once you are thirsty you are already on your way to dehydration. You need to be drinking it before that happens. Way to go for getting that workout done! I hope you are feeling better! Hopefully we can find some time to chat one of these days!

Okay, I've gotta run to the printers with these stinking flyers and then I can throw together challenge stuff. I was thinking we should do both % of ourselves but keep track of exercise minutes too in case we need to do tie breaker...what do you think?

~melissa

Amany
08-30-2006, 04:02 PM
:hug: :hug: Danielle!!!! :hug: :hug: I'm so glad to see you! I'm sorry, but I don't think we can let you go on trips anymore. We have to keep you tied your computer all the time. Or make you wear some sort of tracking device. :lol:
It's courageous of you to work through that workbook. That sort of thing can be heavy. But I'm glad you're doing it. That means the rest of us won't have to. :D You can do all the hard work and then diagnose the problems the rest of us have. I think I like that deal very much! :)
I know what you mean about squats and lunges. Especially lunges. Squats got better for me when I improved my form. You're to pretend like you're about to sit down then changed your mind. Then you push back up with your heels. Lunges just stopped hurting so bad. I can't really pinpoint what made them better. Could be the Pilates, my legs now being stronger or the weight loss. I do know that the more I exercise, the less painful they are. I think I'll even be ready to try my bellydancing dvds again soon. There's a lot of lunges in the workouts.
Please forgive my ignorance, but what is BL? :dunno:

Kandice - Don't stress over the pound. Fluctuations happen all the time with weight loss. Especially with women.
I understand exactly what you mean about need to have the end in sight. It's good to have a few mini-goals.

Liz - Congrats on the five pounds chicky! And thanks for the new name. ;)

Hi Trish! - I would love to be able to say that I've lost 21 pounds. It's only been 19 though. I changed my stats right away!! :lol: I was so tickled pink that I just couldn't control myself.
I think it would be great to see our numbers every two weeks. It would help to keep us all motivated and remind us of how far we've come.

Aqua - :lol: What you told N2 was so funny! Step on the scale and show it who's boss! :lol:

Britt - I understand completely what you mean about public speaking. I hate it! I remember many times breaking out in cold sweats and getting the "shakies" so bad that it was a distraction.
Thankfully, I've grown a little more confident. It's not quite as bad as it once was, but I'd still rather eat dirt. It does get better though.
I'm glad to hear your great grandfather is getting better. Yes, you do need more than 800 calories a day. If you can't bring yourself to eat a full meal, try 4 - 5 small snacks a day. Spaced out. That will at least keep your metabolism going.

Hi Sara! Yes, you can do it! This challenge is going to be good for a lot of people, I think.

Well, I'd better go. I'll try to catch up with all of you later.

Bye!!

Sugar-N-Spice
08-30-2006, 05:07 PM
Amanda :wave: BL is Biggest Loser. Bob really has a way with those lunges and squats. Only thing that drives me nutty about this dvd is that no one stays together! 2 are the same, the other 2 are a different way and then there's Bob somewhere in between. LOL I love squats, love feeling that burn. Only thing is that all the dang lunges come before the squats, and by that time, all I can feel is my knees! :lol: I think I really do need to work on my core alot and see what happens. I am going to keep riding the bike too, get my legs and lower back conditioned back to where I used to be. Girl, you are on fire with that weight loss!!! I am so incredibly proud of you. You are definitely working for it tho with all that exercise. GOOD FOR YOU!!!

Aqua, hows the WW coming along? Did you :tread: today? :D

Melissa, lol, I sorta figured you would notice, only cause we've been glued at the hip for, what, how many years now? ;) Yeah, the water thing is sorta strange to me...cause my understanding was the same, that if you're at the thirsty level then you're already past dehydration. ? This author is a big proponent for low carbing, and had lots of positive things to say about Atkins. His switch for a lower carb plan is to not omit the veggies, fruit or milk, claiming that in fact, these things can only help you lose weight. I only read a few more chapters this morning and that's as far as I got. His only thing he says to stay away from is starch, starch, starch. When you look at it from a g.i./g.l. point of view it definitely makes sense. Letcha know what other tidbits I find out. I do not know how you are balancing school, with pta, with being a mom & wife, and then us and our challenge. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for offering to do the sheet for us Mel! Its very much appreciated!!!!

Sara, you and I are almost in the same boat with the 5%--mine's 12.55. This terrifies me to no end but I'm gonna give it my best shot. You sound like you've got a good workout routine in place, the weight will have no choice but to melt off ya chicky!!!

Brat, I am glad to hear that your g-pa is doing a bit better. I just got word last night that my g-ma is sick and they don't know what's wrong with her. Best of luck on your presentation, I am sure you'll do wonderful! I am not a good public speaker, I tend to mumble. lol I also feel like I am being judged the entire I am speaking, and usually feels like it's about my weight. Have a great time visiting with your cousin and chasing the kidlets around! :)

Trish, thanks for posting everyone's stat's. Nice to see it as a whole. How has your day been?

Liz, congrat's on the 5!!!! Great things are definitely happening aren't they?! :dance: You are doing beautifully missy, keep up the good work!!!

Kandice, thanks so much for the idea of a challenge. It came at a super time to help me get motivated and finally, just maybe, get some of this weight off. Hope work isn't keeping ya too busy that we miss seeing you again today. ;)

Elycia, :cheer: WTG on reaching your 5%!!!!!!!!! That was really great to read today, you've been working so hard on this. How is the new job? I hope you like it. I gotta tell you, every time I see your girls pic, I wanna just grab their little cheeks! They are just absolutely precious!!!!!!

Bonnie, I hope you and your family are staying safe with all this storm stuff hanging around. Enjoy your grandbaby!!!

I feel like I've forgotten people, if I did please forgive me. I am so behind in posts its not even funny. Dh teased me this morning saying that I didnt need a job cause trying to just keep up with you all was work enough. :lol: Of course he can't even comprehend what goes on here, he just knows that when I'm parked in front of the box here I am posting. :lol:

miafluker
08-30-2006, 05:33 PM
hi everyone wow i missed alot first congrats on everyone's weight loss
i have not been doing so well this week (can someone please kick me in the behind) im doing good with water but i havnt been on my ww plan much this week i just lost track or either didnt eat anything like today my hubby had surgery and i was there with him all morning first i was cranky for having to get up early then i didnt get to eat and when i did it was a sausage biscuit at mcdonalds i felt really disgusted with myself and because im moping around tying to budget a way for me to get turbo jam i havent done any exercise..... i have not weighed any this week because im scared that i gained all of my 4lbs back i really need to snap out of it.....

can someone tell me the rules of this challenge maybe this is what i need
thanks
you guys are doing great even if my scale dosent go down im glad someone else's is

Hun.e.B
08-30-2006, 05:42 PM
Mia......KICK!!:devil: :drill: :frypan: How's that? LOL!
~melissa

Sugar-N-Spice
08-30-2006, 05:52 PM
Gotta get in on the action! :D

Name or nickname: Danielle, Dani...or as my husband referrs to me as HM(high maintenance)

Age: 36

Location: Phoenix, AZ

Birthday and zodiac sign: September 2 Virgo

How tall are you?: 5'4"

How much, if any, would you like to lose or gain?: 110 :eek:

Pet peeves: clutter, people who chew with their mouth open, LOUD NEIGHBORS ;) , people who act like their better than me

What’s your drink(s) of choice?: water, diet dr. pepper; alcoholic- seabreezer

Martial status:? Married

Between you and SO, who is more aggressive?: ME

Anniversary date: June 9

What type of job do you have:? SAHM--so this means:cook,dr,accountant,chauffer,launderer,refere e,psychologist, and teacher. ;)

Own or rent?: Rent

What time do you go to bed?: midnight usually

What time do you wake up?: 6am

What kind of books do you read?: murder/mystery, girly stories, and I love trashy (read: jackie collins) novels once in awhile.

Favorite song: Reach for the Sky-Social Distortion, anything by Gwen Stefani, and the one stuck in my head for days..... the new Justin Timberlake song! :dizzy:

Favorite movie: Pretty Woman, anything by John Huges, Dutch

Favorite restaurant: Rock Bottom

Favorite quotes:

Favorite food or snack: steak with all the trimmings, ice cream

Where would you like to travel?: Italy, Japan

Worse food or snack: liver, clams/mussels,

How many siblings do you have?: 3 sisters--I'm the oldest. Youngest sis is 20 years younger than me. :eek:

What’s your favorite color(s)?: black, blue,

Any pets:? NO, but I want a puppy!!!

What does your screen name mean?: DH came up with it...gonna have to ask him! ;)

What are some of the places you travel on BC?: ??????

How do people perceive you verses how you really are?: some may think I'm *****y, others may assume I'm quiet and reserved...SO not the case! :p

If you can change one thing about yourself what would it be?: My weight obviously, and my lack of self confidence

Do you play the lotto:? No

Lucky number(s): 2, 4, 6 and 13
If you were given 2 million dollars what would you do with it?: Pay off my bills, buy a home, travel, set up college funds for my kids

What are your plans for the holiday?: No idea....

miafluker
08-30-2006, 05:58 PM
:cry: :faint: thank you okay im back now:carrot:




Mia......KICK!!:devil: :drill: :frypan: How's that? LOL!
~melissa


5% of my weight is 10.9lbs

sapphire35
08-30-2006, 06:37 PM
Hope this is right?

Altari - 249/237/160 - 12 lbs lost
Amanda - 250/231/130 - 19 lbs lost
Aquachick - 185/172/110 - 13 lbs lost
Bonnie - 288/276/150 - 12 lbs lost
Brat - _?_/_?_/180 - 5 lbs lost
Danielle - 254.5/251/140 - 3.5 lbs lost
Iwantnewpants - 189/184/125 - 5 lbs lost
Kandice - 211/209/165 - 2 lbs lost
Littlelori - 185/180/125 - 5 lbs lost
Melissa - 248.6/248.6/165 - o lbs lost
Mia - 227/223/150 - 4 lbs lost
Sapphire - 212/209/130 - 3 lbs lost
Sara - 285/272/155 - 13 lbs lost
TriciaK - 212/212/130 - o lbs lost
U2girl - 250.5/237.5/225.5 - 13 lbs lost

OKay Amanda I think I got you right now ;). Thats was making me nervous all those pounds you had lost, I didn't know how was catch u.:) Nice weight lose for real tho!:cool: I can't wait til I can say I've lost 19 lbs, its such a hugh accomplishment. This is just not easy, you have to really want this new look and healthier life style.
And I know we all want this more than ever. Just looking at the numbers lost by everyone is a hugh incentive to me.:carrot:

Hi Danielle:wave: Glad your back! :dancer:

I wish I could see results already. I think thats what makes me so frustrated early on. That may be why I never really stick to a diet or exercising. You feel better and you can feel the pains, but it takes so long to see the results.

Funny story, My mother-inlaw call yesterday. She was all upset. She has really bad knees and weighs roughly 260 lbs (she is 58yrs old). Well she wanted to go buy a car yesterday and she asked her cousin to take her. He's a lot fun, kinda the life of the party at functions and he's a few years younger than her. He takes her to this car dealer. She goes in to look for a car and its all Trucks, this nut took her to a truck dealer ship. She got reallly pissed and started yelling at him at the dealers. She asked him what the F#%!was she going to do with Truck. He told her he felt she needed one, he was tired of always having to pick her up because her car broke down or come having to come an move some stuff for her. The salesmen were cracking up.

