Weight Loss Surgery - Just for Lapbanders #4

Hard to believe, isn't it, that we've pretty much filled up 3 threads with lapband issues!

The other one was getting too long, and old, so, folks, here's a whole new one for you to discuss your special issues and questions.

Enjoy!:hug: :carrot:

Thanks Miss Jiffy :)

Another question...

How out of the closet are you about having had surgery? Is it basically noticable? Is there anyway you could get by without telling your family?

I'm generally a very open person... however, my mother is a complete gossip. It came as a bit of a shock when I heard her talking to a complete stranger about some very private details of my life. There are things I wish she didn't know.... And, I think WLS might be one of them.

That, and she can be a bit unsupportive. I took her to an ultrasound appt when I was PG, thinking that it would be a special moment... her getting to see her first grandchildren. It was okay, but when she started commenting on how heavy I was and how "secure" I must be because she would have been mortified to let anyone see her tummy like that.... (etc..) Anyways, you get the idea... I just don't know if I want to subject myself to the possible comments.

How realistic is it for me to think I can keep it a secret?

Well, thats a tough one. Is your mom with you alot? if so, it might be hard. The first few weeks of liquids, mushies might be hard to hide if she's around. After your fills, you'll be eating very slow and small amounts... how can you hide that?

I don't want you to get in trouble w/your Mom and I'm not saying you should do this but, if it were me, I wouldn't tell her... I'd let her figure it out herself and if she says how come you didn't tell her... thats when I'd say she has a big mouth and would spew my privacy to others... but thats just me.

IMHO, the less people that know, the better. You don't want everyone's eyes on you all the time judging each morsal of food your putting in your mouth.

Just tell the ones you can really trust.

Good luck

Leenie - Thanks for responding. And, for bringing up the issue of people watching the food you eat. Egad, I had enough of that when I was pregnant. Everytime I went to the doctor, I got the "how much weight have you gained" question. I hated feeling watched and judged.

I think it is easier to be "in the closet" about it with the Lap-Band than with any other surgery. If that is what you feel is right for you then I think you can easily pull it off.

I've lost a total of 47 pounds since I started considering the surgery. I'm loosing at a rate of about 1.6 - 2 pounds per week. It is a slow, steady weight loss that can be done without surgery (in theory anyway ... not for me personally obviously). But the loss isn't so drastic that it screams "I had surgery".

If you mom isn't supportive and she is a gossip then by all means don't tell her. It isn't anyone's business but your own. Who you choose to tell is competely up to you and you don't owe anyone any explanations.

Now I'm as open as can be about my surgery. There are very few people I haven't told. But that is because I was so excited to finally be doing something concrete about my weight that I just blurted it out all the time.

But my friends and family are super supportive and I didn't have any fears about them being anything but.

I do get tired at times of having to answer questions from people who don't understand that Lap-Band surgery is not by-pass surgery why I'm not loosing as fast. I do, ocassionally get tired of having a few people who are food police asking me if I "should" be eating something or looking at my plate to see how much I have eaten.

But so far being open about it has worked out okay for me.

I always, though, maintain the right to refuse to discuss it with someone or not to tell someone if I think they are going to be difficult or not supportive.

I agree Carole, and when you go thru those difficult weeks of not losing, you don't need to explain it to anyone why your not losing. IMHO, the less you tell, the better.

I have a question about fills.

How do you know if your band has been filled enough?

With that asked, this is my situation. I got my first fill on May 23rd. I did the swallow test to find out that the water would not go down; so I had a PB of water. Ok, so my doc said that is called obstruction. So I went back on the table to take out 1.2 cc of saline. Did the swallow test once more and all is well. Now, I don’t know if it feels any different than before. My doctor said I should feel something like a small road block but I don't. I can still drink a 12 oz protein shake with no problem which I was doing before the fill. By the way, I am on liquids for a 1 week.

So back to my question, how do you know if your band has been filled enough?

Wow Debo, sounds like you have a really agressive fill doc. Mine is very conservative and puts in maybe .2 cc at a time.

It sounds to me like you need a small fill if you're not feeling any restriction, but you won't be able to tell until you're on solid foods. Hold off making the call to them until you've given yourself at least a week on solids. You'll know you're at proper restriction when you get there. Your body will tell you. You'll feel the food sitting in the pouch and moving through slowly. It's kind of wierd at first. When you feel that, try not to make the mistake of eating too fast or too much. It's a whole learning process thing and you really, really have to pay attention to your body. That was probably (and still is!) the most difficult thing for me.

Oh yeah, it will probably take a few fills till you're at that sweet spot. And don't be surprised after you've reached the sweet spot if you lose restriction after awhile. As you lose, the fat pad around your stomach will shrink, making the band looser, so you'll have to get another fill to compensate. It's a whole lot of educated guesswork.

Chickadee

Thank you Chickadee, that is exactly what I wanted to know.

My first fill was 1cc.. didn't feel anything, 2nd fill was .5 cc..okay we're getting better, 3rd fill .25....so now I'm at 1.75. I can eat a decent amount but don't really want another fill yet b/c food does get stuck and I think I'm good for now. I'm losing extrememly slow but thats my fault... mentally I'm not ready to eat any less than I am (and picking inbetween meals is messingme up too). I go back june 16th and I'll prob get another .25.

You'll be able to tell, trust me.

Leenie, How close together did you get your fills? Because I really don't feel any different.

Deb, my doc didn't give me my first fill until I was 4 months out. I was so angry because although I was losing weight, I was fighting it and doing it on my own, the band was not restricted what so ever. Doc said as long as I was losing he wasn't gonna fill me.... SOOOOOO!!!! I decided to gain....yep, 2 lbs and then finally he gave me my first fill. That was in febuary and I was banded in october.

I waited exactly one month inbetween each fill because I did want to go slow and I was afraid of jumping the gun. I have read that some times fills take a while to kick in so I wanted to be sure. I'm going back in June (16th) for another, so that will put me at 2.0.

I can eat ALOT!!!!!!!!!!!! at this point its just that I want to do this slowly and if that means not losing so fast than thats okay. I also have to learn to mentally be ready to give up my first love and thats food.

I'm working both sides of phycho street here and its tough.

I've only lost 40 lbs since october 25th but I"m really okay with that, I'll do better once I start exercising too lol. 55 more to go ;)

Hı everyone.. I had Lap Band surgery on 12/06/06. And so far, I have lost about 30 pounds, and I am not happy. I am depressed. Because sometimes I eat just fine, as much as my family does. It's like I haven't gotten it smaller at all! I only had 1 fill, and maybe that's why, but I am really unhappy. Because I look at other people, and all have lost more than me. I know I shouldn't compare, but I hate exercise, and I hate everything... I am pretty depressed...:?:

Neverland,

If you've been filled since December of last year and you've only had one fill ... it is no wonder you're frustrated.

The band doesn't really "work" until you have reached a good level of restriction. Very rarely does on reach a proper level of restriction on one fill. I strongly suggest that you talk to your doctor about another fill.

Keep in mind that on average it takes 3-5 fills to find the level of restriction that works for you.

And I know you hate to exercise. I firmly believe that most of us do dislike it to some extent. But we often have to do things we don't like to get the results we want.

So talk to your doctor about a fill and start exercising!

Thank you for your nice reply : )) However, I meant 12th of June.
So it's normal that I eat fine?
Do you think running too much will hurt the band?

Neverland,

Running will not harm your band. Keep exercising.

