I am in school too so I can relate to you. When it comes down to grades, you really need to review HOW you studied. Did you study enough hours for your exam/quizz? Did you really understand the material? You also have to believe in yourself because if you go into the exam room thinking you are going to fail or you are not smart enough, you lose confidence which will reflect in your grade. I honestly think that schools is about organization and really figuring out what is the best way to study for a particular class. Also take advantage of the teaching assistants, go to office hours, do the reading assignments, write down the things you do not understand and make sure you ask your professor or someone in your class. You will be be okay! Failing an exam or quiz does not mean that you will fail the whole class so it is never too late to get back on track!
As for your friend, don't feel too bad. Sometimes we need some "me time" and you can't really be that supportive if you are not in the best mood yourself. Just check on her later and reschedule another time to hang out when you are free.
Good luck! It will get better!
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