My husband and I was dying laughing. Because This cousin is off the chain. He's wild. He knows she can't even climb in her car let alone a dually.:D

Anyways me 5% weight would be 10.45 lbs. Lets doing it ladies, I'm ready.:carrot: :carrot: :carrot: :carrot: :carrot: :carrot: :jig:

n2luvnlife
08-30-2006, 10:07 PM
I just spent 20 minutes typing a long reply to everyone and the server booted me off. Sorry ladies!!! Just makes me MAD!!!!! :mad:

Aqua, I posted "I AM THE BOSS" in the bathroom above my scale. LOL
My husband loves it.

Sapphire: LMAO - that story is absolutely hilarious. Thanks for sharing. I wish I had somene like that around me to keep me going, I wouldn't have time to get depressed.:) Thanks for putting all of our weights together. Keeps things in perspective.

AManda - MY HERO!!!! Like I said before, when I grow up I want to be just like you. I am gonna catch ya though. ;)

Miaflucker - I was gonna kick ya, but Melissa beat me to it.

Danielle, glad your back - I haven't been on here long, but always enjoyed reading your posts. Can't wait to get to know you better.

Brat, I know how you feel. I had to get up last year for work in front of 300 people. I thought I was going to die, but I did it. YOU CAN TO>>>> I worried to much about it. They have to do it too. Keep telling yourself that. :hug:

Lovethatsara, I am with ya! More exercise after eating Mexican tonight. BAD Me!!!

Sugar-N-Spice - I feel like you. Hard to keep up with all the posts. This goes at lightning speed. I love it though. I think I need to start posting three times a day instead of one. Maybe I could keep up better.

I feel bad if I forgot anyone. Please forgive me, you were probably remembered on the posting I did before this one that is in cyberspace somewhere. Kick me in my butt for eating Mexican with my husband tonight. Not on my Atkins diet. But, small victory - I had only 10 chips instead of the whole basket. ;) and opt'd out of the rice and beans and settled for chicken quesadillas. Oh, well tomorrow is another day.

Bye chickadees.

u2girl
08-30-2006, 10:34 PM
If you guys wonder if you can ever get in shape again, don't doubt it. Check out Ms. Morjorie at 86.

http://www.citypaper.net/articles/2006-08-03/naked.shtml

Danielle, so good to see ya back. Missed ya!

Elycia

Hun.e.B
08-31-2006, 01:32 AM
I posted the challenge info

http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/showthread.php?t=92749

AquaChick
08-31-2006, 07:57 AM
:coffee: :sunny: Good Morning Ladies!!!! :coffee: :sunny:

Sugar-N-Spice- I understand about regrouping. Sometimes that's extremely important. :hug: Oh yeah, I tread everyday. I have to. I'm replacing my ice cream addiction with a daily workout. :D You'd be proud of me, I turned down a KitKat last night!!! Went to bed and got up this morning to tread.

lovethatsara- Hi!

Hun.e.B- Hi! Thanks for posting the challenge info. :)

Amany- I do squats every day, and yep- the sitting in the chair and changing you mind- is definately the correct form. When you begin to feel the burn you know it's working. I think form is a big key, but you are so right, the stronger we get the *easier* it is, but it is always going to be hard. It has to be, we have to keep up the challenge. :)

miafluker- Mia! :hug: My scale barely moved!!! 1 pound! I think I am retaining water. That's okay, if this is the case it will move in my next weigh in. I don't care about the scale anyway. My body is changing shape, and I can feel a difference, so it's okay.

sapphire35- I know what you mean. Sometimes I'll be walking and I'll say stuff like, "why can't you just go away?".... (I'm talking to my fat) of course it just sits there and does nothing. lol... It's hard to have to endure the long process, but it will be worth it. I'm staring at my old jeans everyday and I know I fit into them once before- I can do it again!

n2luvnlife- lol... I'm glad you put that up there. You're only obligation to the scale is to walk all over it. Do not let it hurt your feelings, it only gauges where you're at. :hug:


u2girl- Good morning hon! :)

sapphire35
08-31-2006, 10:06 AM
:cofdate: GOODMORNING :flow1:

U2 girl - I want to be just like the 86 yr old.:jig: Amazing, now thats impressive. She got her nerves showing us up like that at her age.:) Hey U2 where do you live in St. Louis. I'm in st. charles.

Hi Danielle:wave:

Melissa thanks for getting the new thread going. Your an extremely busy woman, I don't see how you jungle so much in one day.:thanks:

N2luvnlife: Way to scold that scale. Love the quote, good one. I haven't even got on the scale lately. I'm afraid of being disappointed. I feel like I'm loosing weight, but scared to really find out differently. I'm going to have to get one the girls to measure me at the gym. I don't even know my inches.

Hi Amanda, Brit, iwantnewpants, sara, mia, kandice, aquachick, littlelori, altari, bonnie, and triciak. Whew I think that was everyone, I hope.:wave: :wave:

Altari
08-31-2006, 10:10 AM
Hey all. I've been AWOL and it's taking a toll on my eating. :( I worked from 8:30AM to (literally) midnight on Monday, with an hour and a half break to go home, shower, change and eat. Since Saturday I've clocked 42 hours. I still have to work on Friday!!!! I've been living on fast food and pizza.

Today's my day off, though, so I plan on loading up on vegetation - and finally getting some exercise in.

u2girl - love that article! Great figure for an old lady! :D

AquaChick
08-31-2006, 10:43 AM
Altari- Wow, you were working a lot. :hug: Well, it happens. My only advice to beat those times (and that was rough!!! ) is to pack your own stuff. I know it's a pain in the butt when you are super busy like that, but I don't know how else to get around it. I used to binge for comfort among other things, so I think if I worked a shift like that it would test me, that's for sure.

kandices2ndtry
08-31-2006, 10:45 AM
thanks for the new thread! I know weight can fluctuate and so I'm just taking this in stride today too- but the scale this AM said 206! please please please let it be right! I would do a carrot dance! :carrot:

today is stair day again- i sweat enough on those it's gotta be doing something and my bum and hamstrings after shoot like little shocks- kinda like when your foot falls asleep and comes back- same type of thing almost. does anyone else have these after exercising?

also when you're walking does anyone elses hands feel tight? like they're swelling up. Asked DH when we went for a walk last night and he said yeah a little but I think he was just saying yes.

DH is on plant shutdown all next week so he'll go on walks with me in the evening. I like it- that's our time to talk and catch up and not sitting in front of the tv or anything.

sorry no personals- I've been way to busy at work. seems like when I get here people want everything! hello! let me check my email and phone first! yesterday I got so frustrated at people. we have a parking garage and I buy "tickets" to validate our members parking- and some of the staff buy them too (from me) I'm the only one that can sign for it. yesterday was payroll day and I have a deadline to get it in to TX by- we're part of a bigger org ClubCorp from Dallas, TX- and this girl was coming in every 15 minutes- have you bought tickets yet- they were for her. fianlly said, I'm doing payroll- do you want to get paid or do you want parking tickets?! ugh! she must have told people because everyone stayed away the rest of the day until payroll was done! LOL!

I'll check back again late today!

Great job everyone! :cheer:

Amany
08-31-2006, 10:47 AM
Good morning Lovelies.

Hi AquaChick! - You are really rockin with that tread! You're doing such a great job. You're motivating the rest of us to stay on track. Squats too? You go chicky!! ;)
I agree with keeping things challenging. It's so good for our muscles, including our hearts. Which, of course, is a muscle too. :) I've been writing a lot about jogging lately. I don't really even know why I want to jog after all these years, but I loved it when I was younger and did it for fun. I loved that "thump, thump, thump" I'd feel in my chest and the way that second wind felt. I guess I'm trading addictions too.

Melissa - I can't wait for you all to start the challenge! It really makes me happy to read about someone losing weight, drinking all their water and losing inches. It keeps me going. I think a lot of people are going to surprise themselves when they find out what they're capable of. This will give everyone an opportunity to rise to the occasion.
Since I'm not going to participate, I'll take side bets with people on who I think will win. j/k :lol:

N2 - As and advocate of nonviolence I refuse to kick you. :nono: :lol: It's no biggie, just get back on track. I had Mexican last Sunday. Deep-fried Mexican. I know. I'll do better next time...
I know you'll catch me. I expect it anyday. As soon as I hit my stride and think I'm doing ok, you and Sapphire will be passing me up. She said she was going to get me too. I'll be looking out for the both of you! I love that you put a sign on your scale. You and Aqua crack me up!

Speaking of Sapphire...
Yes, I really want a new body bad. That's why Laila Ali is my avatar. If I had to pick someone to motivate me, it would be her. She has the type of body I want. Of course I don't have the luxury of personal trainers and dieticians like her but, when it comes down it, it's still about eating right and exercising right? She still has to do the work, just like me. So maybe I can close in on her a bit. At least that's what I tell myself. :D
Thanks for the compliment BTW.

Mia - It's really, really important to forgive yourself right away. And not to get too hung up on the numbers. Don't allow yourself to sink into a depression and give up. If you let yourself stay down too long that is exactly what will happen. I know what you mean about being afraid to look at the scale though. Before starting this, I would avoid the scale for weeks and months. Confront it and deal with it head on. Do like Aqua and N2 and show it who's boss!! :mad:

Danielle - I keep hearing that BL is a great workout. I've been hearing about that, T-Tapp, Slim in Six and Turbo Jam. I'm trying so hard to stop buying sooo many videos. My resolve is starting to weaken though.
Isn't it funny how we see something new being advertised, or hear about it, and say, "Oooo.... If only I had that I'd be fit!". Then it just sort of sits there until the next thing gets out attention and we think, "Oooo.... If only I had that I'd be fit!". :lol: I'm glad we're all starting to actually use those videos now.

Yesterday I was too weary to exercise. I've been exhausted for about three weeks and it just wears on me at times. I didn't do anything this morning either, so I must do something sometime today. There's a small golf course behind us for the engineers. They also shoot arrows and play volleyball back there. Isn't that cool? The CEO wants them to spend 10% of their day doing something like that to spark their creativity. We have the cutest and sweetest(with the exception of a few guys) geek squad ever. Anyway, I think I'll take a brisk walk back there today. I may have to run to avoid the arrows!
I'm going straight to the State Fair after work. Morris Day and the Time will be there. I've never seen them perform live and I heard that they were excellent in concert. I so excited. Maybe I'll do The Bird when I get there. :cb:

Sugar-N-Spice
08-31-2006, 10:51 AM
Good morning gang! I can't believe that another week is almost over. Guess time flies when you're having fun?

I am so sore this morning all over, it hurts to breathe! LOL I knew I would be after that workout yesterday, but will just keep plodding thru. No pain no gain right? :rolleyes:

Will be back for personals, time to go get kiddies up for school. C-ya!:)

n2luvnlife
08-31-2006, 11:28 AM
Good day, Ladies!

Hope everyone is having a great morning. It is freezing in VA today! It is rainy and only about 71 degrees. My body is not used to anything under 85 so I am sitting at work freezing today. The men still have the freakin AC on! :dizzy:

Sugar-N-Spice - Sorry you are hurting. But the pain is the best. I love that feeling in my thighs after a good work out. Keep up the good work.

Amanda: I saw Morris Day and the time in Virginia Beach at one of the festivals a couple years ago and they were great.... And do the bird, I did. :carrot:

kandices2ndtry: I hope that the scale is right!!!! I think it is. :carrot: My hands feel tight after walking - especially if it is hot out. I retain alot of water weight and I don't sweat enough. If I drink more water then I don't have the tight hands as much.

Altari - Working as much as you do - I would be at my breaking point. I agree with Aqua- trying packing some snacks and stuff. We are here for you.

U2girl - Not that is a woman I should put as my avatar - what a motivation! Thanks for sharing.