So you've been banded almost three months, right? Give it some time. It can take a few fills to reach the right fill level. Even when you reach your "sweet spot" or optimal restriction you shouldn't find eating to be painful or difficult. You should be able to serve yourself reasonable portion sizes and feel full (meaning no longer hungry but not stuffed) on those portions. Ideally we should not be sitting down to huge helpings and then waiting for our band to tell us when to stop eating. So if you've only had one fill and you're about three months out and you're eating larger portions than you think you should be able to ... I'd say that is pretty normal.

Many Lap-Band patients call the time between surgery and reaching proper restriction "Bandster Hell" because it is a frustrating and difficult time.

In the mean time keep trying to make good food choices, exercising and hardest of all ... keep tying to be patient. That's the part that's really hard.

What are threads and what and where are the four you have filled up.

Lapbander as of July 27, 2006, -22 pounds:?: :?:

Well, I'm not telling a soul (except my HR lady because I have to but that's confidential).

I already know people will freak out and judge me. Nope - just my secret. :))

Is there a link to a thread that discusses the "fills" in more detail?

I'm not sure 4myself... but is there anything maybe I can answer for you?

:hug:

Leenie--

I went to the link listed on the FAQ thread and found out that there is a seminar in my area on November 20th (monday night)!!!!

I'm so excited!

I actually spoke w/my husband about this option on Wednesday. He's usually so anti-surgery when it comes to me--won't even let me get BC implanted! He did seem worried at first, but when I told him I'd keep all my body parts he cooled it a little.

Now I'm trying to find out if my insurance will pay for part of it!

4myself, call your insurance before you go, ask them if they cover bariatric surgery and then ask about the band. Some insurances will say yes but will only cover bypass.

CONGRATULATIONS !!!!!!!

I called today--she said that they will begin covering lap-banding with the 2007 season, but as of now they don't.

I'm going to the seminar on Monday, then I have to choose a doctor and take all the other steps necessary--so I'm doubting I'd be ready by January anyway! I'll wait the few extra weeks, though, if I have too to defer some of the cost!!!!

Hello Ladies......I just got started on here at 3fatchicks....I have been banded since Oct. 11th. I have lost 13 lbs so far. I have not yet gotten a fill, but i go in this wednesday for my first..im pretty nervous, but i know i absolutly need it because as of right now i have almost no restriction at all. I think i may be gaining and that scares me. Well i really look forward to getting information from you guys....cause i know i truly need the help...hope everyone has a great day.

Jess

Hello, I was wondering if any of you know if kaiser permanente insurance would cover getting a lap band, partially or otherwise.
I was also wondering about how you can pay for it if your insurance doesn't
cover weight loss surgeries, from experience preferably.

Thanks

My mil and fil had lap bands done I believe it will be two years ago come the end of February. I can say with much conviction that had they not done this particular procedure that they would have continued to have medical problems or worse. :( Each have lost beautifully, my mil has lost half her current body weight and looks FANTASTIC and my fil has also lost my mil's current body weight, he has about 20 more pounds to go and then will have achieved goal. I'm so very proud of them both. They now are off ALL medications and are so active! So.. to all of you who have done this as well and seen wonderful results, I'm proud of you too! :hug:

Sadly, most insurances don't cover lap band surgery, only the gastric bipass kind. I don't understand why (I work medical billing for a SoCa healthcare) because there are less post op medical problems. I know many people who had the bipass and ended up with lots of after problems :( Call Kaiser and ask them specifically.. direct to the insurance is always the best. Lap bands are still considered a lot of the time, experimental..

Another question...

How out of the closet are you about having had surgery? Is it basically noticable? Is there anyway you could get by without telling your family?




That's a great question -- and like yourself I am pretty open, but I find with this, I really don't want anyone to know for many reasons.

It's definitely a personal choice. I've told my closest friends but not any of DH's family. After the first healing period (which we passed off as a stomach bug, etc) no one notices. I eat enough (or push it around on my plate) that no one catches on or questions my food choices. It was hard in the beginning when people who knew I'd had the surgery would ask how much I'd lost, expecting a big number since last week. I'd find myself launching into explanations of fills and slow weight loss and so on. Now it's not a problem.

Good luck either way,

I've made no bones about having the lap band done; as a matter of fact, it is the only thing I can have done since the bypass is not an option for me (digestive system is backwards). As someone else stated, a lot of insurances will not cover lap banding, but I was able to get mine covered, being I fell under a criteria of a "Quality of Wellness" guidelines (BMI, diet history, medical history, etc.). I've got an in-office appointment on March 5, which means more than likely I will be scheduled for surgery sometime between later that month or sometime in April at the latest.

Hi I am getting ready to have the lapband surgery om 4-27-07 and would like someone to tell me if its painful. and if the person was a diabetic before surgery was there any problems with that?:?:

Hi Allinone,

Congrats on your band date. Pain will differ with everyone, I know a person who went shopping the NEXT DAY!!!! can you believe that.... where as I didn't drive until the 5th day out b/c I was to sore. So you see, you'll get all different responses. My other friend was up and walking hours after her surgery!!!! LOL. Just make sure when you leave the hospital they give you some pain pills.... even if you don't take any, its good to have them just incase you do need them. I was only on them about 2 days if that... the slightest discomfort I had I took a pill b/c there is no reason to be in pain and I didn't want the pain level to get really bad.

I'm sorry I can't help you on the diabetic part of your question.

Good luck !!!!

Leenie,

did your srugery work for you? How did you take pills? Others tell me their meds are liquid.

thx,
Evilah

Evilah my surgery went beautiful (so far) I'm over a year out and lost 60 lbs. I would lose faster but I'm taking the fills very very slow, last thing I want to do is rush this and hurt myself.

I have a pill cutter and cut most of my pills. Some meds do come in liquids so that makes it even easier....you just have to remember to tell your doctor (remind him) that you need liquids or pills you can cut. Easy peasy ;)

Ohh... some pills you can crush and mix in apple sauce (just like some elderly people do).

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Silly question - But what is DH? Darling Husband??
Thanks.

Yes :)

I'm going to post here from now on. I am on my journey to lapband surgery. Just started the support groups and haven't had my first psych meeting yet. A ton of paper work to read and schedule appointments.
I have started walking 30 minutes a day and I feel so much better than when I don't exercise. But I noticed I'm eating more food too. Still at the same weight. I need to cut my calorie intake and start walking an hour a day. My knees don't hurt anymore and I can get out of bed w/o any problem.
Sorry so long, so cheer me on! I am so grateful for this board!

Thanks a bunch

I am having difficulty getting anything at all down. I mean anything. I thought that I read somewhere that if your band slipped a little, going on to clear liquids for a bit might allow the body to re-place the band. Has anyone had this occur - is it true? I think I might be in hell... eeek! I'm really afraid.

Hey guys I noticed that no one has really posted on here, but i am really considering the surgery. Anyone have any suggestions?

Hey guys I noticed that no one has really posted on here, but i am really considering the surgery. Anyone have any suggestions?


Yes, do your research #1. And realize, you will still need to diet and exercise to lose the weight. Its very easy for junk food to go thru the band, much easier than clean healthy foods :shrug: Call your insurance company and make sure they cover it, also find out what they require for you to be approved (i.e., 6 months physician supervised diet, etc.).

