100 lb. Club - People! geeesh!

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10-02-2013, 11:21 AM
Ok, so I run into someone I hadn't seen in a long time. Here's the convo:

Her: wow look at you! you've lost so much weight! you were SO FAT!!!!
Me: uhh yah I lost quite a bit
Her: YOU WERE SOOO GIGANTIC!!!! SOOOOO FAT!!!!!! I was sure you would have died by now because you were SO ENORMOUS
Me: ummmm nice chatting go fkk yourself

hahahah WHY do people think it's ok to say that hahahah SO obnoxious, you know that was STILL ME right????

hahah just reaffirms my life philosophy that people are horrible ;)

10-02-2013, 11:28 AM
How nice of them to remind you why you haven't talked to them in a long time, lol.

10-02-2013, 11:31 AM
haha good one Missy!

10-02-2013, 11:37 AM
Wow... I wouldn't even know what to say in that situation... I'd probably just be like.. "Okay then.."

10-02-2013, 11:42 AM
Wow... nice. I probably would have made a comment like "yeah, I've lost a lot of weight, too bad change isn't for everyone".

10-02-2013, 11:50 AM
Oh, I hear 'ya. There are just some people who have no mouth filter; i.e., there's something missing in their upbringing or else they're just dumb. I was at the gym yesterday, and a friend asked how my diet was going. I told her fine -- still losing slowly. She said that she could really see it everywhere but my butt which was still huge. The poor woman is so socially inept that she thinks she gave me a compliment. I just laughed at her and kept on doing the elliptical because nothing I say is going to turn her into a thoughtful person.

10-02-2013, 11:53 AM
i hate it when people think it is their birthright to make these sort of comments and give advice. I had a new neighbor move in recently. On our first meeting , the very first...after we had gotten chit chatting for about 5 mins, she asks about local gyms and then proceeds to give me a big lecture as to why i shud go to the gym and lose weight, along with a couple of scary examples of stuff happening to people becos of their weight issues. C'mon, u do not have any idea as to wht i do or don't do for any of my so called 'issues'....who r u to comment!!!

btw...ur conversation sounds funny now but i know how u must hv felt. but as u said..people..!!!

10-02-2013, 12:00 PM
hahah totally a nice reminder as to why you have not seen them for so long!

I probably would have said something like "Oh wow, I am surprised you have not had your *** kicked, you are SO obnoxious"

10-02-2013, 01:18 PM
What?!! I'm sorry. Some people are ignorant pukes.

10-02-2013, 01:34 PM
"Wow, you're right! And you know what? I was ugly and stupid too! Good thing I lost all that weight so you can think I'm actually a decent person now!"


10-03-2013, 12:14 AM
how obnoxious....people really can just be so awful and class-less.

10-03-2013, 12:33 AM
I woulda said something along the lines of "Yeah I was, too bad you're still a massive b****!" lol

10-03-2013, 10:56 AM
Wow....I'm usually quick to give a person the benefit of the doubt when they make a rude or insensitive comment, but this person is clearly just stupid.

10-03-2013, 11:08 AM
I love those people, it's a reminder to be grateful that I wasn't born stupid, just fat.

10-04-2013, 02:49 AM
Wtf?!?! That's beyond rude!

10-04-2013, 07:32 AM
Wow... nice. I probably would have made a comment like "yeah, I've lost a lot of weight, too bad change isn't for everyone".

:joker: this!

10-04-2013, 09:30 AM
Those are the kind of comments that make me wish I had no filter and the ability to think fast enough on the spot to throw it right back at them. My idea of the perfect response...well, I see you haven't changed at all. You're still an insensitive moron and you can't fix stupid! I can't believe you're still SO stupid! :dizzy: But, I could never say it or even think of it until they were already gone. Like Meg Ryan's character in You've Got Mail.

10-04-2013, 10:15 AM
There was someone on this site who used to tell people,

"Oh dear, do you realize you said that out loud? You must be so embarrassed that you just said that out loud!"

10-04-2013, 10:41 AM
Really??! Crazy... :hug:

10-06-2013, 11:17 AM
So many thoughts on this:

* Yes, I've fixed my weight problem, but apparently they're right about not being able to "fix stupid!"
* Hello! It's ME you're talking about! I can hear you!
* I'm grateful every day that I only had to deal with being overweight because I was apparently able to successfully solve that problem. May I ask you what it's like to have to deal with being stupid, unfeeling, tactless, and inappropriate on a daily basis? (Said, if possible, in a very serious tone with a perfectly straight face.)

There is not much that surprises me anymore. I'm sorry it was at your expense, but thanks for the laugh (or is "gasp" a better word?)


10-06-2013, 12:18 PM
How old was this person? This sounds like something one of my daughters would have said when they were 5 or 6 years old. We tend to learn tact as we get older. Clearly, this is a very immature person.

10-07-2013, 12:54 AM
ha Rhonda, she's no kid - my age, a little older maybe. I'm a jokester, so of course I said "just glad they didn't have to take the side of my house off to get me out" She kind of gave a nervous laugh.

10-07-2013, 08:24 PM
Great comeback!


Amy Remixed
10-07-2013, 08:34 PM
You dumbfounded her with your success. :)