worried about sister
ok, well I am not really sure how to ask this so I'll try my best.
I am worried about my sister. She is overweight. She is 5'4, and a size 18/19. I love her dearly! She doesn't seem to want to do much about it. However, when she was going to the gym with me she seemed to have loved it! I have since moved away from home, and she has stopped going. She does not eat healthy at all, but she does like healthy food. My mom insists on buying her the unhealthy stuff cuz my sister gets kind of snippy when my mom tries to buy healthy versions...my sister just isn't very adverturous or willing to try new things. She likes what she likes and what she is comfortable with...
She doesn't go out much, she has not been to the doctors for a very very long time, i think something like 10 years.
She never complians about her weight and when we go shopping she indicates that she is very aware of her size...
Sometimes she seems happy to be that way she is, but then sometimes she just seems soo unhappy.
I am worried about her health, I have worried about it ever since I was diagnosed with cancer 10 years ago. I have had health problems and have always been active, but yet I still got sick. I really don't want her to have to go through i have....
what can i do? She gets defensive if anyone mentions anything about her weight, or eating habits (rightfully so, I hated it too). I try to talk to her in a round about way, I never am harsh... I am just so worried!
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