The past month or so is either great or it's ****, I haven't really decided which. My sex drive is through the roof. I want it from the time I wake up to the time I got to bed (ok, maybe not before my coffee). My husband is indulging up to a point, but we do have lives to lead and a one year old who requires supervision. This isn't something I've had to deal with in a few years, due to my eating like crap and being generally unhealthy. Previously, when I was still a teenager and horny all the time I had a teenage boy to help me out and little responsibility. Even when my oldest was little he went to day care and I had a lot more free time and was free to have relations with whomever I chose (one of the few perks of getting a divorce). Anyone else this frustrated? It's distracting, and more exercise isn't really helping. I just wanna get laid!
I have noticed my drive is up again as well. Before I was always tired, no energy. BUT my husband works out of town so he is gone mon till thur , sometimes fri so I jus have to deal with it on the other hand he is so happy that my losing wieght has helped my drive, he would do anything to keep me on track with my wieght loss, lol.
DO IT!!! Sex to me is such an important part of all relationships!! I have a very high sex drive myself and I envy you for having a husband to give it to you as much as you want it!! I am single and right now have pretty much given up on men so I just have to deal with it
I'm envious! I've just started my weight loss journey and my sex drive is...none existent. I know it makes my fiance a bit sad because when we first started I was like a cat in heat - 2, 3 times in a morning and crazy quickies in not very private settings...but since I gained 50lbs in the past 8 months I'm so disgusted with my body that sex has become a practice in noticing my imperfections instead of enjoying the act. I hate feeling my belly hanging down or noticing my thighs. I still try to satisfy my fiance at least 3 nights a week (I have to give myself this "goal" or I'll forget and I don't want to neglect him) but it's rare that I get anything out of it due to distraction.
I'm hoping this will change as the weight goes away....
Haha, some of us are just born with high sex drives. It's a curse sometimes. I always said I wish they'd make a pill to make it go away when we want it to!
I'm envious! I've just started my weight loss journey and my sex drive is...none existent. I know it makes my fiance a bit sad because when we first started I was like a cat in heat - 2, 3 times in a morning and crazy quickies in not very private settings...but since I gained 50lbs in the past 8 months I'm so disgusted with my body that sex has become a practice in noticing my imperfections instead of enjoying the act. I hate feeling my belly hanging down or noticing my thighs. I still try to satisfy my fiance at least 3 nights a week (I have to give myself this "goal" or I'll forget and I don't want to neglect him) but it's rare that I get anything out of it due to distraction.
I'm hoping this will change as the weight goes away....
I am having this issue too!!! This is the longest dry spell we've ever been on... It's been like 18 days. We tried last week, but I just couldn't do it... I could feel my gross stomach on his, and it just all went downhill from there. Chances are, he's thinking more about the feeling and not at all about our bodies.
I just need to get out of my own head sometimes!
Sounds like an awesome excuse to go to the classiest sex shop (or online) and buy a new toy. Or, make it a reward for hitting a certain goal, like 5-10 more pounds. Never hurts to get to know your body a little better
Sex Drive (Possible TMI)
