There is a post in the Support form from a woman who had gastric bypass and she is asking for help. It sounds like she is not doing well. Could you take a look at it and maybe give her some help. Yesterday I suggested she post here but I see she hasn't.
I dont know you and I don't know anything about weightloss surgery, but can I just say that I think your an incredible person... Your adorable I'm not gay, but I just felt your warmth and loveliness as a person radiate...lol