Melissa - thanks for starting the new thread. I will measure tomorrow night after weigh in tomorrow. Thanks again!

Hey Sapphire35 - Hope you are having a great morning. I got measured earlier this month at Curves but I guess I will have to do my own measuring tomorrow.

Aqua - The scale didn't hurt my feelings this morning. It tried real hard though since I have only lost 1 pound this week. But official weigh in is tomorrow. Do you think I could lose another lb by morning? LOL Maybe!

Chickadees - Keep it OP today! TTFN.

Hun.e.B
08-31-2006, 11:57 AM
Good Thursday morning everyone!!! Is it just me or is this week going slow? Today is my first day that I actually dont have a ton of things to do. I've felt like a chicken with my head cut off all week long. Maybe after classes I just might get some housework done!! Then back at it again tomorrow! All this running around better be burning some serious calories! I forgot to tell you that I made my water goal on Tuesday, but I was just a tad short yesterday. I'll try harder today!! Gotta get that 100oz in!

Aqua...woohoo no kitkats!!! And another pound loss? Did I read that right? Well just in case...YAY!! LOL! You are just so focused I love it!

Altari....goodness you've been working alot!! Hard to eat right when you are doing that, but I think as long as you watch portions you'll be okay. I'm so glad you've got a day off, get some rest girl!! Have a great workout!!

Kandice....I cant comment on the leg tingles because I've got sciatica so mine legs are always cold and numb except the back of my leg and thats a burning pain. But the fingers swelling while walking...YES! I try to keep my elbows bent rather than swinging my arms that helps a little. It goes away for me shortly after walking. I'm pretty sure its normal.

Amanda...I hope you have a wonderful walk today! Your body must be working HARD and thats why youve felt weary. But you keep going like a champ!! Enjoy the fair just avoid the fair food! LOL!! I hope you have a GREAT time doing the bird!

Danielle...I keep tellin ya...its a good pain! LOL!! Bobs kicking your butt for sure!

Lori...I'm thinking about a jacket today myself! Those fall temps are kicking in I think.

Well its off to class I go!! Dont forget to sign up for the challenge, and everyone have a FANTASTIC day!!

~melissa

iwantnewpants
08-31-2006, 12:17 PM
Hi Girls!

Melissa....thanks for setting up the challenge. I'll register all my stats tomorrow! I guess I'll be changing my weigh-in days to Fridays now! Cool stuff.

Aqua....you are so focused and it is so awesome....I think I read another pound gone as well. Way to go!!

Altari....I definitely do not envy your work schedule. The ladies are right....try and pack some food for yourself and hang in there! The week is almost over!

Kandice....I know exactly what you are talking about with the hands. My fingers look like little stuffed sausages when I get done with a workout. I find that if I raise my hands to about my head and shake them a la jazz hands, the swelling goes down and that weird feeling is somewhat relieved.

Lori....it's a little chilly in the Chi as well. And like you, my moron office mates decided that AC is a necessity. Grrr.....or should I say brrrr.

I had a "bad" night last night. I went out to dinner with some girlfriends and we definitely ate a lot and drank a fair amount of wine. But, se la vie. We went to this new restaurant in Chicago....Quartino. It's an italian style restaurant, but they serve small plates, so you order an bunch of things and share. They also had a wine list that was to die for. They have a bunch of wine that you can't find anywhere else outside Italy! So, of course we had to do our share of sampling. I did have a YUMMY asparagus risotto that I DO NOT regret at all! Hahahahahaha! I have to say, I think I did a fairly good job restricting my portions. And I insisted that we order a salad. Thankfully, the two friends I was with are both fairly health/weight conscious, so I don't think I did too much damage! Well.....hopefully not. Ha! I'll have to do a couple extra carrot dances today just to make sure.

Well ladies, have a good day! I'll check back later!

Liz

Butterfly50
08-31-2006, 12:23 PM
Hi ladies I jest wanted to pop in and See how everyone is doing. Things are going good here. The Birthday party went well I had a small slice of cake and Icecream .

Granddaughter is doing great we are having fun got up this morning and feed her breakfast. The storm is susposed be heading in here in a few hours. So trying to get all the laundry done before the lights happen to go out. Well Catch you all later.

lovethatsara
08-31-2006, 01:49 PM
Good Morning Ladies. Guess what? I have time to excersize before work! Yes indeed. My car is broken so my dad's been taking me to work. (we work at the same place) He called me 5mins ago to tell me We are going to be late! Yes he just woke up! he's not going to be able to pick me up until around 8am its 6:48am here right now. Anyways I've been stressing out lately and surprisingly enough I'm not emotionally eating so thats good. I hope your ladies days go by well and Tonight I'll do the personals

Sugar-N-Spice
08-31-2006, 02:49 PM
Phew! Just finished working out and I am wiped! :ebike: I did 10 miles on my bike while listening to my iPod and then did a Biggest Loser workout. I love the BL weights portion, he even focuses on the lower back and that is something I need deseperately. I gotta say it felt REALLY good to work the sore muscles today. I kept the tension on my bike pretty high so my legs really had to push thru--my thighs were killing me this a.m.! Once I got that music going I tend to pedal quite fast, so with the extra tension, I'd say I gave myself a pretty good workout. :) Dh tells me he is going to send me to a spinning class because I really can crank it out. LOL Maybe some day...:chin:...

BTW, I also get the weird feeling in my hands, always have. However, I think I may have some arthritis in my hands, they tend to ache alot regardless.

Elycia, glad to be back. I hated being gone from here, I missed everyone terribly. Just felt it best to take care of business and not bring the board down. How's the job?

Aqua, I can certainly relate to the ice cream addiction. I think I could live on the stuff. It is one of the first things I crave, and especially in this heat here, the excuses are many. :rolleyes: Regrouping was necessary, much as I hated being gone from here for a few days. Like I wrote to Elycia, just didnt see any reason to bring the group down with my issues. I do feel stronger every day tho and am determined to fight thru turmoil to reach goal.

Trish :wave: Hope the measuring at the gym went well. Yikes, I need to do it too!!! I can't decide what I hate worse, seeing the numbers on a scale, the numbers on a measuring tape, or the numbers on my clothes! :lol:

Altari, you've been working like a mad woman. I hope today you can finally rest some and get back on track. Definitely packing some food is a great idea, will lead you to success.

Kandice, the nerve of these people...expecting you to work! :eek: lol Seriously, I hope that they backed off a bit and let you breathe some...good grief! Good luck with the stairs today, I know you'll do great! I will keep my fingers crossed for a good scale reading! :crossed: You're doing fab, I don't think you have much to worry about!

Amanda, I ♥ BL workouts! I am in total awe that this is what these heavy people do day in and day out in terms of working out with Bob. Cause these be hard! :workout: I am the queen of the informercial! lol Everytime I see something I want it in terms of workout stuff. When the new Firm system first came out, I just had to have it! That sucker is hard, lemme tell ya! Of course I'm sure it doesn't help that I am so uncoordinated! lol I want Turbo Jam, I love dance music so I think I would like this and it doesnt require dancing around on a piece of large plactic! :lol: No chance for me breaking my neck (or slightly lesser maybe?) or other body parts!
You've been working out like a crazy person, no wonder you're tired. Maybe a few days off would do you good? I hope you enjoy the show, I saw them years ago and had a blast. And yes, I did the bird! :lol: So now you gotta to!

Lori, I'm sending you some of my :sunny: We are still well over 100 and suspect we will be thru September. Funny, I freeze every time we head to CA to visit my family--they all think I'm nuts! :dizzy: Yes, I worked thru the soreness today and I don't regret it. I feel fabu! .....course, I may be hobbling around like an old lady later on...but lets just go with the fabu feeling, shall we? LOL

Melissa, great job with the water! I have been doing really well too, for once. I can't believe the running around you've done just in a week...and you got how many months of this? OYE! Thanks so much for the new challenge thread, you rock, chick! I think we are gonna kick some major butt with this brilliant idea. Yeah, Bob's kicking my butt, but he keeps promising me a nice butt if I do the work, so I let him ;) Cannot wait to see what he does with this new season of BL!! I have to keep reminding myself that yes, I am sore now, but if I keep going it will go away....bad thing would be is to stop doing it and then every time I workout I get sore....ugly cycle. Feeling good now.......tonight will be the true test of just how big a baby I really am! LOL

Liz, I'm so glad you enjoyed your night out with friends! Sounds like you didn't do too badly either...food sounded good. I'm not a wine drinker so can't really relate there....but sounds like you really had a blast and that's what matters. Lets see you do the carrot dance anyways? Dare you to do it in your office. ;)

Bonnie, so glad that you're enjoying your granddaughter! Stay safe and hopefully we will here from you again soon! :hug:

Sara, how was the workout?! That's great that you got to get one in today before work....daddy gets a gold star for helping out. Its wonderful that you are not turning to food in times of stress. That is really something to be proud of....I really have to work on this! Hope today goes great for ya, you're doing awesome!

Ok, I think I got everyone. :grouphug: I am way starving so I am on the hunt for something yummy to eat. :hungry: Hope you ladies are having a beautiful day!

♥danielle

Amany
08-31-2006, 04:21 PM
Hello Ladies.

I'm sorry, but I'll have to get to the personals later. I have a bit of a rant...

One of the buyers at my job is crazy. I really think he is. He'll make these really inappropriate comments, and he should know better. He's said things to me that I could get him in a **** of a lot of trouble for. I decided to piss im off instead though. For instance...

One day he made a comment to me that he prefers "dark meat". He said this to me after making a comment about being sick of his wife. I was sort of shocked, so I didn't say anything. I just sort of stared at him. Another time he, after I'd given him a new pager, I tested it for him before he left. So he goes, "Oh this vibrates. I'll have to keep it in my pocket.".
So I said, "Yuck. That's really disgusting Bill.". He seemed to be embarrassed by that and he left.

The last inappropriate comment he made to me was telling me that he'd always wanted to be a porn star. I told him I had no interest in hearing anything like that soon after lunch. And just to keep that to himself next time. That time he seemed kind of angry. So ever since then, he's been somewhat short with me. Not enough to be rude, but a definite change in behavior.

Today a coworker and I were at my desk talking. So he walks up to my desk and makes a comment about us wasting company time. So I said, "What is it that you want Bill *******? (I called him by his first and last name)." He literally threw this envelope on the floor next to me. It's something that I normally prepare for the messenger. I told him that if he wanted that to go out, he would have to pick it up. He said he wasn't going to pick it up and walked away.

So my coworker and I are sitting there kinda stunned. She asked me what I was going to do. I told her that I wasn't going to do anything. As far as I was concerned he never gave it to me. Twice after that he came back to my desk and observed that the envelope was still there and left. One of those times, he came with something else that needed to go out and asked me if he should put it on the floor with the envelope. I told him he could put it where he wanted, but anything on the floor would stay there. So he put the cd he was sending out in my "to go out" box (where it's supposed to go).

Later I did end up sending out what he threw because I knew it was actually for one of the engineers here that I absolutely adore. So I sent it. I made my coworker promise, though, to tell Bill that she sent it out with some of her things if it came up.

About ten minutes ago, he came over to my desk and noticed that my box was empty and asks me if the envelope went out. I told him that it was no longer on the floor but I have no idea what happened to it. I told him that I didn't do anything with it. So then he's shocked and was like, "What do you mean?". I told him that there was no need for me to repeat myself. When I came back from lunch it was gone. Then he asked me what he should do. I told him I didn't know and continue working.