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I think I will start posting on this thread since I've decided for sure to have LB. Just started the (insurance) process - have had one nutrition meeting but still need to do the other stuff (2 more meetings + psych eval). My DH had GB surgery 2 yrs ago and is doing great, but that's not my path. It took me 2 yrs to even decide to do LB - still nervous but I think it's a good choice for me. My problem is "sweets" addiction - including chocolate- that will be such a challenge. Are you still able to eat very tiny amts. of (dark) chocolate after the surgery? I'm 63 and it's hard to teach old dawgs new tricks, LOL.

GrammyRN,

I have done everything that my insurance required. So, now I'm just waiting for approval and a date for my LB. I will continue with the support groups to help keep me from eating foods that are bad for me.

Did anyone see Lulu from Hee Haw she was the fat women on there, she has lost hundreds of pounds and now she is going for the surgery to take care of her sagging skin.

I have been MIA for awhile, need to get caught up on things here again. Remember it's a tool to help with wl the lapband is. So, grammy don't cheat yourself out of the healthy women you deserves to be.

I need to find out if my insurance will pay for the fills, I will be having! Do any of you know?

Take Care

MiddleSister

Another question...

How out of the closet are you about having had surgery? Is it basically noticable? Is there anyway you could get by without telling your family?

I'm generally a very open person... however, my mother is a complete gossip. It came as a bit of a shock when I heard her talking to a complete stranger about some very private details of my life. There are things I wish she didn't know.... And, I think WLS might be one of them.

That, and she can be a bit unsupportive. I took her to an ultrasound appt when I was PG, thinking that it would be a special moment... her getting to see her first grandchildren. It was okay, but when she started commenting on how heavy I was and how "secure" I must be because she would have been mortified to let anyone see her tummy like that.... (etc..) Anyways, you get the idea... I just don't know if I want to subject myself to the possible comments.

How realistic is it for me to think I can keep it a secret?

I never told my mom or dad. in fact, I didn't tell anyone! When folks ask, I tell them the absolute truth that I eat much smaller portions of protein and veggies. PM me anytime.

I think I will start posting on this thread since I've decided for sure to have LB. Just started the (insurance) process - have had one nutrition meeting but still need to do the other stuff (2 more meetings + psych eval). My DH had GB surgery 2 yrs ago and is doing great, but that's not my path. It took me 2 yrs to even decide to do LB - still nervous but I think it's a good choice for me. My problem is "sweets" addiction - including chocolate- that will be such a challenge. Are you still able to eat very tiny amts. of (dark) chocolate after the surgery? I'm 63 and it's hard to teach old dawgs new tricks, LOL.

Hi Grammy!
You'll love being banded! Good luck!
Claudia

I was just banded in Tijuena by Dr. Kuri on Dec. 6th. My insurance would not pay so I opted to go there. It was a wonderful experience. I have already lost 30 pounds and feel great. I am 46 and was afraid too....but there was nothing to be afraid about. If you are thinking of getting this done....I would highly recommend it.
I can already see how things are going to be so much better. Good luck. Leslie

Thank all of you for your encouraging words! I have one more nutrition class to go, and then hopefully they'll "set the date." I'm already starting to panic about losing food as my *best friend* just like I went through with cigarettes when I quit 21 yrs ago, but experience tells me "this too shall pass." Teaching this ole dawg new tricks will take persistence but from what I've been reading in this forum, it's certainly worth the effort. I'm so encouraged by all you brave folks who are on the same journey, and finding this supportive group has been a great blessing. Anything positive in life worth doing is worth doing TOGETHER!! Yea for us!! Chick power!!

today is my fourth day out of surgery and I was able to eat a meal from wendy's. I ate it really slowly, but I am scared. I know i have to learn to control my bingeing, and I was fully prepared to eat one or two bites and either throw up or be in pain, but I WASN'T. Now I am scared that there is something wrong. Why would my doctor and all the websites and books say that my stomach would be too sensitive for solid foods, but mine isn't? I know I should go to my doctor, but I am really embarrassed. Does anybody have any advise?

anais, honey. it seems to me as if you're testing the limits a little too soon!! please PLEASE go back to what your doc said you should be doing at this point, and stop experimenting. there's no telling when these experiments will backfire AND THEY WILL!!!

breathe, darlin.

Ana,

I've never heard of a doctor allowing anyone to eat solid food 4 days after surgery. I was not allowed solid food until 5 WEEKS after surgery. Usually its clear liquids for a week (or two), then thicker liquids for a week, then mushies for a week and then maybe solids. You might want to check with your doctors guidelines, don't be embarassed, just be informed.

What you are doing sounds dangerous. The last thing you want to do is injure your insides. Good luck :hug:

Smoldering.... CONGRATULATIONS !!

Grammy your gonna do wonderful.


Leenie

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i just got my band on monday so i am only on liquids but i am really feeling shaky, but i feel really full. what do i increase, my protein or what? thanks for the help

i just got my band on monday so i am only on liquids but i am really feeling shaky, but i feel really full. what do i increase, my protein or what? thanks for the help

Congratulations on being in bandland :hug:
Did you call your doctor? Its so important to keep that communication going with your doc and follow his diet guidelines (because each doctor has different rules). I don't know what you are eating or how much protein you are getting so its hard to give any suggestions. When I was on week #1 I ate ice pops (no fruit pieces) gatoraid, tea, coffee, water, clear stuff, broth, etc.... Like I said its hard to give advice when I don't know what your allowed or what your eating. Make sure you are getting plenty of liquids, last thing you need is dehydrtion and another trip to the hospital. Call your doc and ask.....

;)

Leenie thank you!

Who will do your fills on your band?Will you have to go back to Tijuena?

I am STILL waiting. Thought everything was all set to submit to the insurance company and sure enough still have one more nutrition class to attend (next week). I'm on pins and needles - waiting, waiting, waiting!! Now that I've pretty much dealt with my fears (for now) I'm ready to get it on!!! My weight is creeping up, not down - time to reverse that! (maybe I'm eating more because I AM kinda nervous after all!) Carol

Carol, I was so nervous when I started the process... I ate everything in site. I was lucky though, I think thats the only time my nerves kicked in some over time because I did not gain. Hang in there and get that class over with so you can get that date ;)

Jo.... your welcome, I hope it helped :dizzy: <---- me.

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Thank you, Leenie - hopefully the nerve thing will go away soon. Last nutrition class is this coming week, THEN maybe we can set the date! Am just getting more and more ready to get this on and start feeling better and better. My DH swears I have no idea how bad I really do feel (sleeping all the time, nightmares at night, etc.) from being so overweight. (He should know since he had GB a couple of yrs back.) He's my bestest cheerleader, :cheer2: thankfully. Carol

Carol thats wonderful that your DH is your #1 supporter, how awesome is that. My DH is thin and eats like a pig which does not help me what so ever, and he's not one of those thin people who eats to live...this guy lives to eat, I swear. still love em though LOL.

HELP!
This is my first time to this site and not sure how things work. I am going to have surgery sometime in the next couple of months. Right now I am supose to diet and exercise. If I could diet and exercise I wouldn't need surgery would I? It is very frustrating. I work 8 to 10 hours a day, and am sore and tired when I come home, and hungry! I live in Oregon where it rains all the time....or most of it. The only place here in this small town is Curves and I do not have exercise equipment. How do I get going on loosing and moving. I am at a BMI of 43, and it is hard to move, let alone exercise.
I spend hours reading at the Lab Band site and now here. I don't find any post about how to get started. Didn't anyone else have a hard time....was anyone else very over weight and their body sore and hurts all the time like me? I worry about getting banded and then what. I don't have energy now to exercise will I have energy after?
Please help me out here someone...I can't be the only person like this...am I??

