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Old 11-11-2004, 12:25 AM   #1  
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Tammy ... my hubby discovered he was diabetic several years ago. He started out trying to control his by just watching what he ate, too. But he soon had to start taking a pill every day. He doesn't have to take the insulin shots, though ... thank goodness for that! He does pretty good by watching his carbs and taking a pill. Carbs are the killers. Most people think it's sugar but carbs are a lot worse than sugar.

I'm really having a time staying the same weight. Those darn scales just don't want to participate at all. All my life I have had to fight to lose every pound and now I find I'm having just the opposite problem. This is just the weirdest thing! I just don't want to have to deal with this! I was enjoying eating when I was hungry and not worrying about food for the first time in my life ... now I'm having to worry about it again ... only in the other respective. Used to: I would be out for the day - eat lunch - worry ... I'm going to gain weight. Now: I was out today - didn't have time to eat lunch - worried ... I'm going to lose another pound.

Maybe some people are just born to worry about their weight one way or the other!
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Old 11-11-2004, 12:41 AM   #2  
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THIS WILL BE US SOON! (I'm almost there already!)


An elderly couple had dinner at another elderly couple's house
and, after eating, the wives left the table and went into the
kitchen.

The two elderly gentlemen were talking, and one says: "Last night we went out to a new restaurant, and it was really great. I would recommend it very highly."

The other man says: "What's the name of the restaurant?"

The first man knits his brow in obvious concentration, and finally
says to his companion: "Aahh, what is the name of that red flower you give to someone you love?"

His friend replies: "A carnation?"

"No, no. The other one, " the man says.

His friend offers another suggestion: "The Poppy?"

"Nahhhh," growls the man. "You know - the one that is red and has thorns."

His friend says: "Do you mean a rose?"

"Yes! Thank You!" The first man says. He than turns toward the
kitchen and yells: "Rose, what's the name of that restaurant we went to last night?"
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Old 11-11-2004, 07:40 AM   #3  
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Good joke Meme!!! I went out to dinner with teachers I used to work with-one has breast cancer-one just became a widow, one just found out she was diabetic, Yikes, we are getting old-oh yeah, another went to the restaurant and couldn/t find us. Going to meet Auntie this am. or breakfast!!! Bye Mima
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I gained 2 lbs while I have been sitting on my duff.. Makes me so mad.. Ofcourse, I have eat out much too much this month..
I am going to ask you great gals to put my sister back on your prayer list. Please, until she gets her pacemaker and defibulater. She is not doing so good..There are some days worse than others and I am worried about her..
Our brother goes back to AZ, this coming Monday. I am going to miss him.. We are all getting older and have more ailments as the years go by. We never know what may happen.
Meme- I wish it was that easy for me to lose weight...
Mima- I went with my sil and had a pedicure and foot massage. The bottom of my right foot has been hurting ever since..
Hello everybody...Joanne
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Old 11-11-2004, 12:06 PM   #5  
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Well ... the scale was up a pound this morning. Of course, it's raining and windy and I'm swollen. But at least maybe hubby will get off my back. We to IHOP after church last night and I got the country omelet. A 3 egg omelet with ham, cheese and hash browns and 3 pancakes. Couldn't eat it all but I tried. I was stuffed. I was moaning and groaning afterward. I told him I just couldn't do that ... I was miserable. He said if I would just go to the Dr. and make sure that I wasn't losing weight because something was wrong he'd stop bugging me to eat. But if I do that they'll make me go through a bunch of tests, etc. and spend a bunch of money for nothing. I feel fine (except for the arthritis/fibro junk and the anemia ... which I've had forever and my foot & ankle of course!) ... I'm not passing blood or anything unusual ... I have no other symptoms out of the ordinary. I've told my Rheumatologist TWICE that I'm losing. He weighs me every time I go, which is every 3 months. I'm just not going to worry about it any more! I'm going to continue to eat when I'm hungry and stop when I'm full. I refuse to stuff myself because somebody else thinks I should be eating. I did that the first 16 years of my life. Last night at IHOP ... my husband was saying I left too much on my plate and my friend's husband was fussing because their son left almost all his food on his plate and he was telling the kid (age 10), don't you know their are children all over the world who are starving ... and look at the food you are leaving on your plate. What do you think we should do with all that food. I leaned over to my friend and whispered, "Pack it up and mail it to them, it's those dam little Chinese kids fault that I was overweight most of my life!" That's all I heard growing up. I'm going to tell him tonight that he's not my parent and that I don't need parental control anymore. Let it BE!

