It's a really common concern that you have about losing all the weight only to be left with a bunch of skin. For me I had to look really hard at why I am doing this. Ok to look better is one reason, but primarily the main reason I want to lose weight is to have a long and happy healthy life, especially old age. I want to be able to travel, to have some fun, and to not be weighed down (pardon the pun) by a load of unnecessary fat.
Ok the loose skin is an issue, and let me be the first to direct you to this great thread on
loose skin
I too have a lot to lose, and am half way. I have done weight training from the beginning, and though the jury is still out, am convinced this is helping my thighs and arms replacing some of the fat with muscle. I get loads of complements on my arms and shoulders
Only the Good Lord or a fine plastic surgeon will be able to save my stomach!!! So once I get to goal I will invest in the best girdle knickers I can afford!!!!
Not only will I never have the sort of money a good plastic surgeon will cost, I am not putting myself through serious surgery just so I can look good in a bikini. 5 hours in theatre, potentially 2 weeks recovery in hospital, and then 6 - 8 weeks bed rest, for what essentially is a cosmetic procedure?? Not for me.
I did used to think I would go down that path, but after having researched it, I don't think I will resort to cosmetic surgery. It's not everyone's choice and I would never judge anyone who took that route, but it isn't for me.
Just focus on the plusses of losing weight, do what you can to avoid the loose skin issues, and accept that years of morbid obesity is bound to have left it's toll, just like the tracks on the arms of a reformed heroin addict, you and I will have a permanent reminder of just how close we came to losing our lives because of our lifestyles.
edited: I should have known we'd all post at the same time!!!! Meg and I have a habit of posting similar things at the same time!!!! She's taught me well!!!!