Thank you, Leenie - hopefully the nerve thing will go away soon. Last nutrition class is this coming week, THEN maybe we can set the date! Am just getting more and more ready to get this on and start feeling better and better. My DH swears I have no idea how bad I really do feel (sleeping all the time, nightmares at night, etc.) from being so overweight. (He should know since he had GB a couple of yrs back.) He's my bestest cheerleader, :cheer2: thankfully. Carol



wow, I so relate to this! Lately my sleep is so messed up! I am miserable during the day...so tired all the time. I don't sleep well at 237. I have crazy crazy anxiety producing dreams all night long.. i wake up to pee about 5 times a night, I think I may have sleep apnea..my lips are dry and cakey in the morning from sleeping with my mouth open all night. Ido have a deviated septum...but it was never this bad b4 I gained this last 1 lbs. Nothing ever kept me from sleep till now! I am also waiting for surgery. Ins. has approved now I am waiting on doctor. Geez! I go in April 1 for an appt since ins. approved...they said to wear comfortable shoes? ANyone know what may take place here? I asked when would I get to have surgery after this appt and they said 4-6 weeks. Bummer! What takes so long? Insight here anyone who has been thru it? I know doc's are different, but what do ya think is the process?

thanks, deb

guess I posted in the wrong place for help sorry

It finally happened! I went into surgery Wednesday afternoon and came out with a nice little lapband! A couple of complications - had a pretty good-sized hiatal hernia which the doc needed to repair, and he took out my gallbladder as well. Needless to say my belly is sore, but am starting to feel slowly better. Had so much GAS - whew!! Doc said that gas is to be expected with this surgery - I even felt it in my shoulder of all places (referred pain, he said). For 2 weeks I can have all the liquids and semi-liquids (like yogurt) that I want until there's been some good healing in there. But no coffee yet :tantrum: Can't believe that the only time I was hungry was the morning after surgery - famished!! Since then, not so much. Hopefully in a few days I'll feel more normal and less weirded-out, LOL! Love, Carol :D

Carol Congratulations :hug:

I can't tell you how many times I've heard of people getting lapband surgery and having a hiatal hernia and/or gallbladder removed...its not unusual... iI'm so glad your home and relaxing.

No coffee?? its so strange how each doctor is different... Thats the first thing they gave me after surgery with skim milk (well the next day really). I really wanted a cheeseburger but you know how that goes.

I was on 2 weeks clear liquids, third week thicker liquids, 4th week was mushies and finally 5th week regular food.

Gas ohhh yeah I remember that quite well. I slept in the recliner for a week and walked around my house as much as I could. Ask your doctor but I'm sure your able to take Gas-X.

Good luck and welcome home :hug:
Leenie

congrats grammy! hope you become a loser real soon.

Thanks Leenie and mistymed! Yes, isn't it funny how every doc is different? Actually I had to go back to full liquids after a couple of days -they had told me "mushy" (like yogurt) was ok - NOT!! Talk about running to the bathroom every few minutes and still having accidents. Not fun.

So I went back on liquids although since I was so shaky and weirded out (my brain was boggled, hehheh), started drinking Boost Glucose Control along with water and watered-down V-8 Splash and an occasional chicken broth. That seems to be working much better, and my mind is actually sorta-kinda working again! Never have tolerated anesthesia real well anyway. At least the gas is gone (along with my caffeine headache, LOL!) :headache:

It's a whole new mindset, isn't it? I really haven't wanted Real Food until I smelled my husband's broiled salmon tonight - ohmygosh! :drool: And I don't even like salmon! :hungry: Boy was I ready to chow down! But, bit the bullet, went into the bedroom and sipped on the Boost. But you know what? That feeling really did pass pretty fast - happy to say :D

So, onwards on this great adventure!! I'm SOOO grateful you're all here to share and support on this journey! :cp:
Love, Carol

i am glad to have all of you too! i bet you will have a great loss when you go
for your checkup.

Carol, I remember eating clear liquids for two weeks and during the 2nd week my family was eating dinner while I sat in the living room almost in tears... it drove me nuts LOLOL but we survive right. We really must be very careful the first 6 weeks after surgery...last thing we want to do is hurt ourselves by not listening to our doctors orders... no matter how badly you want to go against it... don't Before you know it you'll be eating solids.

I really need to get a fill.... don't know why I won't go...its a mind game at this point. I can eat a decent amount of food and kinda like it but at the same time I'm not losing an ounce :(

We must TRAIN THE BRAIN !!!! with out it, the band doesn't do its job :( because even with this tool, you can still gain weight by eating all day long and the wrong foods.

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today is my fourth day out of surgery and I was able to eat a meal from wendy's. I ate it really slowly, but I am scared. I know i have to learn to control my bingeing, and I was fully prepared to eat one or two bites and either throw up or be in pain, but I WASN'T. Now I am scared that there is something wrong. Why would my doctor and all the websites and books say that my stomach would be too sensitive for solid foods, but mine isn't? I know I should go to my doctor, but I am really embarrassed. Does anybody have any advise?


I know this post is a little late for Anaisjude, but the reason drs tell you not to eat after lapband surgery is 1) to give your stomach a chance to heal and 2) to allow scar tissue to form around the band to lesson the chance of band slippage. The liquids go down easy and the stomach does not have to churn to digest it. Don't forget when the drs place the band, some also stitch a little part of the stomach under the band to the part of the stomach over the band to secure the band in place. I think it's called the Birmingham stitch.

Also, do not rush to eat solid foods after a fill. My dr has me go on liquids for 2 days, 2 days of mushies and then back on solids. I was banded on Dec 6, 2007. I know it's hard to follow orders strictly and once I healed after the surgery, I felt like I was eating like there was going to be a food shortage and I had to get every last bite. It's self sabotage. I had to stop it and it is dangerous to do after wls. I didn't go thru surgery to continue to fail. So I stopped the nonsense and after the second fill, I finally felt restriction and lost more weight.

Just go slow. The lapband is a process and there is a lot to learn to be successful. Work with your doctor. Follow their advice. And most of all: Be kind to your body. :)

-JoAnn

Hi Everyone,

My doc had me on liquids for 2 weeks after surgery and then 1 week of mushies and then on solids. Since they use the newer band which is bigger (10cm) , they wanted me to have my first fill at 1 month after surgery. I put it off because it was year-end and I was stressed. So I went for my first fill 6 weeks after surgery. When I first went they gave me 3cc's, I felt no restriction and was able to eat like six raviolis. So doc told me to come again, so 2 weeks later, he put in another 3cc's. I had kept the 12lbs off from the liquid diet prior to surgery, but I wasn't losing anything after the 2 fills. He told me my band was larger and that I need more liquid at my weight to feel restriction. Then 1 month later they put in 1 1/2cc's. I have a total of 7 1/2 cc's. I lost another 10lbs and have kept that off too. For the first year my dr wants me to come monthly to check my progress and give me a fill if needed.

I'm due for another fill on Monday, April 14th. I actually can't wait because, if I lose another 10lbs, I will be 6lbs from being 199. I haven't been 1-something in about 17 years.

Thats awesome SC... but be very careful not to get over filled... slow is good. If you start getting acid reflux thats a sign you need to get a slight unfill.