I need feedback guys! HELP!!!
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My son used to say that to me when I told him about starving children-send them a sandwich. Meme-maybe you should go to your regular doctor and then everyone will keep quiet, We had to go to a Chinese restaurant-after dinner-because brad left his cell phone in the cooler where he was working the night before. They insisted we have something to eat-chicken fingers and they are still in my tummy. WE are getting another storm tonight, And tomorrow we are going to a brunch for my friend's 60th birthday. Should be fun. And Sunday I am going to see my stepgrandaughter. I hope Eleni gets her pacemaker soon, Mima
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Old 11-12-2004, 11:03 AM   #7  
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Mima ... that's exactly what I don't want to do because he's the one I feel will make me go through all the tests needlessly. Every time I have anything little thing wrong with me, he's the one who sends me to a specialist or over to the hospital for a thousand dollars worth of tests. Used to, at least once a year when my blood would drop really low, he'd insist I do one of those 'poop' tests and send it off to see if I was bleeding internally. I tried for years to convince him that I was just anemic and had been since I was a baby but he still insisted on those stupid tests. We did about 10 years of those and a blood specialist and now he finally believes me. He drives me nuts.

Last night I spent over an hour looking up unexplained weightloss on the internet. Some of the reasons were: Pancreatic Cancer, Stomach Cancer, Abnormal Thyroid, Lung Cancer. I don't have ANY of the other symptoms of these except the thyroid (and it's excessive weight anyway) and I've been checked for that several times ... it's borderline. Nobody will listen to me when I tell them about the thyroid ... so there you go!
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Old 11-12-2004, 09:08 PM   #8  
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Meme, that joke was great!! Over the summer I kept losing weight too. It didn't matter how much I ate, I lost. Since school has started, I haven't lost any more. Haven't gained either, so that's a good thing. It is frustrating for you not knowing why you are losing. I can understand that you don't want to go through all of the testing. BUT if there could be something wrong, you need to find out now, not later. PLEASE? I lost one of my best friends in Sept. because she wouldn't go get things checked out. I don't want to lose anyone else. I know I haven't been posting here long, but I feel like I'm getting to know you all. And Meme, we're almost neighbors. lol Ohio and Tenn. are kind of close. right????
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Old 11-13-2004, 12:51 AM   #9  
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Tammy ... you and Candice and I need to find a middle point and get together sometime (she's in MO). Maybe we can do that next summer. Woudn't that be neat? Just take off one weekend and spend one night in a hotel ... have dinner together and have a gabfest!

Has anyone ever heard of POTS? (Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome) Excessive heart rate increments upon upright posture. A person with POTS will experience heart rates that increase 30 beats or more per minute upon standing and/or increase to 120 beats or more per minute upon standing. Remember me telling you about how my heart rate got up to 120 something just from calling the dog when they tried to change my heart medicine last year? Well, seems that's not the only symptom of POTS. Listen up:
*Tachycardia (Grubb, 2000)
*Lightheadedness (Grubb, 2000)
*Dizziness (Grubb, 2000)
*Palpitations (Grubb, 2000)
*Exercise intolerance (Grubb, 2000)
*Blurred Vision (Grubb, 2000)
Chest discomfort and/or pain (Grubb, 2000)
Clamminess (Grubb, 2000)
*Fainting or near fainting (Grubb, 2000)
Anxiety (Grubb, 2000)
Flushing (Grubb, 2000)
*Fatigue (Grubb, 2000) (which can be disabling)
*Headache/migraine (Grubb, 2000)
*Shortness of breath (Grubb, 2000)
Postprandial hypotension (Grubb, 2000) (low blood pressure after meals)
*Blood pooling in limbs (Grubb, 2000) (can make legs feel heavy and appear mottled and purple in color)
*Intolerance to heat (Grubb & Karas, 1999)
*Feeling cold all over (Grubb & Karas, 1999)
Low blood pressure upon standing (Grubb, Kosinski, Boehm & Kip, 1997) (Some physicians feel orthostatic hypotension is a separate entity from POTS)
Bloating after meals (Grubb et al., 1997)
*Cognitive impairment (Grubb et al., 1997) (may include difficulties with concentration, brain fog, memory and/or word recall)
Delayed gastric emptying (Grubb et al., 1997)
*Polyuria (Jacob & Biaggioni, 1999) (excessive urination)
*Diarrhea (Jacob & Biaggioni, 1999) (sometimes with alternating constipation)
Narrowing of upright pulse pressure (Jacob & Biaggioni, 1999)
Tremulousness (Low, Opffer-Gehrking, Textor, Benarroch, Shen, Schondorf, Suarez & Rummans, 1995)
Tunnel vision (Low et al.)
*Sleep disorders (Low et al.) (can cause unrefreshing sleep and an increased need for sleep)
*Cold hands (Low et al.) (and often feet & nose)
*Loss of sweating (Low et al.)
*Hypovolemia (Low et al.) (low blood volume)
*Chills (Low et al.)
High blood pressure (Low et al.)
Hyperventilation (Low et al.)
Numbness or tingling sensations (Low et al.)
*Generalized weakness (Low et al.)
Reduced pulse pressure upon standing (Low et al.)
*Low back pain (Mathias, 2000)
*Aching neck and shoulders (Mathias, 2000)
Excessive sweating (Robertson, 2000)
Nausea (Robertson, 2000)
*Noise sensitivity (Stewart, 2001)
*Light Sensitivity (Stewart, 2001)
*Disequilibrium (Sandroni, Opfer-Gehrking, McPhee & Low, 19
*Arrhythmias (irregular heart beats)
*Chemical sensitivities (May have multiple chemical sensitivity and can be very sensitive to medications - may only need small doses)
*Easily over-stimulated
*Feeling full quickly
*Feeling "wired"
*Food allergies/sensitivities (some foods seem to make symptoms worse)
Hyperreflexia
Irregular menstrual cycles
*Loss of appetite
*Loss of sex drive
*Muscle aches and/or joint pains
Swollen nodules/lymph nodes
*Polydipsia (excessive thirst)
Pupil abnormalities
*Weight loss or gain
*Feeling detached from surroundings
*Restless leg syndrome

