When I met FH, I was about 196 but reached 200/high 190s during the course of our first year together. Being already 5'9, I was pretty tall for a lady so the added weight made me look like a linebacker. He is 6'0/6'1 and 155ish so he is a stick. Looking at pictures of us together, I would automatically think "oh gosh, it looks like I am going to eat him." But this past weekend we had pictures taken together and I looked almost as small as he did even though I'm still 20 pounds heavier. I think it is what I was wearing and how I carry my weight in general. To me, we looked like an adorable couple. It made me feel REALLY good