Rakkoon, I just had to say that our measurments are exactly the same! My arms are 1 inch larger than yours, but other than that we're identical.
Also, I'm going through the same thing. I adding in weights and got serious about the exercise about a month and a half ago, and the scale is stuck lately. I've seen lost inches but no lost pounds. I know it has to do with water weight though, as I fluctuate something fierce. I'm thinking it could be the exercise combined with the heat, but who knows? I usually only have a rest day once a week so I know I'm carrying aorund some extra water from all of that activity.
Anyway, it can be frustrating, but I am loving the changes I'm seeing in my body and I feel strong, so I'm ignoring the scale for now. It'll catch up when my body is more stable, I'm sure. If you're eating 1300 calories and breastfeeding regularly, you might even have to eat a bit more. Breastfeeding.com says it takes an extra 400-800 calories daily.