I have or sometimes have all the symptoms I've marked with the asterisk ... THAT'S A LOT!!! And notice that Loss of appetite and Weight loss or gain are two of the symptoms! Tachycardia is simply a rapid heart beat. Mine has been rapid for most of my life. I can remember it beating so fast when I would walk home from school, I would have to sit down on the curb and wait for it to slow down so I could walk the rest of the way home. I would get so weak I couldn't even GET home for a while. I've been on Inderal for over 30 years because of it. My dad and my grandfather both died from heart failure. I have 40 out of 49 symptoms of POTS ... sounds to me like a winner!
I read a bunch of case histories of other people who has this and none of them have the same story. All their symptoms came at different times and they all seem to have discovered they had POTS in a different way. Some had virual infections, some had heart attacks, some had neck injuries or auto accidents some just went through a divorce or anxiety attack. Weird. So, I'm wondering, I KNOW I have rapid heart beat ... on meds for that ... could it be that I have POTS and something ... like maybe that medicine I took last spring that made me so sick ... have triggered the weight loss?

(Anyone else with the above symptoms can find information on POTS at the link below.)

http://www.potsplace.com/index.html
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Old 11-13-2004, 06:06 AM   #10  
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I am sure that could cause weight loss-lack of sleep does too. Candice lives in Illinois-that;s what the forum says. I think we all should get together in Florida!!!!!That's where I met Joanne last year. It was so great ! Going to a 60th birthday brunch today. Should be fun. Going to RI tomorrow to see my stepgranddaughter. Haven't seen her in a year. 2 more weeks!!! And it's snowing again but not bad!! Have a good weekend everyone. Mima
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Cute joke Meme! Hey all those symptoms sounds like fibro! Why don't you give it another few weeks and see if you are still losing and then go for tests? Stress can cause you to lsoe weight too...DH can drop 20 pounds in a month and then put it all back on in another month!

Mima..you are right I am in Il. I would never make the tirp to Florida, too far for me.

Tammy.my son put in to do his medical rotations in Ohio, we don't where yet though.

Joanne....I'm with you on the gaining 2 pounds, but I have not been sitting around...or eating over pts. I was blaming on my IBS and bloating....just get so plugged up.

Happy..I need your new address to update my files please You ok?

Our meal went well and our son gave us all an adjustment, now I hurt!

Made a new cookie recipe but did not eat to many yet...........
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Old 11-13-2004, 12:49 PM   #12  
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Oops ... I knew that ... have your address. It's another internet friend I talk to that lives in MO ... already met her. She's been to my house for dinner. Sorry. See ... Cognitive impairment!
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Old 11-13-2004, 04:37 PM   #13  
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LOL I'm glad that I'm not the only one that gets a little confused! Some friends that I met in Diettalk years ago have gotten together the past 3 years. One year in Indianapolis, and the next 2 years we've gone to Chicago. We're from Ohio (me!!), Indiana, North Carolina, Colorado, Michigan, and New Jersey. We have a great time.

Pretty lazy day today. I like that.

Meme, I can relate to many of those symptoms too.
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What a great day yesterday!! We went to my friend's 60th surprise brunch at the Senior Center. She is so loved by everyone-people got up and told funny stories about her, I was in stitches, Then we went to Brad's church who had a Fair yesterday and I got 3 things at the auction. Came home, rested, ate a sandwich, and when to see the new movies with Pierce Brosnan and Woody Harrelson-funny and light. Today I am going to Woonsocket to see my step-grandaughter. Haven't had a relaxing weekend in a while. Hope everyone else relaxes too. Mima
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Hi, Ladies! Sorry to be missing so long. Glad you're doing better, Joanne and will pray for Eleni too.

Still struggling. Endoscopy showed nothing really wrong (thank goodness) in stomach, esophagus besides GERD. Don't know where we go from here yet. DH's last bloodwork showed kidneys worsening and dialysis rearing its ugly head possibly soon. But he's not giving up on staying off it, is eating practically nothing (it seems to me) to get numbers back in line. Increased Procrit shots as well.

Will be doing Thanksgiving here but have told all I will need a lot of help. Getting lots of promises. We'll see. Starting to think of Christmas.

Off to church, then out to eat. Maybe Christmas cards and back reading this afternoon. We're not planning to go to FL for two months this year but may take a shorter trip down if things are going well enough.

Hi, Tammy.
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