Congrats on your WL :hug:

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Thanks, Leenie. They're pretty careful about giving fills. The Dr told me that since I'm on the "smaller side of heavy" (whatever that means), I need more liquid in my band to feel the restriction. My friend was getting the acid reflux and they ended up having to empty all the liquid out of her band. After 1 1/2 years she has lost 100lbs, but they realized her band had slipped, where her stomach mushroomed over the band. They think it might have happened soon after surgery, when she was vomitting forcefully. The acid reflux is getting really bad for her, even with all the liquid out of the band. She now has to get the band replaced. They are going to put the newer band in, which has a less chance of slippage.

I'm really proud at her at age 60, she went from 290 to 190. I'm 39 and struggling. She keeps pushing me ( in a good way), to keep at it and not lose sight of my goal. Her doctors told her that most lapbanders should lose their weight within 2 years. That it gets harder after the 2 years have passed. Has anyone else heard of this?

-Joanne

Wow, your friend had a rough time, but its awesome that they can fix it for her.

I think it gets harder after 2 years because the excitement wears down, if you know what I mean... I'm 2 1/2 years out and only lost 1/2 of what I should have lost so yes... its harder now. My problem is I need a fill but am fighting the mind demons... I have little restriction and am enjoying being able to eat as much as I can plus I'm picking inbetween meals... not a good combo.

Looks like your doing great !!! keep up the good work.

Leenie

Hi all... I signed up for this site awhile ago, but never posted. So I just thought I would introduce myself and get involved. I have band surgery on 2/11/08! WAHOO!! It's been good to read all your posts. Definately motivating.

:welcome: Heidabear

Glad you joined us and welcome to bandland ;) Hope to more (or is that less? lol) of you.

Hi all... I signed up for this site awhile ago, but never posted. So I just thought I would introduce myself and get involved. I have band surgery on 2/11/08! WAHOO!! It's been good to read all your posts. Definately motivating.
My daughter is thinking about having this and it's a big step, so how are you doing?

Hi - like kathym48, i too am looking for help and direction. Since this thread seems to be post-LB or those already in the process, does anyone know of a thread where those considering this option can discuss and ask questions?

Hi - like kathym48, i too am looking for help and direction. Since this thread seems to be post-LB or those already in the process, does anyone know of a thread where those considering this option can discuss and ask questions?


You can ask on this thread or any where on the WLS board (it might be better there, you'll get more recognition there). :hug: and good luck !!!!

Hi all.
I'm Mary.
I started on my journey to getting a Lapband last December.
I had to go on a 6 month supervised weightloss plan with my PMD.
well, it's now September!!
At my June visit I gave my Dr. my paperwork with what was needed for my surgery to be submitted to my insurance from my surgeon.
They didn't send anything.
At my JULY visit she asks me how everything is going with my surgery plans, I freaked on her a bit and again told her what I needed from them to have my info submitted.
I've been calling since July and they have not even sent ONE progress note to my surgeon.
My PMD is against this surgery. She is anti ANY WLS. I know this, she knows I know it, she still IS however, my Dr and my progress notes are MINE!
She has told me she is against it. We have gone back and forth about it.
I work in the OR plus I have had several surgeries in the last 5 years. I am WELL aware of the risks.:devil: She makes me NUTS.
I have sleep apnea, hypertension as co morbs. I'll even take my progress notes to another Dr IF SHE EVER GIVES THEM TO ME!! The 6 months notds plus my co morbs (with sub specialists visits and notes) would be enough for the insurance company.

I am lucky in that I work with my surgeon. They will intervine on my behalf (light a fire under PMD butt).
SOO frustrating.
In the last (8 months now) few months I have a net loss of about 15 pounds. It was up to a 24 lb loss but has rebounded....levelled off.
I walk and exercise everyday. I now logg food and exercise.
I have discovered many tools such as YT and this site plus one or two others.
These tools ARE helping but 15 pounds in 8 months is not good enough for me.
I hope to have news this week.
Last Friday I called yet again...I also called the surgeons coordinator. I should have something by this week.

I REALLY thought i would have an easier road here because I do work with these people.....but HAHAHA on me. It's been one hurdle after another!

Mary

Hi Mary,

I'm sorry the process is driving you nuts :( but good things are worth the wait.

:hug:

Help!I have Systemic Lupus and my Dr. started me on Prednisone and it makes me want to eat everything in site.If I dont take the steroids,my fatigue is so bad I just lay in bed.I had gotten down to 174 by 10-05-o8.I'm now back to 213.the hunger is so strong it doesnt seem like I have any will power.Does anyone have any suggestions?With the lap-band ice-cream goes down real easy and i can eat ALL i want,so I know that is why my weight is going back up so fast.I'm just at my wits end. Help!

Wow Ilerjo, thats tough dealing with Pred. Ok... so we have to look at high protein low calorie/sugar foods. I know how easy junk goes down, believe me, and when your tired its just all to easy to turn to. Ok, so how about some protein drinks, what if you made a frosty out of them. Or how about some yogurt smoothies with some protein powder in them. I think if you post this question on the regular WLS board, you'll get oodles of responses from even the GBP chicks.

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thanks so much for the info.i feel i need to see if dr.can lower my dosage then start like i had the lap-band just done.the protein drinks smoothies etc.etc.

Best of luck !!! Your doing great BTW :hug:

Hello!

I have been considering WLS surgery for several years now. In 2004 I had all steps complete EXCEPT the 6 month's md monitered diet so my insurance denied me. I went back to my dr and started the diet but I ended up tearing an ACL, had two surgeries to repair, ended up going part time, lost my insurance. My DH picked me up on his ins. but it didn't cover. Now I have a new job (well not so new couple years now) but am so frustrated with losing weight and find myself once again considering WLS. I have started the 6 months diet FIRST this time and next month will have my Dr send me on to the surgeon to speak with him. I am worried that I don't weigh enough to have surgery. Last time I was around 228 and this time I am around 212( after several months of struggling on WW). My BMI is not over 35 but around 34.6 for my height. Has anyone ever heard of someone my size have the lap band procedure done. Last time I was cleared by the surgeon, at that point he said he would do either GB or LB. I am worried if I lose any on the 6 months monitored diet I won't qualify.

For me I try to diet (I am the queen of yo-yo dieting) I do lose but VERY slowly get frustrated, give up, gain weight, go back on a diet. It's a vicious cycle. I feel like I need more help than I can do on my own which is why I am considering LB surgery again. I guess I am just scared about qualifying. I want this done NOW, I don't want to be labeled as morbid obese any longer. I want to be healthy. I don't want to shop in the plus sized section. I want to go to the mall and find something that fits. I guess I have a lot of wants! lol

So is there usually a weight you have to be before you qualify? I need to lose around 75 lbs.


Beth

Hi Beth,

There's nothing wrong with wanting to be healthy, and wanting to look good. I want too ;)

I'm not sure what your insurance is going to require in order for you to have surgery, but look at it like this, if you ARE losing weight with the 6 month monitored diet, then maybe it will motivate you to do it on your own... That would be awesome right !!!! Also, please be aware that even with the band or gastric you still have to "diet" it is so "SO" easy to eat junk food and gain it back with both surgeries. I'm certainly not trying to discourage you, no way, I'm trying to incourage you and I want you to be aware that surgery doesn't "fix" the brain. The brain also must be trained.

