I know what you mean. i am so glad to have all these wonderful people to compare my notes with their notes. to see what they are doing right or wrong and decide what i am doing right or wrong. someone to tell me not to get discouraged if it eat candy one day, or don't get any excersize in one night. just so great to have people to talk to and read about how they have succeeded. that tells me, if they succeeded, then I can to!! Thanks to everyone here who shares your wealth of learned trials.