Now, I can't really say that I'm mad, or even frustrated. I'm not amused either though. I guess I'm more in a state of disbelief more than anything. It's extremely difficult to get me riled up and emotional at work. In fact it's only happened one time. I was 19 and it was my 2nd day as a waitress at Big Boy's. Two people had called off and the restaurant got really busy; so my manager had to throw me to the wolves. This guy told me that I was the worst waitress he'd ever had. I cried in the break area. That was the first and last time I was ever emotional at work. That's a good thing too, because I know Bill was trying to ruffle my feathers.

Thanks for letting me rant! Again...

BTW, I walked a mile and a half at work. The IT guy told me that the route he walks is a mile and half. He measured it one day (maybe with a pedometer? :dunno:). So I walked his route. I felt really good afterwards too.

Sugar-N-Spice
08-31-2006, 04:37 PM
Aw, now that really sticks that a co-worker's gotta go and be a poop. Amanda, I'm sorry that he decided to be a jerk today. :hug: I was harrassed by a manager when I worked for a pizza place when I was 17. He made a super rude comment to me one day and I told him to shut up. I came in the next day and found out that I'd been fired for insubordination. Better believe I went in his office and told him exactly what I thought of him! I had him quaking in his boots tho, when I threatened to sue him. LOL I didn't though cause it was my word against his and all that, just wasn't worth it. I heard he quit not too long after. I got harrassed again when I was 18, working at a record store. He ended up getting fired quick cause there were several of us that reported him. I still don't understand where guys get off thinking that they can talk like this and expect the women to swoon???? Or that it's even okay and appropriate? My husband works in the automotive industry for a while now, and every store he's been in there is always the proverbial "1 girl" working. I don't know how these women do it. :dizzy:
GREAT JOB on the workout chicky!!!! I bet it felt amazing to get that accomplished cause you'd skipped this morning. Good for you!!! :dance:

AquaChick
08-31-2006, 04:39 PM
sapphire35- Hi! :wave: Hope all is well with you today!

Altari- :) Hi!

kandices2ndtry- My hands get tight if I walk with them at a low swing to my sides. I now move them more, and I hold hand weights so that fixed it for me. It happens I think if you retain water. Kinda like how the feet swell from standing on them for a certain length of time.

Amany- Hi! :) I think you are doing great too. Makes me wanna "get doggone out there and do somethin'" :D You all inspire me. I need this so much. I can walk good, but I look ridiculous when I try to run. Always have. I have no grace when it comes to running so I don't do it. I tried telling my husband that once before, so he's like "show me" So I ran across the yard and when I made way back he was holding his side laughing. I told him I looked stupid when I try to run.:shrug: Yeah, we all have a couple days of rut once in a while. Remember, 21 days and you got yourself a habit... it's been close to 21 days hasn't it? I am not sure for me, but my body is moving, you know muscle tone is making things go to places they haven't seen in ages...lol... I'm hooked. Treadmill junkie. :)


Sugar-N-Spice- Sounds like someone kicked their own tail! It's a good thing though! I know I got a muscle cramp a few days ago in my side. I didn't even know I had a muscle there. I was walking cockeyed for about 20 minutes! I think there are a lot of us that have an icecream thing. That stuff...sheesh, you don't have to eat hardly any of it, but it is so high in calories that it goes right to the thighs and derrier region. 10 miles is soooo good. :hug: Great job!

n2luvnlife- That's cold? :fr: That's sunny spring day!!! lol...

Hun.e.B- The week seems to be flying to me. Yep, one more pound. :D Badda dun dun dun... another one bites the dust... *looks at rest of fat on belly* Hey! I'm gonna get you too! Another one bites the dust!

iwantnewpants- Thanks for the nice comment. :) Wow, you all are making me so happy today. I'm getting oodles of sweet remarks. I appreciate too. It helps me along. Sounds like a cool restaurant. I love Chicago. I haven't been there in a while, but I grew up not too far from there and my stepfather took us all the time to see his family. It was great.


Butterfly50- Hi!:)

lovethatsara- Getting that workout in will make you feel good all day! :)

Hun.e.B
08-31-2006, 04:39 PM
Amanda that guy is obnoxious and you shouldnt have to deal with it. Good for you for standing up to him throwing something on the floor for you. Thats rediculous, what are you his dog? I dont think so! And I would go as far as to say he should be reported for sexual harrassment. He's making you feel uncomfortable in your workplace and thats a big no-no! I would say if he keeps it up, report his butt!!

Way to go on that walk!! If for no other reason its a great way to work out that stress!

~melissa

AquaChick
08-31-2006, 04:44 PM
Amany, honey, you are saint compared to me. Dark meat? What the .....? Why is he telling you about his personal problems anyway? Like you don't have a life of your own and your own obsticles.... sounds to me like someone is a pathetic "wah wah baby" that needs to keep his personal life and preferences to himself. @$%^&*! Next time tell him to get a therapist. He needs to work out his marital problems and anger management on his own time. :hug:

Amany
08-31-2006, 05:36 PM
I think HR has already talked to him once about his comments. After the "porn star" incident, I told my boss what had been happening. She's the HR person for this facility. She asked me how I felt after he said that. I told her I was ticked and offended by it. She said that she was obligated to tell her boss at corporate about it and to let her know if it happened again. Knowing the guy at corporate, he probably did address it.

When I told me boss what happened today, the first thing she asked me was if Bill had said or done anything else. Of course, I know what she was really asking me. I told her he hadn't. She told me to let her know if I have anymore incidents with him.

iwantnewpants
08-31-2006, 06:28 PM
Oh Amanda.....WOW! What an UBER scumbucket. Grrr. People like that make me SICK! Good for you for sticking to your guns. I hope he's still nervous about that envelope he threw on the floor. What a pig. Oooo....I'm so angry for you!

I had a professor in law school who sexually harrassed me. It was horrifying. He was my professor and he was my boss....I was doing research for him at the time. It was an absolute nightmare. He told me all about his problems with his wife, told me how he preferred white girls, told me he hated his children and felt "trapped" in his family. He was absolutely disgusting. He cornered me one night and drunkenly told me (we were at a law school reception....the whole school/faculty was there) that if I slept with him, he'd find me a job. I was so angry at myself for letting it get to that point. So, I finally talked to Dean of the law school and then met with the Chancellor of the entire university. I was so happy when I came forward because a TON of girls subsequently came out of the woodwork and told of similar experiences they had with him. I'm proud to say that jerkwad is no longer a professor at the University of Illinois.....though I believe he is still teaching somewhere. I actually ran into him in Chicago and almost threw up when I saw him. Needless to say, I walked very quickly away.

The thing that really irked me about that situation though was that I discovered that the school did not have a good sexual harrassment policy. I actually got into an argument with the Chancellor because he was asking me to file a formal complaint. Filing a formal complaint involved an investigation, me testifying under oath, having to hire an attorney.....which I was fine with. I asked him what would happen to the professor......and he told me that the incident would be noted "on his personnel file." It wasn't even going to get him suspended and the notation would never be seen anywhere but U of I. He also told me that I could request an "apology." I was absolutely infuriated. So, I went back to the Dean of the law school and told her and she agreed to help me organize a student forum on sexual harassment. This is how all these other girls ended up coming out of the woodwork. We basically chased him out of the school.

So, as you can see, my patience for these sorts of things is non-existent! Amanda, good for you for talking to your boss! It takes courage to do that! And, I'd brush up on that boxing too! Ha!

Now, (deep breath Liz), on a lighter note....I have noticed that a couple of people (Aqua and someone else....I'm having a spacey brain) have talked about Chicago. I'm always up for visitors! Keep that in mind! It really is a fantastic city!

Liz

AquaChick
09-01-2006, 06:24 AM
:sunny: :coffee:

I hope all is well with you ladies today! :carrot:

My plans are to clean the house up a little, bake cupcakes with my kids this afternoon, and tread.

T.G.I.F.!!!!!!!

Iwantnewpants- Chicago is great. :) I miss it up there sometimes. Someday I'll go back for a visit.

Amany
09-01-2006, 08:02 AM
Morning Everyone.

Thank you for all your support yesterday. I made a decision this thing in the butt (bud? :dunno:) Bill wants to play games with me. I'm simply going to let him know that everytime he says or does something inappropriate, it's going to be trouble for him at work. That I'm going to stay on HR and bug them every single time. As opposed to simply "mentioning" it to my boss. I'm pretty sure I'll have the opportunity to do that soon because, knowing him, he'll find a way to do or say something weird. So I'll let him know that when he comes in my work area, he needs to state his business and leave.
Of course I know it could all blow up in my face. I wouldn't be the first woman, I'm sure, to have the tables turned on her and she ends up without a job. I love my job, but I'm not going to put up with his crap anymore. So if I lose it, then so be it. I wouldn't be able to live with myself if I just blow it off. I think one of my major problems is that I'm too mellow at times.
Ok, enough of that!!

Morris Day and the Time are fantastic!!! I had so much fun. Yes, I did The Bird too. :cb: I hate that they didn't sing my favorite song by them (Girl), but I loved the performance and I don't regret going.

AquaChick - Have fun baking today. And the workouts!

Liz - Thank you for sharing your ordeal with me. Reading it really set off a spark in me. You're and extremely courageous woman and an inspiration. :hug:

Melissa - You know what? I think you're right. The workouts do help me deal with stress. I never even considered it. I've read about workouts helping with stress, but I never knew they actually did. I mean I had never experienced it myself. :dizzy: I certainly feel better afterwards.
BTW, the picture of you and the girls is very pretty.

Danielle- I think someone is catching the exercise bug..... ;)
You are just awesome Danielle. Doesn't it feel good to know that you've worked those sore muscles? It's like a really intense sense of accomplishment, isn't it? That you didn't just sit out because you were sore. It's better just to dig in and get the exercise done. Your muscles will thank you for working them. That pain will be replaced by strength and leanness ( Is that a word? :?: ) :lol:. If you start going to spinning classes you'll be my hero forever! That would be impressive.

Altari - I hope there is some rest in your future! Aqua is right. The key is preparation.

Sara - Glad you got the workout done!

N2 - Hello, hello, hello to you chicky!!

Bonnie - Glad you enjoyed the party.

I'm sorry. I know the last few personals were rushed and I probably missed a few. Sorry! I have to hurry and get ready for work. I'm really pushing it timewise. Today is the last day before my mini-vacation. I won't have to go back until next Thursday. I haven't taken any vacation days since the two days I took back in March! :faint:

AquaChick
09-01-2006, 08:15 AM
Amany! :hug: That dude bothered you all night, didn't he? You woke up thinking about how to handle his sorry tail. :mad: Well, I'm glad that you are making the decision to let him know he is out of line and that it will be a problem for him. Hopefully though he will quit it, and it will fade away and it won't be something you have to think about dealing with. No one needs that kind of aggrivation in the work place. That's why certain rules are set up.

I hope you have an outstanding day!

Butterfly50
09-01-2006, 09:03 AM
Good Morning Ladies,

The storm is gone and all we got was a whole bunch of rain. Other then that it looks great here. The kids were a little upset because they had to go back to school this morning but sorry for them and great for me. Got so much to do this morning have lots of bills to go pay and things to do. A BIG HELLO to everyone and hopefully later I will ahve time to read the post and see what you all have been up to .

Hun.e.B
09-01-2006, 11:34 AM
Good Morning lovelies...whew am I running late today, gonna have to make it short and sweet! Guess what...I was down 2.6 lbs today!!! WOOHOO!!! Darn it doesnt count towards the challenge but thats okay!! I still have to measure but thats gonna have to wait till this afternoon!

Aqua....have fun with those cupcakes! I love to bake lately, but my family wont eat it when I do. Just not sweets people! Good for me! LOL!

