Weight Loss Support - Evil Motivations! (again)




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bama girl
06-03-2011, 02:39 PM
So a long time ago, I started a thread asking people what their "evil motivations" were in their weight loss journeys, and there were some AWESOME answers. I thought it might be fun to start another one, since there have been so many new people since then!

Ultimately, (hopefully) most of us want to lose for ourselves and to be healthy and happy, but we all have other little evil motivations that cross through our minds sometimes. And that's perfectly fine, as long as they don't take priority... and they're really just kind of fun to think and scheme about sometimes. So come on, let them out! No judgement here. :devil:

Mine are:
- it being absolutely indisputable that I'm the hottest girl my boyfriend has ever dated. (he says that already, but I want there to be no question. :P)
- being able to keep up with (or even beat) some of my rowers during cardio workouts so I can make fun of them being beat by a woman. :D
- the self-righteous satisfaction of knowing that even though my psycho ex-roommate and my ex-best friend literally tried to ruin my life, I'll be healthy and happy (and thin!), and they'll still be sitting around whining about being overweight.


Serbrider
06-03-2011, 02:57 PM
To be the thin girl in family gatherings... (kinda sad though... as I'm losing weight... EVERYBODY else in my famiily is gaining... :( )

TooManyDimples
06-03-2011, 03:03 PM
To be the hot sister. I already am actually, but when we were growing up I got bigger faster then my sister and she used to make fun of me. I don't want to rub it in her face or anything. I just want her to be a little jealous of her skinny little sister.

So when I see the guys I went to high school with that never saw me as more then friendship material, they are blown away by how good I look. (My ten year reunion is next year!)

To be the hot wife in our group of friends.

To get second looks again! I've been overweight for most of my life, but in my teens and early twenties I wasn't majorly overweight. I used to get looks, flirted with, whistled at.. I don't actually want anything out of it, but it's definitely nice to feel attractive.


GoingGoingGone
06-03-2011, 03:05 PM
Lol, ok, I just love this...

*unleashing the evil b***h*
I want to be smaller than my cousin
I want to make the other women I go to church with jealous (how holy, right?)
I want to to make the guys I currently talk to, who could take me or leave me, wish they could have another shot.

Beach Patrol
06-03-2011, 03:06 PM
I wanna be so hot that I burn myself!!! :devil: :rofl:

I want people to say "Wow, she looks SO GOOD for her age!"

My 30-yr hi-school reunion is this year. I want everybody to stand in awe when I enter the room. :D

Ferumbras
06-03-2011, 03:07 PM
To literally make my husband's jaw drop when I walk down the aisle, smoking hot, in my wedding dress.
To make ex's jealous.
To rub it in an ex's face that I too can lose weight, and without him harping on me about my food and activity level all the time.
To not feel dumpy next to my best friend, who's short and thin and never makes any comments about my weight, but I always notice.
To prove to my parents that I can lose weight and keep it off.
To turn heads when I walk down the street.
To not feel self-conscious in a department store, as though I shouldn't even bother looking at nice clothes.
To feel good about myself when I compare my body to random other women I see.

ShanIAm
06-03-2011, 03:24 PM
Yup, these types of threads are my favorite! (shame, shame on me!)

* I want to be, and actually now am, smaller than my sister. For the first time in my life! I can't wear her clothes for good reasons now.

* I want all my ex's to swoon next time I purposely on accident run into them :D

* I'm lovin' the longer glances from guys and I have caught a couple double takes. (I just don't know what to do with that yet. I am not confident enough yet to hold their glance so I'm coming across as a snob when really it's just me being uncomfortable!)

I'm enjoying reading everyone's responses and can't wait for more!!

Lovely
06-03-2011, 03:47 PM
- To one day run into old friends and have to re-introduce myself. "Oh you don't recognize me? Gosh I don't look that different do I?~ *twirls in place*"

georgeshair
06-03-2011, 04:57 PM
I want a backside like Pippa Middleton's!!!

Serbrider
06-03-2011, 05:10 PM
Lovely... that's kind of mine too. I've always been the chubby girl... I want to be able to walk up to people I know and smile and say... "hey... remember me?"

:p

sassylime
06-03-2011, 05:17 PM
*To be thinner than my mother (who always uses my weight as a weapon in arguments).
*To be hotter than my ex's current girlfriend, who he left me for.
*To get second glances/flirtation/cat calls that aren't just done to mock my appearance...
*To be able to shop in any clothing store I want, and never have to darken the doorway of Penningtons (or any other plus sized store) again.
*To not be embarrassed when I order food from a male waiter (whether I order a salad, or a burger and fries).
*To finally be comfortable at my workplace, without having to worry that all of the pictures taken of me during the day are unflattering (I work in period costume at a museum, so my photo gets taken at least 100+ times per day).
*To never have to hear someone say in a sad voice, "You have such a pretty face..."

still
06-03-2011, 05:19 PM
I want to be the hot wife and the hot mom.