I'm so glad you joined us, please post all your questions, cares, concerns on the regular wls board, the ladies there are so warm and caring and know exactly how you feel. Besides, you'll get lots of feed back there.

:hug: and :welcome: to 3FC's

Leenie

On my first fill: Dr. put in 3.5 did not feel anything, in fact I could barely notice any difference in eating patterns. Un fortuantely I have been a ble to eat everything: breads, etc.

Second fill: he put in 2.5 more, I felt the restriction and I noticed more of a full filling when I eat.

My third fill is March 21 so will let you know.

It concerns me that so far I can still eat anything. hope that changes

Be patient young grasshopper! (There's a reference that shows my age!) Trust me, you will know when your fill is right. Although, do not be surprised if your band is fickle - some days you will feel fuller than others. I haven't had a fill for three years and my band still lets me know it's in charge. Good luck!

Chickadee

SPRING TRAINING BRINGS OUT THE CHICKADEES!!!! Hi there!! where have you been?? HOW have you been??????

I signed on today and noticed I haven't signed on in over 2 years, boy the time has flown it just seems like a short while ago.
I had my lapband on Dec 23, 2008. I have noticed lately I am craving carbs, can eat large amounts and really struggling. I did pretty good at first but the last couple of weeks find my sliding. I take bile reflux medicine and had stopped that and actually did better on my weight loss, I think it was from the upset stomach no meds causes, I went back on the meds, doctor's advice, and have struggled every since.

I really need to find a supportive group again.

Thanks for listening.

D

I'm posting because a friend of mine is thinking about getting the lap band surgery. I believe she is about around 200 pounds and she wants to lose around 50 pounds. I tried to encourage her to join Weight Watchers with me as another co-worker of our just lost 67 pounds over a 12 month period.

My friend did go to a meeting and get all the information and Starter Kit but she has not started the process. I told her I was starting Weight Watchers this week and if she wanted to kick it off with me, but she told me no, she was going to go to the meeting and find out about the lapband surgery.

I'm posting this because I'm afraid if she goes through with the LB that she might loss more weight then is healthy for her bone structure and height. We both know of a associate who did the Gastric Bypass surgery and lost too much weight for her height and body frame. She does not look good / healthy. I thought she would have better success controlling how much weight she losses via Weight Watchers. She has said to me several times she does not want to drop under 150 pounds, but she may loss more then that via this procedure.

Are my concerns valid?

Hi Fashion,
If she has only 50 pounds to lose, it's likely that she won't qualify for band surgery. You have to meet a set of criteria which include a pretty high BMI and co-morbidities. The loss with the band is different than with RNY. It's slower - trust me on this! We don't dump and can eat all kinds of food. The amount of weight you lose depends on how well you work the tool.

Good luck to your friend!

Chickadee

p.s. JIFFYPOO! I didn't see your post 'til today. You're right - spring training does bring out the wildlife. Woo hoo! I'm great - still working on getting weight off, but happy and not as fat. :-)

Hi Fashion,
If she has only 50 pounds to lose, it's likely that she won't qualify for band surgery. You have to meet a set of criteria which include a pretty high BMI and co-morbidities. The loss with the band is different than with RNY. It's slower - trust me on this! We don't dump and can eat all kinds of food. The amount of weight you lose depends on how well you work the tool.



Thanks chickadee. She told me last week that she qualified for the surgery. I didn't think she qualified either because I thought you had to be 100 pounds over your BMI range. She clearly only need to lose 50 to 60 just looking at her, but I'm sure her BMI would allow for more weight loss. I think she is 5'6 or 5'7.

Hey. I am going through tests and waiting approval for lap band surgery. Just hoping to find some support. Anyone here that is new to lap band or had lots of experience? Any advice will help. Okay and maybe just someone to chat with.

Hi Truffles and :welcome:

There is lots of surgery support on the main board below... come join us :hug:

Leenie

hi there I have been battling with my wieght for almost 5 years now, to cut it short I am weighing 201lbs, i stand at 5ft 3, I suffer from high blood pressure (since I had my two little ones, 5 yrs total), I lso suffer from High Cholesterol, fluid retention and severe acid reflux. till this day my Blood pressure has been a battle, and only now after 3 yrs of testing different pills, it is lowered, only if i stay on a pill though...... I gain and lose around 4lbs almost every month, I figure this is fluid, I exercise 3 times a week, (I have been slack the last 2 weeks) , and I have turned my eating habits right around, and have introduced my family to a better healthier and yummier eating plan, We buy strictly organic food, and eat greens , veges, and fruits daily, and consume them heartedly.... I love my veges so the diet change hasn't been a struggle..... I just can't lose any weight, and all my doctor wants to do is run me through a number of blood tests, and then leave me with him saying " you need to lose weight".... he doesn't help me at all...... I broke down in his office 2 weeks ago, and he offered me a referal to see a dietician.....

I am on an HMO, through "Exclusive Car". county insurance. I haven't verified if they will cover it, but in your opinion.... would I need to do the dietician thingy first?

I am depressed!!, I hate looking at myself, I feel disgusted.. and I get so down, nothing I wear is comfortable and everything I wear looks ugly on me.

anyway I am not sure what I am asking, but wanted to vent, and I just want some help, I don't trust Pills, and don't want to opt for any diet pills. and I don't think I am a candidate for Bypass surgery right?... so how do I lose weight!!!...

Hi Chilenita,

Every insurance is different in what they want you to do to qualify for surgery, so you'll need to start with them first to see what you need to do.

But IMHO seeing a dietician whether or not your going to have surgery or not is a good thing, it can set you on the right track.

So to answer your last question.... start by seeing the dietician, keep your doctor in the loop and go from there. Its a good start.

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Seeing a dietitian can work in your favor, so I would recommend it. I had surgery in 2007 and still keep the number of the one they gave me to see for my pre-op consultation. It is a life saver!

Quick question for you gals that have been thru it.........My friend had it done BUT she is not following a healthy diet Yes she is keeping her protein up and yes she says she is eating the calories they gave her but she is eating junk. She eats taco bell, chicfila, mcdonalds ect every day and Im not talking salads. I know with gastric bypass you can die from eating those foods is that the same with lapband? I know she isnt doing herself any favors but can she die from that behavior? Im really worried about her. Obviously its pointless if your going to continue to eat nothing but junk.

I couldn't wait until i turned 18 so I could finally get lap band. But now that I am 18 I wanna try losing it the natural way first. I have done it before so I KNOW I can do it again. I also think insurance wouldn't cover it for some reason.

Quick question for you gals that have been thru it.........My friend had it done BUT she is not following a healthy diet Yes she is keeping her protein up and yes she says she is eating the calories they gave her but she is eating junk. She eats taco bell, chicfila, mcdonalds ect every day and Im not talking salads. I know with gastric bypass you can die from eating those foods is that the same with lapband? I know she isnt doing herself any favors but can she die from that behavior? Im really worried about her. Obviously its pointless if your going to continue to eat nothing but junk.

I will admit though I've cheated with fast food a few times the last couple of years, I haven't died from it (obviously). But a steady diet of it will defeat the purpose of the lap band, not to mention the stuck episodes some of these foods could cause. I know a few people who have actually been nauseated and regurgitated fast food once they have been banded.

Even some of the fast food salads can be defeating, by the way. This is why I do most of my preparations at home.