Amanda...its almost vacation time!!! I'm so happy to hear you had fun last night, I think you needed it!! I hope today goes great for you and whats his jerk butt stays clear!

Bonnie...so glad that you didnt get nailed with a nasty storm. 4 more days and my kids go back too!! Yay!

Alright I better get rolling here! I'll be back today to update my stats for the challenge. Kinda quiet this morning..where is everyone!! Have a lovely day all!!

sapphire35
09-01-2006, 11:51 AM
:cofdate: Goodmorning Ladies :lifter:

How is everyone doing this morning? :flow2: I'm am pumped up this morning. I have already had to fire someone this morning for insubordination. :D . I been wanting to do that for awhile.

I am ready for this challenge. Whooo I got measured yesterday and I don't like my measurements. But that is going to change. I already put them on the challenge page.

Amanda - You did exactly what I would have done with that envelope, except I would never had picked it up. I called the engineer and told him that I would love to mail it out for him but I can't and if he wanted to know why just ask Bob.:mad: But I'm not level headed and your were about the whole thing, Good job:smug:

AquaChick
09-01-2006, 12:25 PM
Butterfly50- Hi! :hug: Glad the storm has passed.

Hun.e.B- Yay!!!2.6 pounds? You are awesome!!!!!

sapphire35- Firing someone, and it ain't even lunch time yet... YIKES!!!!! I hope your day goes well. All is good here so far. I'm glad you are pumped. It gets me pumped. :)

Amany
09-01-2006, 01:24 PM
Aqua - Yes that doody face was the first thing I though of this morning. That's why I needed to deal with it. Thinking about him at home is giving him too much of my personal space.
Of course I had thought of exactly what I would tell him and it didn't go that way :rolleyes:. I let him know that I was offended by what he did yesterday and all the other inappropriate comments. He immediately started apologizing and said he was sorry and only meant it as a joke. I told him that I didn't take it that way and when he comes to my desk to state his business and go. (I did get to say that part.).
So, hopefully, it's over with. We'll see. One of the things I think I have pegged right about him is that he's passive-aggressive. So the more direct you are with him, the better it is. He's not been anywhere near my area since this morning, so I hope that is a sign of things to come.
BTW, I've been meaning to congratulate you on your pound. WTG! I know you're working your hiney off, because you haven't put back on a single pound that you lost from the liquid diet. I know that's a really good feeling.

:bravo: Melissa! 2.6 pounds is an excellent way to start September off! Did you do the carrot dance?? :) Way to go chicky. You deserve it.
You're counting down the days til the girls go back? How do they feel about that? :lol:

Sapphire - I actually considered doing what you said you would have done. Calling the engineer. I didn't want to drag a bunch of people into this though and make it a huge office issue. That's what it would have become. The engineer is such a sweetie too. He once played this practical joke on another guy in the office. I was unwittingly dragged into it. Once I found out, I joked with him about how he and those other engineers are supposed to be doing things to make life easier for simpletons like me. Not playing tricks and confusing us. He didn't know I was only joking. So a few days later, I go to my desk and there's a card and a box of these huge cookies from the bakery. He went through the trouble of finding out that cookies are my favorite sweet. Nice guy. I've been trying to find him a wife ever since. :)
I know what you mean about your measurements. I hate having my measurements done, but lately I've been thinking about doing it on my progress pic days once a month. I belong to a fitness center (that I don't use :rolleyes:) and they'll do it there.

Bonnie - I'm glad Ernesto left you unscathed. I'm also glad that, for least part of the day, you won't have to share your house with the kids. :lol: Seriously, though, I'm happy for you.

Well, I'd better go. It's almost my 12:30 "feeding time". I'll check in later!

n2luvnlife
09-01-2006, 01:46 PM
Bonnie, thanks for sending Ernesto our way. LOL :D All the schools are closed today and we are getting hammered with rain, flooding, etc. And it is soooooooooo chilly out compared to the rest of the summer. Takes me a while to get used to temps. and going from near 90 last week to 61 today is a shock to my system. I wish I was home, curled up on the coach watching movies.

I weighed myself this morning and I am down 1 pound. Not what I wanted, but I will take it. I will do measurements tonight.

Amanda - How unfortunate you are to have had the problem with him! You handeled it wonderfully and hopefully since you told him this morning - hopefully, he will leave you alone or at least watch what he says from this point forward.


Melissa - YOU ROCK. Way to go on the 2.6 pound loss. :carrot:

I am busy at work, just wanted to stop in and say hello.
So hi :wave: to Liz, Sapphire35, Danielle, Auqa, Altari and anyone else I have forgotten this afternoon. Will check back in later tonight after I go workout. Hope I don't need a canoe to get home and hope the freakin gym is open since they are even closed Labor Day. Have you ever????

AquaChick
09-01-2006, 01:48 PM
Amany- I'm glad you got to say basically what you wanted to say. I hope he is not something you have to think about too much anymore. It takes a lot of courage to stand up to someone at work that is doing things like he was. They always try to play it off like it was a "joke" and try to make you feel guilty for their asinine ways. Thks for noticing that, about the liquid loss not coming back. :) I haven't mentioned it I don't think, but I was afraid I would gain some weight back when I came off it- but I didn't. The progress has been slow though since then, but that's okay. I have been feeling a lot better, and Doc was right, a lot of the reason for the heart craziness was because I really shouldn't be doing a liquid diet. I'll take it slow and steady, it's cool.

n2luvnlife- Congrats on that pound!!!! Every ounce we lose is a VICTORY!!!!!!!!

Sugar-N-Spice
09-01-2006, 02:49 PM
Hello Sweet Girls! I am so ready for the weekend to be here, I'm pooped. lol I would kill for at least an hour of sleeping in tomorrow. It's my b-day so I think I should be entitled, don't you? :D I just finished working out. 55 minutes worth of WATP and the bike. I am now sore in new places today, lol, must be using those lazy muscles of mine! Good thing is my legs don't hurt anymore so I can walk again.

Ugh, so now I did weigh in and measurements. Blech on both accounts!! I think I found your 2 pounds Melissa!!!! LOL Was not happy about that at all this morning. I must've gotten on that scale 10x just to make sure. My eating this past week wasn't all too great, but I didn't think I'd eaten that bad. *sigh* oh well, nothing I can do about that now. Onward and Upward. My measurements are horrid, I cannot wait to change those!

Amanda, I am so glad you got to speak to Mr. Whatzit about his "issues". Hopefully that will be the last of it. I'm glad you enjoyed your concert! Nice way to end your stressful day, huh? I would love to take a spinning class, but first I gotta get rid of some of this gut. Blech! I'm just glad that some of the initial soreness is gone and I feel human. lol

Aqua, congrat's on your 1 pound! :dance: Keep treadin lady, keep treadin! It's working!!!

Trish, gosh you started your morning off with a bang didn't ya?! Hey, don't feel bad about your measurements, mine were horrible too. We're in the same boat. But just think, we have the power to change it!!!!

Melissa, WTG on the loss this week!!!! I have them if you ever want them back. ;) Cannot wait to see what you're results will be once you start the exercise up!

Bonnie, good to hear from ya chicky. Glad you get part of your day to yourself, I know for me, I love this part of the day to do what ever I want--well, most of the time anyways! Stay dry and have fun.

Lori :wave: Congrat's on the pound Miss Thang!!! Good for you! I hope you don't need a canoe either, I hear that rain is pretty nasty right now. Stay safe!!!


I am so anxious for this challenge! I could not wait to get up and measure and weigh this morning. I know, I know...I'm just a big ole dork! :lol: Even tho' I am disappointed in the gain this week & not-so-nice measurements, I know I can (will) change it. Just got rid of AF and with all the exercise...I dunno....nope, no excuses for me. Just have to accept it and try and lose them again this week. I just hate the spinning of wheels effect that I am determined to get out of! I will no longer do the proverbial gain 2/lose1/gain1/lose2 thing anymore. :no: OYE, I tried a cardio pilates dvd that I'd bought eons ago...didnt even have the wrapper off it....so the thing starts and immediately this woman jumps into these leg crunchy things while pulsing your arms....ugggggg, I tried I really did but I just couldn't do it! LOL Shoulda seen me flailing around, definitely a moment for America's Funniest home videos! Needless to say, I stopped that one real quick and just did WATP and the bike instead. I'm sorry but cardiopilates is just gonna have to wait! :dizzy:

Alrighty, so I'm off to the shower since I'm still in my workout clothes. EWWWW. Gonna try and get some housework done today so I don't gotta do any on my birthday tomorrow. I would like nothing more than to lay in bed all morning and catch up on my tivo'd episodes of General Hospital from this week. Now that's a treat unto itself!

Hun.e.B
09-01-2006, 03:48 PM
Good Afternoon ladies!! Its beautiful outside and I intend to take advantage of it, after I run and deal with more PTA stuff and take my other daughter to her new school too. I swear this school stuff never ends and school hasnt even started yet! Thanks everyone on the congrats for my 2.6 lbs! Danielle, no thanks I dont want them and I highly suggest you dont keep them either! This is not a case of one womans trash being another womans treasure...be gone with them! LOL!

Trish is firing people....everyone look out!! Hey you need to be our drill seargent! LOL! I'm glad to see you are having such a great day!!

Amanda...how was lunch? Did you walk again? I'm glad you got to confront doody head today I really hope he watches his boundries, I just hate people like that. I'm dealing with one myself, someone very close to me and I havent talked to her in almost a month now because of her comments. Thats not very healthy now is it?

Lori...I hope you get to go home soon! And I REALLY hope that storm is on the mild side. Be safe! Way to go on the pound lost!!! No such thing as only 1 pound. Have you seen that poem? Think of it this way..look at what a pound of hamburger looks like, you lost that from your body!!!!! Congrats!!!

Danielle...good lord woman you are kicking some serious BUTT with that exercise!! I'm so proud of you!! I dont care what the scale says woman thats muscle going on there! Think of how sore you've been the past few days....its not a wonder the scale went up!! You are doing so awesome!!! I havent watched GH all week!

Okay ladies, I know those measurements are tough for most of us to see but that is where we are REALLY gonna see the changes. Thats the PROOF that your body is shrinking and getting leaner and toner. And thats the goal right!! This challenge is going to be GREAT!!! We can all thank Kandice for thinking it up!!!

Alright, off to run my errands in the sunshine! Have a fabulous afternoon!

~melissa

AquaChick
09-01-2006, 05:56 PM
Sugar-N-Spice- Happy Birthday! :gift: :woo: :balloons:

Hun.e.B- Hi hon! :hug:

lovethatsara
09-01-2006, 06:01 PM
God i'm so busy i havent been able to do personals or anything else for that matter. I put in the measurements for our challenege. I've never measured myself before and i was a little shocked.

Last night I was supposed to go walking with my neighbor Mary downstairs, we usually go I tried calling and got no response so I decided to go walking by myself. Matt calls and asks if i'm walking I said yes by myself i cant find mary so a few minutes goes by and he says he just passed mary walking with someone else. i turned the corner to go up the street and i see her walking with another neighbor Jo. So I feel bad not that i had to walk by myself i have my ipod so its not a big deal but if we've been walking together everyday for a month, why didnt she call and let me know. did she not wanna walk with me anymore because shes 30 years older or want to go earlier.

oh well i'll just continue to go by myself from now on. that way i can go earlier. and i can go at a faster pace.

