I did explain that weighing myself everyday helps keep me on track, and he did give it back.
He is the best guy in the whole world. He hid it because he was afraid I would get discouraged after my vacation and give up. He was trying to help me, and after we talked, he gave it back.
I do need to think about the way I talk to him. I do call myself fat, and he has said so many times that it hurts him when I do it. He said he doesn't want ANYBODY putting his wife down-- even her.
He is super encouraging in everything I've been doing.
I've struggled with anorexia before, so I think he's just a little gun-shy, too.
If the way I stated that made him sound controlling or mean at all, I didn't express myself properly. He is the most gentle, meek, sweet, encouraging and wonderful man I know-- that's why I snagged him for myself!! :P
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