Quick question for you gals that have been thru it.........My friend had it done BUT she is not following a healthy diet Yes she is keeping her protein up and yes she says she is eating the calories they gave her but she is eating junk. She eats taco bell, chicfila, mcdonalds ect every day and Im not talking salads. I know with gastric bypass you can die from eating those foods is that the same with lapband? I know she isnt doing herself any favors but can she die from that behavior? Im really worried about her. Obviously its pointless if your going to continue to eat nothing but junk.

No she won't die from fast food because of her surgery, but like you said, its just not healthy. I would think anyone could eventually die from eating that frankinfood :shrug: its gotta catch up to you sooner or later.

I do know junk food goes down alot easier with the band then eating clean... its really a shame that it does :(

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Let me clarify I didnt think she would die from occassional fast food but Im talking she was a week after surgery and already skipped the diet phases and went straight back to eating out daily.
I just wasnt sure if complications were at all like GB I know The LP is a lot different so was just curious. I know a man who literally died from eating Mcdonalds soon after his GB surgery.
Thanks for your insight. Good luck on your journeys stay healthy!!

oh dear. my first reaction was 'here we go again,' with someone who goes through ALL THIS and seems to be determined to make no changes.

but it's more than this. you see, a couple of years ago, i ran across a man who weighed more than 450 at surgery, and had JUST been cleared to return to work. His first day back to work - he PROUDLY reported - he ate an entire dunkin donut. HE WAS HAPPY about that!!!!

see - it's all about ATTITUDE - if people - like your friend, Looking, and that man - go into any of the surgeries with the goal of figuring out how to EAT AROUND it, they're pretty much guaranteed to fail. But if we go into this determined to make it work, and to follow directions [which really come down to a healthy way of eating and exercising, with added vitamins and medical checkups], we'll be OK.

ATTITUDE, darlin - people have to WANT to make this work more than they want a doughnut or fast food.

Wow, I had no clue she was only one week out.... eating solid food (junk or not) one week after surgery IS dangerous, most doctors will either have you on a liquid diet or a very soft mushy (pudding like) diet. I wonder what kind of pre-op dietary info she got (if she got any at all). Poor dear. She can probably eat a lot of food at this stage because she has no restriction. Hopefully once she starts getting her fills she'll stop and think about what she is doing.... hopefully!

I've been hearing a lot lately that doctors or is it insurance companies are not sending folks to dieticans before surgery :(

:hug:

If doctors aren't sending people to dietitians for pre-op consultations, they would be doing a disservice to the patient IMO. Luckily for me, my own surgeon sent me to one, along with me having to have documentation of at least six months of weight loss attempts (I had far more than that LOL!). I seriously think this is very important, because a lot of pre-op patients have little or NO idea what being banded would involve, especially after the first weeks of surgery, where it is VERY critical instructions should be followed to the letter.

Hello folks: Today I start a month long liquid diet! UGHHH! I know I have to but I dont know how I am going to do it. Any suggestions? This is my pre op diet before surgery and i have to do it for 4 weeks :( well I know in the end it will all work out.

:welcome: NJbipolarkub1978

Congrats on getting started with your liquid diet :bravo: the only suggestion I have is to follow your doctors instruction and remember its not forever. Its not easy but its well worth it. I believe by doing this your doctor is preparing you for surgery so think happy thoughts and a positive attitude will get you through this.

YOU CAN DO IT !!!!! BELIEVE :)

Leenie

:dizzy:Well folks - its offical I HAVE A DATE! Well, a date for surgery that is :) July 7th 2009 at 7:30am at Valley Hospital in NJ. Dr. Beth Schrope of Columbia Presbyterian Weight Loss Surgery will be doing the slicing and dicing. I am very exciting and nervous all at the same time.

NOW! for the issue of the pre-op diet! I was told to do the diet for 4 weeks (2 which were optional and recommended and 2 which are non neg.) Some days I do well, some I slip, Any advice for me? I mean if I cant even do this now, can I do it once I have the band in me. That scares me :( Well off to have a protein shake - God Bless! Albert

I am working on having lapband surgery in about 6 months and I have to lose some weight first to proof to my insurance I can do this and I want to do this. I told my family and they are all supportive of me.:carrot:

I am working on having lapband surgery in about 6 months and I have to lose some weight first to proof to my insurance I can do this and I want to do this. I told my family and they are all supportive of me.:carrot:


Fantastic !!

hi, im new on here, i had my band fitted 2 and half weeks ago, im on pureed foods at the moment, i went for my 2 week check, i was worried id damaged the band cos of the disscomfort i was in, getting better day by day!! dr said everything was fine! it is still uncomfortable at the port scar, it helps a lot looking on here....thanks jane

Welcome to Band-Land Jane :welcome:

Glad your getting better day by day :) We are supposed to take it slow for the first 6 weeks so be gentle with yourself and don't exercise until the doctor says its ok. Heal inside first, the rest will come later.

Leenie

thanx leenie
ive been eating puree for 5 days now, ive been having 200gms per meal 3 times a day, ive been having half a weight watchers meal!! which i was advised to do by a dietision, but on another piece of paper it says i shoud have only 125gms per meal!!!!!!!!!, i havnt felt sick or anything, hope that doesnt meen ive stretched it....lol!! ive got 4 stone to lose, ive lost 1 stone, so im happy with that, its still hard work cooking for the family, looking foreward to eating proper food!! ive picked up a few tips from here, its put my mind at rest.............thanx again......jane

Hi Jane,

At this point because you have no fills, you have not stretched the pouch (you are swollen inside) ...the better you feel the more you'll be able to eat so don't worry. Just remember the band does not work unless you have restriction (fills) After my surgery (8 weeks) I could eat a huge amount (I was losing) and my doctor reminded me that I had no fill so yes, I could eat like before surgery. Once I started going for my fills.. thats when I was eating less and less. But remember it can take several fills before you are at that point. Slow is good !!!

Congrats on the 1 stone loss.. yeah YOU !!!

hi leenie
thanx for that, ive got to go for my 1st fill in 3 weeks monday coming, i can feel myself feeling more hungry as my stomach is getting better!! im looking forward to get started, i feel im just prepairing for the band to work...thanx again!! x

hi leenie
im having my 1st fill in 3 wks, i cant imagin wot it feels like!! lol, does it hurt?? i cant wait realy! im begining to feel hungry now im coming to the end of my 2wk pureed food, so its hard work at the minute, all this hard work and willpower will pay off!!...the dietision seems to think that i am imagining the fact that i feel hungry, its all in the mind, that is probably right!!haha! xx

Hi Jane,

Are you having the fill done under fluro? thats the machine that can locate your port. I did not have it done under fluro, my doc just felt around and got it w/no problem. IMHO it does not hurt, its a strange feeling but to me, it doesn't hurt.. and I'm a baby. They can give you something to numb the area but to me it doesn't make sense.. that needle will prob hurt more LOL. If your doc is experienced then you should have 0 problems.

You may not notice any difference the first few fills with the amount of food you are eating... it takes time to get the right amount so don't panic, it'll happen. After a fill your doctor will probably want you to be on a liquid diet for a day.. then go reallly slow when you start to eat b/c you'll need to test out the new fill. I think I felt a difference after my 3rd fill. Also it depends on the size of the band you have.. the bigger band the more they will fill it. Some people have a 4cc (me) and some have either 10 or 11 cc. My doc would only fill it .25 cc per visit... every doc is different btw.

Right now, don't worry about weight loss, just concentrate on healing inside, so if your hungry, eat.