AquaChick
09-01-2006, 06:36 PM
Ouch. :( Well, maybe she has a reasonable explanation she couldn't get to right at the moment, like maybe her friend she was walking with needed to talk to her about something, and it pulled her away. Give her a chance, it would be a shame to lose a walking buddy if it is something that helps you- though- I'm sure if it is something not good, you can and will do this on your own. :hug:

miafluker
09-01-2006, 06:47 PM
hi everyone thanks for the support Sugar-N-Spice happy b day! sorry i have been mia for a while but we got hit with ernesto and it left our yard a mess plus power was out anyway i hope everyone is okay ill check back in later

AquaChick
09-01-2006, 06:50 PM
Hi miafluker! :hug: Sorry about the mess in the yard, but I am glad your power is restored.

Sugar-N-Spice
09-01-2006, 07:32 PM
Thanks for the well wishes girls! :hug: I don't know if we'll do anything special, not that I'm for promoting another year older...LOL I think the best gift I could give myself would be getting off my fat butt and getting this weight off.

Mel, sure you don't want the "2" back??? I'm selling them awfully cheap!! ;) I hope you enjoyed your sunshine and it's not too smokey. Heard them talking about it on the news all week--tons and tons of acres burning out there! I hope you got your running around done and can finally enjoy some down time. Can you even believe our kids are in jr. high? :eek: I feel really old!

Aqua, how's the day been for ya? :tread:

Sara, I'm sorry about your friend. I agree with Aqua tho, maybe she had a good reason for not going with you? I would give anything to have a walking buddy, be patient and talk to her. Great work getting that walk despite of how you were feeling!


Mia, hiya chicky! Sorry about Ernesto. Seems like he's making a huge pest out of himself, isn't he? Just glad that you are safe & sound!

AquaChick
09-01-2006, 07:42 PM
lol... I treaded, of course. :) I'll be hopping on there one more time before bed.

I tread.
I tread.
It's something I no longer dread.
I want to lose the weight.
Don't want no extra freight.
I tread
I tread
I tread...

:D

Sugar-N-Spice
09-01-2006, 07:56 PM
Love it, Aqua! :D :D :D

Sugar-N-Spice
09-01-2006, 08:04 PM
This is totally not related to weight loss what so ever :D But.....

Forgot to ask, Melissa what'd you think of BB last night & the eliminations? I still think Erika made a huge mistake by listening to Booger! In the 2nd elimination dontcha think maybe if her and Janelle had voted for Boogie to leave then they could dominate? I tell ya, Will deserves an Oscar for his acting this season! LOL

Anybody else watch Big Brother?!

Butterfly50
09-01-2006, 09:35 PM
I want to say that I hope all of you that live in Virginia or north carolina that every one is going good.I hope that the storm isnt playing with you too hard.

Things here are going good since I have soo amny people in my house right now I have been staying to plan until Dinner and then I have what everyone else is having. Kinda hard to make Seperate meals for eveyone for all of us So I cook one for everyone and With this being the end of the month things are kinda tight here.

I went to walley world tonight and I see that they have three of Jillians workout DVDs not bad priced. The single one is 9.99 and the 2 Disc is 14.99 so not bad their . I picked up the Leslie Pilates I figuered since everyone raves about it I would give it a shot. Her other videos are pretty simple. I like that. My Granddaughter is going home Monday morning I will be able to get back to doing all my videos and stuff and get back into the System again.
GTG Hope Everyone is well and Congrats to all who has llost weight here lately.

Amany
09-01-2006, 11:08 PM
:woo: :gift: Danielle!!! :balloons: :cheer:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DARLIN!!
I hope you have just the best birthday ever. Have yourself a good time! Do it up big. Celebrate all weekend. But be good! :nono:
What you said about America's Funniest Home videos was hilarious. The sad thing is that I was thinking, "Pilates and aerobics? Hmmm..." So I found a dvd on Half.Com for $4 and ordered it. :lol:
Those 2 pounds could very well be water retention because of AF. You're doing beautifully, so don't let it discourage you. I just love the way you're really getting into exercise. Your enthusiasm is infectious.

Aqua Our Poet Laureate.... :) That was so cute. That treadmill is certainly doing you good. You're rhyming and everything! :lol: Adding those handweights is really intense. I love knowing that I can exercise with them. Even when I end up drenched. We're gonna be nice and slim!

Melissa - I didnt walk on my lunch hour, but I did Leslie's Walk and Box this morning with the handweights. It's 2.5 miles in 30 minutes. I keep telling myself that I'm going to do something else tonight too, but it's almost 10. So, I think I'm basically lying to myself. :lol: Actually, I will probably still do something. Something short like Tae Bo or the Walk and Jog again. I want to try and tackle those stairs this weekend. BTW, for all my big talk, I still haven't done Harvey's video yet! :lol:

Sara - Try to chalk the neighbor up as just one of those things. Even if she preferred to walk with someone else today, doesn't mean she meant is as a slight to you. Besides, if walking by yourself means you can go at a faster pace, then it's a good thing. When it comes to your health and weight loss, you have to be selfish.
When I get up in the mornings to do my aerobics, my husband usually gets up with me to keep me company. It didn't start out that way though. It started out with him trying to convince me to stay in bed with him. In the evening, he'd try to carry on conversation with me while I was trying to pay attention to my videos. Sometimes I listen. Mostly I don't. My point? I'm doint this for ME. And I told him that. I love spending time with him. I love snuggling next to him early in the morning but, when it's time for me to exercise, I'm gonna do it. I was worried that he'd feel rejected, but I didn't let that stop me. I am a person who wants to lose weight, and I mean to do it!

Bonnie - Congrats to you for being able to stay on plan despite having a bunch of people in your home. Extra people can be a distraction and, like you said, cooking all those different meals can be a hassle. You're a strong, strong lady. You may be going a little off skew at dinner time, but you'll make up for it later. Give that granddaughter of yours a few extra hugs!
I hope you like Leslie Sansone's Pilates. Don't get discouraged if it seems a little hard at first. You get stronger really fast.

Lori - I know what you mean about cooler weather. I have yet to accept that fall is coming. I've lived in Michigan my whole life (except for a year), and I've yet to embrace the winter. I really don't like the cold at all. I think my husband and I are going to leave the state within the next five years. We'll see...

Mia - Sorry Ernesto is giving you such a hard time. Thankfully, you didn't lose your electricity though. Come back to us when you get a moment.

Ok, Ladies, g2g. I'll check in a bit later. Or tomorow.

u2girl
09-02-2006, 12:28 AM
Hi everyone! Hope that everyone is doing well and looking forward to the long weekend. I know that I am. :)

Sapphire, I've been meaning to get back with you. I live not far from the airport off of Natural Bridge. I used to live in St. Charles. Lived there for several years actually. I really loved St. Charles. Well, we will have to catch up. Your PM doesn't work, but somehow we will have to talk. 3FC doesn't recommend us to put our email addresses on here, so we will have to figure something out. If you enable your pm's I can send you my phone number.

Everyone have a great weekend!

Elycia

Hun.e.B
09-02-2006, 12:42 AM
Good evening sunshines!!

Danielle, now I mean it...you get rid of those 2 lbs! Just throw em out, noone here wants em! LOL! now for BB..well...I wish Janelle would have thrown a big ol whammy out there and nominated booger. OR that Will would have gotten the veto and Erica went. But its okay how it is. I have a feeling Janelle maybe next! With Danielle gone there isnt really any drama now, its gonna be a boring couple of weeks I think. Unless they bring someone back!!

Bonnie I think you are just fine eating with the family, just use your portion control and moderation. You'll be fine!

Aqua...I love your attitude!! Loved the poem too!

Amanda...Harvey scares the heck outta me I dont blame you for not doing him! LOL!!

Sara...I'm sure your neighbor has her reasons, hear them out first. I hope she didnt just ditch you, but like you said, you've got your ipod so you can still walk! Dont let anyone get you down!!

Mia...Glad you are back! And didnt float away! I hope that was the end of the storms for you.

We are having 2 extra girls spend the night tonight and I can tell already that its going to be a LOOOONG night!! And I have nothing but school books to read darn it! I hope everyone is having a great night!! "see" you in the morning!

~melissa

Hun.e.B
09-02-2006, 12:43 AM
I forgot!! I need some help! My neighbor gave us 3 big zuchini from their garden and I have NO IDEA what to do with them. Any yummy ideas?

~melissa

AquaChick
09-02-2006, 09:48 AM
:sunny: Good Morning Ladies!!!!:sunny:

Sugar-N-Spice- :) Thanks, I feel silly sometimes...lol...

Butterfly50- I'm glad you are sticking to plan. That is great. For me, when I wake up, it is the best feeling to wake up the morning after you had a good day. It motivates me to try for that feeling again the next morning.

Amany- I think the old treadmill deserves at least a poem or limerick, a haiku or something...lol....I'm carrying 5 pounds in each hand now. I just added ankle weights too, and I am considering knocking the speed up by .2 MPH. I might wait a couple of days and do that. It is intense, but I know those are the "walls" we hear about because I thought I was gonna die when I first added the weights, now I can move my arms around easily with them, I barely felt it so I added the ankle weights. You just have do do it in bitty increments so you can break the walls without hurting yourself. You don't even realize how strong you are getting. I can still wear my 16's, but they are loose and fit very differently. My behind is definately changing shape, my legs are firmer. And really, if you make this a life long commitment, your body will be fabulous within a year's time or so. Fabulous by how you feel, but also you can't help but notice good muscle tone.

Hun.e.B- You could fry it (not so healthy) Or, you could make a few loaves of zucchini bread and as a good hearted thing give those away. The "pass it on" thing. Neighbor gave you zucchini, you give other neighbors zucchini bread. (just don't eat it.... :D lol...)

Ack!!!! Girls, all squeaky and giggly!!!! That's what memories are made of though. :)

Amany
09-02-2006, 10:39 AM
Hello Ladies... :coffee2:

I didn't realize until just now how tired I am. I don't feel like lifting my finger to do a thing.
I woke up this morning at 5. I figured since I was up, I'd go ahead and get my exercise out the way. I felt ok at first. After being up for about ten minutes though, I got really tired. So I went back to bed and slept until 8. Now I'm just sort of dragging. Some type of exercise will get done today, I just don't know what it will be.
My exercise has been lackluster all week long. I've been doing it, but not the same amount. I guess I just need some time to recharge my batteries. I don't even feel like going to the roller rink today, and I love roller skating. :faint: There are three books I've been wanting to read. I think I'll read them during my days off and just make sure I get at least 30 - 40 minutes of exercise and some Pilates done everyday.

Melissa - I haven't seen BB since the first season it was on. I think I watch 2 episodes of it. From what I understand, it's gotten a heck of a lot spicier since then. I'm surprised at myself for not tuning in because I like dramatic reality television. :)
Oh yes, the sleepovers.... There are three nieces that I used to have over at least one weekend every month. One weekend one of them showed up with a friend who loved to scream. Every five minutes....:mad: Over anything. When they would come over all the time, I think the best part was taking them back home. :lol: They're in high school now. They still show up on occasion and stay overnight.
I cut up raw zucchini and put it in salad. It can also be sauteed. My mom gave me some from her garden. I've been resisting the urge to make zucchini bread. :lol:

Aqua!j - GM Chicky! Five pound weights? Girl, you're really going at it. That's intense! And ankle weights too! You're doing just the most outstanding jog. :bravo: :carrot: :cb: :cp: :tread: I'm so proud of you. Isn't it great when your pants are all sagging off of you? It's like a badge of honor or something. I love those muscles that are forming in my legs too.
I hope that six months from now, we'll all be around still posting and sharing our success stories. And posting pics! I'm excited for all of us.
BTW, thank you for writing about these walls. I needed to read that. I'd been starting to wonder if my fitness goals were realistic. I needed to remember that I'll have to push myself, but in stages. Baby steps. Thank you, thank you, thank you. :hug:

Well, I'm gonna go. I'm about a have a couple of salmon muffins. Yum! I'm going to have to hide my scale. I've formed an addiction. It's down two pounds though! :D 229! This time I won't post it. I'll wait until Friday...

