Living Maintenance - 45 pounds more than bf! D: HELP!




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Lizzizzi
05-31-2013, 01:21 PM
My boyfriend is fine for his height but the fact he is smaller makes me feel so insecure about myself. I remember him saying he used to be fat at 170 pounds and he was happy now that he was at 150 and in my head I'm just thinking....I am over 170...do you think I'm fat too?!?! Obviously I have not told him my weight. But I do wonder, does he think I am actually fat D: he says I am not but he thought he was fat at 170...AH teenage insecurities...HELP!


modifyeddoll87
05-31-2013, 03:29 PM
Your 5'6 I'm 5'6 also

I'm betting you carry your weight very well

I know I do

Most people are shocked when I admit to being over

200 lbs

At 200. Lbs you probably don't look thin but I'm betting you don't look fat

People hear 200 and think its giant when it's not that uncommon

You need to loose weight for your health and to not miss out on things

But as for your looks do t be to hard in yourself EVREY woman is beautiful in her own right

When your boyfriend says 170 is fat he is not even thinking about your weight believe me !!

Don't spend your young years insecure

Your on the road to doing whats right for your body

Be confidant !!

Lizzizzi
05-31-2013, 03:50 PM
Your 5'6 I'm 5'6 also

I'm betting you carry your weight very well

I know I do

Most people are shocked when I admit to being over

200 lbs

At 200. Lbs you probably don't look thin but I'm betting you don't look fat

People hear 200 and think its giant when it's not that uncommon

You need to lose weight for your health and to not miss out on things

But as for your looks do t be to hard in yourself EVREY woman is beautiful in her own right

When your boyfriend says 170 is fat he is not even thinking about your weight believe me !!

Don't spend your young years insecure

Your on the road to doing whats right for your body

Be confidant !!
Thank you so much for your words, definitely helped. I just hate knowing the weight difference especially since this is the biggest I have ever been, the part that such is that all my fat concentrated in one area, my stomach! you could look at my legs and think I was at a perfectly healthy weight. Not to mention I showed my bf a picture of how I used to look and he drooled all over the place, I know I should use that as motivation but instead I let it bring me down.