Let us know how you make out.. ok.

hi leenie
i havnt got a clue wot he will do, i didnt ask!! lol, ive got a needle thing he gave me to bring with me, i think he will probably feel for it...ill let you know how i get on, i am getting a bit hungry now but im managing to keep to a diet!, my stomach is a lot better now i can wear jeans again..take care jane

hi all
somthing awfull happened lst nite!! lol, i ate some pork from a rib, it got stuck somewhere, i couldnt drink anything, it realy hurt!! this went on for about 1 hour, i was sick a few times and the meat came up with white foam, gradualy it eased off..is this normal, i think i may have swallowed it to quik, i wont be doing that again, in a hurry!!! hope someone can enlighten me....thanx :-)

Yes, that is normal. Its called getting "STUCK." Best thing to do is take baby spoon bites and chew chew chew chew. Eat as slow as you can and make sure when your ready to swallow your food its mush.

I think the first time I got stuck was about 2 years after surgery, I was so afraid that I made sure everything was like babyfood before I swallowed it.

Be careful with meats and breads...they can be the toughest. Also give yourself time inbetween bites to make sure your not overloading yourself. What ever you do, do not drink with your meals or right after, give yourself an hour after you eat and then drink. If I drink with my meals or right after... yowzers.... its not pretty LOL.

Its really not as bad as it sounds, you just need to learn what you can tollerate and what you can't.

Hang in there !! :hug:

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yeh ive learnt that it takes time to know what you can eat and how to eat it, i havnt told many people ive had it done so its a bit awkward, most just think im on a diet, wich is nothing unusuall!!...like you said, since the meat got stuck ive made sure its well chewed like mush, ive learnt the hard way, it was horrible, lol.
thanx for your reasurance, im enjoying doing it and i feel so much better for having it done, im going on holiday to thailand in 4 wks!! that should be fun, i havnt done rice or pastas yet!!! hehe!!
thanx again

Oh enjoy your vacation. Watch the rice and pasta, go really slow, as rice can ball up inside. I have to be careful with sticky rice as well as pastas.

I'm glad your enjoying this.. Even though I'm not at goal, I don't regret it one bit. :)

hiya, im nearly to the end of my six weeks since ive had my band fitted, cant wait for my 1st fill, im getting realy hungry now!! lol! im being realy good as if i was on a diet, the difference is you cannot eat the way you did pre-op, well i cant!! the rewarding thing is ive gone down a dress size already!! woop woop!! if anyone had a band fitted just for a quik fix, you wouldnt do it, you have got to be 100% dedicated, im still enjoying it.....jane xxx

Thats wonderful Jane :hug: good luck with your first fill.. let us know how you did.

hi leenie
ive had it done, ive been bringing up flemmy stuff and hurts in my chest since, its been 3hrs now and still feels uncomfortable...ive got to have soup for 3 days then same with puree then mashed!!, hopefully it will do soon, he put, 0.5 i think! lol, i did take a big glug of water after i think thats what did it, i didnt realise its more or less the same as when you first have it done.
i think i should have had it done on an empty stomach, is that right?? ive lost 10kg.., my bmi is 34 now.
is it normal for it to feel like that after your first fill? take care. jane

Yes, they do say to have the fill on an empty stomach. My doc tells me no food for 2 days (only liquids) after each fill. Please do what ever they say, even with water, sip sip sip, never gulp (anything). Its all about learning Jane, so go slow.. very slow. You'll be ok. If for some reason you can not get liquids down notify your doctor immediately or you'll dehydrate and wind up in the hospital. Remember your swollen inside after each fill (just like after surgery) thats why they want you to take it easy.

You should be fine.

well ive jujst got back from a&e..hed put 4.5 in, not 0.5, ive had some taken out ive got 2 left in thier!! god it was such a relief, obviously to much for me ay? my saliver was getting stuck...not good, i couldnt swallow, i was getting panicky..well its all sorted now ''i hope'' lol.
take care
jane...thanx

You must have a big band and yes, 4.5 is A LOT to put in for a first visit, usually they only go .25 (your band is prob 11 cc or 10 cc). ... slow is good, and I'm glad your feeling better. For future fills, stay at his office for a few minutes to make sure you can swallow a cup of water (sipping of course).

Take it easy the next few days.

Hard to believe, isn't it, that we've pretty much filled up 3 threads with lapband issues!

The other one was getting too long, and old, so, folks, here's a whole new one for you to discuss your special issues and questions.

Enjoy!:hug: :carrot:


Hi,
I'm trying to get on to the format in here for replying to messages. I hope this is okay. Feel free to correct me, if it's not!

In any case, I had a band installed five years ago. I had it in for six months and lost seventy pounds. That was heavenly! :) Then I really ran into problems with tight restriction. Long story short...I had to get the band removed. It took awhile but I put back all the weight I had lost. :stress:

It was a horrible experience but I knew the band could work for others because I had seen it happen. I don't think my band was installed properly and of course it cost me fifteen grand!! Again...long story short, I now have all sorts of health issues, and want to try another band, and another surgeon. Went for a consult and he can install a different band at the end of October if I say it's a go.

The thing is I am scared to go ahead again. I had adhesions before with the first band which they found out when I had it removed. I couldn't eat or drink much at all at the end.

I know there are draw backs to the band, but on the positive side I remember the good things: the endless obsession with food was gone. I didn't have to worry about putting on weight over Christmas. I was able to get out of the plus sized stores, and enjoy buying some nice clothes. Joint pain and high blood sugar went down the tubes. SO...even though it's no walk in the park being banded, I know there are positives too!

Has anyone else here had a SECOND band put in due to complications with the first band? If so, were you happy you went forward with the second one? I have a hundred and twenty pounds to lose. Of course I keep telling myself I can do it with diet and don't need to be banded. Yeah, sure. :)

Thanks for any input!

Hi lookin at losin and :welcome:

I do know a few ladies who have had it redone due to different issues and are doing very well with it. IMHO, you've made it through round 1, you know whats in store, you know what you have to do.... so if you think you can do it again... I say go for it !!! No one here can really tell you not to because that is a decision that should be made between you and your doctor.

I think your wise to ask around for opinions, it certainly is good to know what others have gone through.

Good luck and we'd love to see more of you (or is that less of you ;) ) on the main threads here at WLS.

:hug:

Leenie

Good Afternoon Everybody!!!
I haven't been on here in awhile...Sorry :) I will try to keep it up though....
I have AWESOME news!!!! I found out yesterday that my insurance approved my Lapband Surgery!!!!! I am SUPER Excited!!!! I have a whole list of pre op testing i am doing on Thursday the 5th then i will have my pre op appt. with the doc and everybody else involved on Dec. 3rd. After that i will be on a liquid diet until Dec. 18th Which is the BIG day!!!! I am SOOOOO EXCITED!!! I have been Blessed In so many Ways!!!!!!! I am getting my own place and got a sweet deal on a couch and now i am having SURGERY!!!! YEAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Congratulations !! Come join us in the threads below, I'm sure the ladies would love to get to know you.... stop in and introduce yourself :hug:

Man...today was a looooooong day...I had did all of my pre op medical stuff...ekg, upper GI, chest xray, pulmonary function test, ultrasound stuff, blood work and when it was all said and done i had not eaten or drank anything for 16 hours....I am sooooo ready for bed right now lol....BUT i am still SUPER excited!!! I can't wait!!!! I hope the time goes by really fast....lol Goodnight Ladies!!