For those of you doing low carb, you may want to try this salmon muffin recipe. It's really good!

12 - 14 oz of canned salmon (or tuna)
2 eggs
1/4 cup of green pepper diced
1/4 cup of onion diced
1/4 - 1/2 cup shredded cheddar cheese
salt
pepper

Preheat the oven to 350, mix all the ingredients together well and spoon the mixture into a six muffin pan. Bake for 30 minutes.

AquaChick
09-02-2006, 10:54 AM
Hi Amany! :hug: I have at least one day a week like that, where I am just so tired. Sometimes if I feel like that I will take my body's cue and make it light that day. You never know, maybe that has something to do with our bodies losing fat, building muscle... some kind of a process going on that requires taking it a little easier. Nothing wrong with that. I have to make sure I know how to seperate natural fatigue from my inclination to want to be lazy (sometimes I am lazy I ain't gonna lie). Your body is changing, I think you might be right about the recharging of the batteries.

I'm proud of you too! If it wasn't for you guys egging me on I might still be on the couch thinking my heart was gonna stop. Coming here made me want to push, it made me stop feeling sorry for myself and move. Now I am feeling better. I don't have all that sugar coming into my body, I make my heart pump and don't flip about it, I made my diet a healthier one without trying to take the fast and easy way out (whaich was a big cause of the problem). You all (and my cardiologist) had a lot to do with what made me stop being a fool and put in real effort. I was inspired, now I'm doing it. Six months from now I will be here. Even when I make goal I will be here, it is a part of my lifestyle now- I owe to much to this place to leave. I will post pics for you when I'm done. Absolutely.

Your welcome about the walls. I think it's easy to forget how amazing humans are- and what we are capable of physically achieving.

Those salmon muffins sound soooooooo yummy! Thank you for the recipe. My husband will love those!

Have a great day everybody! I'll come back tonight~

Hun.e.B
09-02-2006, 12:37 PM
Good Saturday morning everyone!! I actually got a good nights sleep last night despite 2 extra girls! Woke up this morning and did my measurements...OUCH!! Which btw, just a reminder to fill in those blanks so we can get em put on a spreadsheet! Looks like another beautiful day outside, we need to get out there and enjoy it!

Danielle....HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!! YOU ALREADY KNOW THE REST OF THE SOOOONG, SO I WONT SING IT TO YOU! lol! I hope they spoil you rotten today!

Aqua...holding weights while you tread!! You rock!! I see you doing your workouts and eating right and all that energy that you have and you just KNOW you are doing the right thing!! If that doesnt motivate someone to get off their tush and get moving I dont know what will!!

Amanda...BB is definetly my guilty pleasure, I just love it! This season is allstars, its been really fun! Of course I'm sure there are better things I could be doing besides sitting on my butt watching it 3 nights a week! LOL!! I'm sorry your energy is zapped. Thats how I get to feeling after doing about a week of lowcarbing. I dunno why it just drains me and all I ever wanted to do was sleep. And work out...pfft yeah right! But you are still doing it!! You still get your tush shaking and that is so amazing!!! Your dedication to yourself is absolutely astounding! maybe vacation is just what your body is screaming for!

Very quiet in here this weekend! where is everyone? I feel like I want to venture over to the farmers market today, but theres not really anything I need. i've got homework coming out of my ears! Have a beautiful day everyone!

~melissa

Butterfly50
09-02-2006, 02:28 PM
Good afternoon ladies , Boy can I tell you that right now Iam soo ticked off right now. You know I love my granddaughter to death and I have enjoyed her being here but!!!!! My step son is about to drive me nuts. Here he is a 23 year old man with a child and a girl friend. He has a job and right now he has made me soo mad . He invited his girl friend and daughter down for almost a week ( With out talking to us first)and Has relied on us to support and handle all the food for them. They didnt even have a thing for the baby to drink I had to go out and buy something for her and eat to might I add. Well I went and picked his check up for him on friday came home gave it to him and he grossed about 850.00 Dollars. He gives her 400 and then goes to walmart and spend 100.00 on baby clothes and all he gives me is 50.00. He has been here for two months and his checks before was all given to his girl friend. Since he has been here we have supplied all the food and gas money and cig money and even some spending money and all he gives me is 50.00 . I dont know Do I sound like a crazed step mother?
It jest makes me mad that he sits here and talkes about them being a family and he has to support his family and they way I see it he is support them and we are supporting him and I for one feel like we are being used to the end of the earth. I can see a mother and father heping his child out and I jest think that this boy is taking it a little too far. I think Iam about used up. Soo need less to say I am a little ticked off right now.
Then if things didnt have to get worst his Uncle ken ken called and said my Dh sister is comming in town and they are having her a bday party and Now I am madder then fire. they expect all of us to come running over and see everyone. I hate some of them they act like they are better then the rest of us and I hate that. It has made me mad they didnt recognise any one elses Bday why should we all bend over and kiss her *** that jest has me all fired up and I am not taking it all to well.
I know you all dont want to hear my problem but I thought I would share they maddness that I have today and I hope things get better before the day is over.

Sugar-N-Spice
09-02-2006, 02:29 PM
Hello! Hello!

Thanks girls for the birthday wishes! I just woke up, can you believe it?! I am a lazy butt this morning, not sure how I feel about that!. My intention today is to exercise for at least 30 min. Gotta keep racking up those minutes!!!

Amanda, I think you are doing such an amazing job with everything. I hope you enjoy your days off this weekend just doing "me" stuff. Do you feel okay, hon? The whole thing with being real tired is worrisome to me. Could you possibly be anemic? I don't want you getting sick on us lady!

I love BB! Like Melissa, it's a guilty pleasure. But, then again, all the reality stuff is guilty to me! LOL I think I like it more than regular tv for some reason. There is always drama on there, but most of the time I can never remember that it comes out 3x a week so I miss most of it. LOL

Aqua, you are a treading machine girl! Wow 5lb weights too?! Awesome!!!!! I can only imagine that your body is most definitely changing, look at how hard you work it? Pretty soon those 16's will be falling off you and you won't look the same! That's gotta be a fantastic feeling!

Melissa, I'm glad you survived the munchkins last night! Did Maddie leave you some food? LOL That girl, I swear! Bottomless pit. Lets hope she doesn't grow up and end up weighing 500 lbs! Hopefully you get thru your homework in no time so you can enjoy the long weekend!

Have an amazing day girls! I really hope the others join in today, it's so quiet here. We want to hear how you're doing ladies!

AquaChick
09-02-2006, 04:31 PM
Hun.e.B- Why, thank you for the nice compliments! :hug: I have to go buy measuring tape, I apologize for being so late on that. I promise I will have my blanks filled in this evening. I'm glad you got a good night's sleep. That feels so good!

Butterfly50- Sorry you're feeling mad now. I understand. Certain things get to me too sometimes. :hug: Feels better to vent it and get as much negativity out as possible so it will not build pressure and really make you explode.

Sugar-N-Spice- Awww, thanks again for the sweet comments. :hug: I hope you have a wonderful day.

Sugar-N-Spice
09-02-2006, 05:42 PM
Doing a check in!

I did get my exercise in. I rode my bike for 35 minutes while I watched a movie. Somehow I think I like listening to my ipod better, makes the time go by quicker for some reason. :shrug: Anyways....

thats me for now. Laying low and being lazy pretty much today. Besides laundry getting done, I think that's about all the excitement for the afternoon. :rolleyes:

I cannot wait for Fall to get here! I am SO SICK of hot weather!!!!!!!!!!!

AquaChick
09-02-2006, 06:00 PM
I like listening to music while I workout too. :) Makes me feel like a bad !@#.... lol.....:smoking:

:lol: :boxing:

Amany
09-02-2006, 06:06 PM
Whew! I FINALLY did the Harvey Walden dvd. He's nuts, but it was a good work out. It's the first one that has offered me any type of challenge. Besides Donna Richardson's 30 Days to firmer Abs and Arms. But Donna doesn't compare to Harvey! :drill: I did the beginner circuit ok, but the intermediate circuit was kicking my butt! I barely made it. I don't have no idea what the third circuit even looks like. I have absolutely no idea. Couldn't make it that far. :faint:

Aqua - I have been asking myself that all week! Asking myself if I'm tired or just lazy. I'm hoping these days off will help me. I think they will. I'm glad you're getting so much out of this thread. I know I do! There's no way I'd be doing this well if it were not for the rest of you. No way at all.

Danielle- :hug: You're so sweet! No, I doubt if I'm enemic. I went to the Dr's in July. All they found with my blood work was high cholesterol! :o But if I'm still feeling this drained next week, I'll call for an appointment. This is not really normal for me. Not this bone-weariness.
I'm glad you got to sleep in this morning. You deserve it chicky! Be queen for the day. The WHOLE day. In fact, tell your family you're gonna be queen all weekend. :D

:hug: Bonnie :hug: - I'm so, so sorry. Yeah, he's a grown man. He's too old to be living off you guys. I'm sorry if I'm crossing the boundaries by saying that. It's just that I believe in a human being's ability to rise to the occasion if given the opportunity. I have a 26 year old brother who still lives with my parents. He just got a job a week ago. He had one when he was 18 or two weeks and another about 2 years ago for 2 or 3 days. That's it!
Don't get me wrong, most of us (my siblings and I), have had to move back in periodically. I've done it twice between leases (a little over a month each time) and once for about 3 or 4 months. But I came with the understanding that I'd be picking up a few of the bills and there was no way my parents were going to give me any money. So needless to say, we're all disgusted with my younger brother. The rest of us were all out of the house by 19 years old.
Maybe you and your husband can gave a discussion and come to some agreement on how your stepson can contribute more to the household. Maybe he needs the same "opportunity" my brother needs. You might even get lucky. He might decide that he's better off just moving out. ;)
I'm sorry about the family stuff. It can be difficult. Especially being around people that treat you bad. I may be overstepping again but, ****, I wouldn't go. Life is too short to put up with that crap. :mad:
At any rate, please come and vent whenever you need to. No, you're not being a crazed stepmom. And let me know if I've gone too far. :( I can take it.

Melissa- Get that homework done woman!!
I'm glad you got your sleep last night. Will you have them the whole weekend :eek:. I'm hoping the tiredness is just my needing to get some rest for a while. I had started eating the yocheese and almonds a couple of weeks ago, so I think my eating is ok. Plus I have at least one big salad with baby spinach every day.
Speaking of reality tv, my husband was looking up some stuff about Delicious from Flavor of Love. We both think she's a man. We ended up finding out that she, Somethin (the girl that poo'd) and a lot of the others are actual porn stars. Not racy pictures. Just flat-out fetishy type of disgusting porn. I won't even type what we found. There were a couple of clips and I just couldn't watch. It was disgusting.

Ok, I have to go. Speaking of weird things, we're going to see Little Richard tonight. :rolleyes: Things I do for love, I tell ya. My husband is one of those people whose personality you'd ever be able to peg by his favorite music. He likes gangsta rap, all of Prince's stuff (he even has all the rare stuff), Little Richard, The Beatles, James Brown, Eric Clapton's old stuff, Led Zepplin, and George Clinton. So it's very interesting around here to say the least.

Amany
09-02-2006, 06:46 PM
Yaaay!!! :cb: I got out of going!

Thankfully it's a cool day and it just started raining. It's an outdoor concert. On a hill. My husband is still going, but he said he can't bring himself to ask me to go too.

Thank God for the rain! Yes!! :D

Hun.e.B
09-02-2006, 08:46 PM
Good afternoon!

Amanda....I wouldnt doubt for a second if delicious is a man...thats the one with the lisp right? I'm had the same though, just something doesnt feel right there LOL! The porn pictures is interesting to me since he cut toasty last week because of her port pictures, and here they all have em...oye! LOL!! Well it takes all kinds I suppose, they sure do make for interesting train wreck tv! LOL!! So Harvey was fun huh?! I dunno if I could do him, he scares me too much LOL! I suppose thats the point.

Danielle...what are you doing doing laundry on your birthday!! Woman take the day off! LOL! So is there a nice dinner in store that you dont have to cook at least?

Bonnie...family is the pits I tell ya! Girl I could go on for days ranting about family and the crap they've done to me, my inlaws mostly. You are right to be upset, and you should probably tell him that $50 isnt sufficient. If you are like me its hard to do that but as long as you allow people to walk over you they are going to just keep right on doing it. I hope it gets a little better.

Aqua...you ARE a bad @ss!!! LOL!!

Anyone else like Justin Timberlake's "sexy back"? I dunno why but I just love that song! LOL! Alright, kids are headed to the water park with their friends so I'll have some quiet for a few hours. I'm grilling some teryaki kabobs tonight...my fave! Have a great night!

~melissa

AquaChick
09-02-2006, 08:56 PM
I am soooooo hooked on flavor of love!!! I don't know if any are men, but they are all NASTY. I'm not sayin' they aren't pretty. A couple are gorgeous. But.... They all are there to get with Flav, right? So this speaks volumes. I think he is very funny and entertaining, but I could never hook up with someone I didn't really know- star or not. They act like they'd go all the way with him just to take an oppertunity. Yuck. I wonder how many women he had been with... *shudders*

I still love that show though. :D

Amany
09-02-2006, 09:01 PM
Melissa - Ooooo.... Home alone! That's fantastic. Enjoy it girl!
I thought about Toasty too. Cause I thought that what she had was just some pics. With just herself in them. These other ladies are in actual movies with other people. Some with multiple partners. I won't get graphic, but there's a reason that Somethin couldn't hold it in.
I was just watching a rerun of CFC. Angie made me mad all over again. :mad:

By the way, I forgot to share a turkey sausage recipe. It's kinda spicy, but you can use less cayenne pepper:

Turkey Sausage

1lb lean ground turkey
2 tsp sage
1/2 tsp garlic powder
1/2 tsp salt
1 tsp ground cayenne pepper


Mix it and pan fry with oil spray like Pam.

Amany
09-02-2006, 09:07 PM
Aqua, I know!! Plus the man has six children!!! What the **** can he offer anyone? I don't think he's wealthy anymore. I think the show provides that house for the show. Then he has the nerve to want four more. I would never procreate with him. Yuck! I owe my children more than that. To inherit his genes!

I think the prettiest one now is the one who's really into him (supposedly). The one that had the corn rows about a week ago. She was all crying because he was spending time with someone else. Her name escapes me at the moment.
Then there was the blond girl he said the show wasn't right for. Those two were the prettiest by far IMO. I don't blame Patience for not accepting the clock and leaving. Who needs that craziness.

Oh yeah... I'm not sure if Delicious has a lisp or not...

AquaChick
09-02-2006, 09:19 PM
Mmmhmmm, Crazy. I think that's who had the corn rows.Nibblz has the lisp, she busted out Toastee.
I wondered about "that" with Somthin'. I was kinda on to why she pooped all over. You'd think she's be smart enough to at least wear nylons if she had a control issue. Yuck... why a I even dissecting this situation.... lol!!! :lol:

Thanks for the recipe!


Hun.e.B- Hi! :hug:

Hun.e.B
09-02-2006, 09:58 PM
HAHA!!! OMG, this conversation has me busting up over here!!! Now I cant wait to see tomorrow's new episode! I'm still not straight on the girls names but yes I remember Crazy now, and I remember Nibbles being the lisp now, why is delicious escaping me? Shes not the baby got back girl is she? I'm sure there is a website I can clear this up on LOL!!

amanda...thank you so much for the recipe!! So many of the plans that I like to follow call for some turkey sausage in the morning, and I get the links but they kinda gross me out so I'd love to make some of my own so I can make patties instead.

~mel

Amany
09-02-2006, 10:38 PM
Yep. Delicious is the one with the behind they keep talking about. It looks artificial too. She has really manly features.

You're welcome for the recipe. It's hard to find sausage without sugar in it. I happened upon the recipe earlier this week. I love it.

lovethatsara
09-02-2006, 10:43 PM
Thanks for lending support. I talked with mary my neighbor she said she lost my phone number and so she looked upstairs and saw that my windows were shut and assumed I wasn't home. I think I was just having a stressful day and little things just hurt me.

Elycia - Congrats on your last weighin. We are kicking butt on our thanksgiving challenge!

Sugar-N-Spice
09-02-2006, 10:44 PM
Good golly, I come back and all I hear is talk about porno stars and poopy pants! :lol: Some quality entertainment there, eh? Just haven't been able to bring myself to watch it this season. I hear it's pretty raunchy, no?

Amanda, I hope you enjoyed your time inside and not in the rain tonight! Your hubby has very eclectic tastes, as it should be! Ours are pretty broad over here too, never thought I would love punk rock but it's gotta be my favorite now. :dizzy: Well, I'm glad that you've at least been to the doc recently. I hope that the tiredness goes away and you find that energy quick. I know how you feel tho, I had it for 2 weeks straight! It finally went away when I quit trying to low carb.

Melissa, hey if I don't do the laundry nobody will. I don't want nekkid people around here! Wasn't too bad. Afterall, what the **** else would I have done today? :rolleyes: Just gives me free time tomorrow to be lazy! LOL

Anyways! Carry on ladies....patience, nibbles, delicious, toastee....OYE

TriciaK
09-02-2006, 10:46 PM
Hi girlies.... sorry it has been so long since I actually posted. I think that the last time I did we were on page 3.... I am not going to read all 9 other pages because I would be up all night... I will just have to catch up now... So anyway, I am happy to read that I am not the only person who watches "FLAVA of LOVE" How desperate are those girls to get on television?? It is bad!!!

I have been about average on my diet. I am going to the doctors next week so I will have an official weigh in then. I cannot believe that the summer is officially over... I am having a really hard time getting myself into school gear... How hard is that??? Err.....

Cannot wait to catch up with all of you... Hope that you have all had a wonderful saturday.... I will talk to you soon...

AquaChick
09-02-2006, 11:01 PM
Hun.e.B- Delicious has the accident scars, and the bootie everyone is ooohhhing and ahhhing over.

Amany- I thought her behind looked rather voluptuous, but how do you get an artificial behind? They put implants in it I guess?

lovethatsara- :hug: Glad you got that cleared up with your neighbor.

Sugar-N-Spice- You came in on a very colorful conversation, didn't you? lol...:lol: Good to see you. :hug:

TriciaK- Hi! Yah, don't worry yourself about back tracking, if you missed anything important we'll bring you up to speed. Just jump on in sweetie! We're always gabbing about this or that anyway. :)
School again, ready or not, here it comes!
I think a lot of people like Flavor of Love. It's a guilty pleasure. I'm hoping the guest on an upcoming episode is New York. I kinda liked her, she was a little crazy, but she was definately not a stupid young woman. I liked her attitude, she never took any crap, played any games- none of it. I'd love to see her come into this household of girls. None of them seem to have the *spark* a few of the girls like New York had last season.

Amany
09-03-2006, 12:46 AM
:lol3: I can't believe we're talking about that woman's (or man's?) behind! Is this dieting starving our brains?!! :lol3:

Aqua - Yes there are implants for that sort of thing. lol Accident scars! My goodness, she certainly has quite a few, doesn't she? Well, she is from Detroit, after all. Only a precious few of us remain unscathed. :lol: j/k

Tricia - :hug: Great to see you chicky. You don't have to go back. Just jump right on in. Hope you've been having a good weekend.

Danielle - Yeah, my husband does have eclectic tastes. He's actually educated me quite a bit. I'm finding out that I like music that I never would have considered listening to otherwise. I can't believe you missed the Poopy-ness. :lol: It was so crazy. The woman had the nerve to be proud of herself for doing it too. She has a website with a picture of poop. The caption says, "I'm the sh*t".

Sara - I'm glad everything is cleared up with your neighbor now. We all have those sorts of days. I still think that you should walk by yourself sometimes though. Especially since you can walk faster that way. You won't regret it. You're body will reward you. Or maybe you can get your neighbor to speed it up a bit! ;)

Well, I'll be back later. I just finished watching the last Star Wars for about the 100th time. I only started watching the Star Wars movies about 18 months ago. Can you believe that?

sapphire35
09-03-2006, 02:34 AM
Ladies, ladies, how did you whined up discussing flavor of flav. Wheeeew he is so ugly, how ugly is he? Just UGLY!! :devil: Oh my goodness, he is ugly. Them are some desperate women on that show. And his Momma :D , oh my goodness, she look just like him. lol. Don't get me wrong I'll watch the show but I'll squint the whole time, my face is always frowned up. Especially when he walks in the room. lol.:)

I only got to work out 3 days this week. Not good, But I'm going to do it twice tomorrow. By myself in the morning and then I'll take my nieces to the rec-plex ( kinda like a big YMCA, it has everything: rock-climbing, basketball, gym, track, swimming, iceskating, etc) in the evening. I wasn't exercising twice a day, but with the challenges am going to start doing so. Early Morning and evening.

Amanda, Aqua, & Bonnie: Get ready girls, I'm going to get u. You girls are my challenge, because your doing a lot more than i am right now. Your tolerance levels are higher than mine right now. I haven't complete a video yet. I have done body sculpting class twice tho at the gym in its entirety. And I am only doing about a mile on the treadmill. I want to start jogging on the treadmill next week if nothing but for a minute, then walk, then start back with a jog. Amanda I think we both have the same goal and thats to jog. I use to win a lot awards in track n fields, so this is really bothering me right now.

We are all going to make our goals ladies, some before others, But WE ARE GOING TO MAKE THEM.:carrot: :carrot: :carrot: :carrot: :carrot:

I will have do personals tomorrow are better yet this evening.

sapphire35
09-03-2006, 02:40 AM
U2girl, I don't know why my PM is not working. Maybe I'm doing something wrong ladies help? I checked it everything seems okay. But I'm new at this.

AquaChick
09-03-2006, 09:03 AM
Hi sapphire35! :hug:
I don't know why your PM isn't working, maybe you have it set to off and don't even know it. Go to user CP at the upper left of the screen on the purple bar. Go to edit profile, if that doesn't work try some of the other edit options and look to see if there is a spot for Pm's. I'll check my user CP real quick and see if there is something like that....

Okay go to user CP, click on the "edit options" and go down to "private messaging" and click "enable Private Messages" if you would like to recieve private messages from people. If it already has a green check mark in it and you are still not recieving private messages people try to send you, you will need to ask a moderator or someone who runs the show around here if they can fix it for you. I hope it works for you now.

AquaChick
09-03-2006, 09:12 AM
:)

:coach:



Hey Ladies! I went ahead and started the thread for the new week! So we can move over to "The Winning Losers Week of 9/3/06".

Thank you! :D

Hun.e.B
09-03-2006, 01:24 PM
Here's the link just so you dont get lost! LOL

http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/showthread.php?t=92956