I want to wear a bikini and have people think "SHE has a kid?"

I want to be able to out-bike my DH. He's been out-biking me for years.

AshleyLaurent
06-03-2011, 05:20 PM
I want to go back to my socially isolating church and reveal myself in my thin and strong new body wearing this beautiful dress from Trashy Diva:

http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y112/ashleyohtori/DSC02342.jpg

Also, I really want to wear a mini skirt.

Lovely
06-03-2011, 05:30 PM
Lovely... that's kind of mine too. I've always been the chubby girl... I want to be able to walk up to people I know and smile and say... "hey... remember me?"

:p

Ha ha! Exactly!

I want to go back to my socially isolating church and reveal myself in my thin and strong new body wearing this beautiful dress from Trashy Diva:


*gasp* That is a gorgeous dress!

WeightForMe
06-03-2011, 06:02 PM
*To WANT to take pictures when im out with my boyfriend so we can have memories to put up in our home
*To post pics on my FB of me at the beach and i just so happen to be in a bikini and look BANGING ;)
*To be the hottest gf at my boyfriends work gatherings.

JohnP
06-03-2011, 06:10 PM
I don't have any evil motivations. That's not to say I didn't used to. Initially the "dark side" was a powerful motivator but as time has gone on I have found those motivations lacking - as in I feel only apathy where they used to get me energized. In fact, I have to think hard to even remember what those motivations were.

I hope you ladies can find some inner peace and squelch those demons someday.

Nawwww I'm just kidding. :D:D:D

I have plenty of evil motivations but I ain't sharing them. :carrot::carrot::carrot:

mypinkpolkadot
06-03-2011, 06:28 PM
I want my boyfriend to think I'm the hottest girl he's ever been with (I've never asked either way)

I want to be just as thin as all of my friends (cuz I am the ONLY fat one in our group)

I want my exboyfriends to regret cheating on me and losing me.

I want to get married, and be confident enough to have bridesmaids...without being worried theyll look better than me

plumeria
06-03-2011, 07:16 PM
To be the hot wife I used to be

To take pictures with my family and not hate every single one and want to burn them

To take a trip back home and run into people who only remember me being heavy and have them say (or at least think) wow!!

silentarctic
06-03-2011, 08:06 PM
I want to be able to shop for clothes with my friends/sister without having to go to a completely different stores! (A&E, Penningtons, Laura + , etc)

I want to not always be the fattest person in the room.

Emperess
06-03-2011, 08:32 PM
I want to look damn good for being in my mid-40s.
I want to see if I get hit on my men my age who think they're chasing a much younger woman..LOL.
I want to walk into a room and the men stare and the women get a little jealous (not so sure I really want the latter part, but it tends to come with the territory).

AshleyLaurent
06-03-2011, 08:39 PM
*gasp* That is a gorgeous dress!

LOL. I'm pretty sure that my eyes glazed over when I first saw that dress.

I guess its a pretty nice evil and good motivator.

gagalu
06-03-2011, 09:53 PM
i actually have one hilariously similar to your last reason -- this chick who absolutely ruined my life for 2 years is getting married this summer and i want to show up in a cute dress that shows off my new body. she's been gaining weight and is probably 300 lbs now, while i've been consistently losing. it will feel good to get back at her in a way that's totally passive aggressive.

GoingGoingGone
06-03-2011, 11:03 PM
I don't have any evil motivations. That's not to say I didn't used to. Initially the "dark side" was a powerful motivator but as time has gone on I have found those motivations lacking - as in I feel only apathy where they used to get me energized. In fact, I have to think hard to even remember what those motivations were.

I hope you ladies can find some inner peace and squelch those demons someday.

Nawwww I'm just kidding. :D:D:D

I have plenty of evil motivations but I ain't sharing them. :carrot::carrot::carrot:

Lol, you little devil! You really had me going! :devil:

shishkeberry
06-04-2011, 01:24 AM
I want to be thinner than my mom and sister. They're only a little overweight but they've both failed at losing what they need to. I want to beat them to it and especially rub it in my mom's face. I'm kinda mad at her right now,lol

supergir111
06-04-2011, 07:30 AM
I have always been the shorter, fatter, less attractive sister (as constantly pointed out by mean relatives) now she will always be gorgeous and I do like my height but I can't wait to be the same size and eventually thinner than her, (she wouldn't want to be any less than a size 10, I want 8)

My stepdad always comments on how similar me and my mum are (like pretending to mistake the two of us when our backs are turned) now she is a very attractive lady and I would love to look more like her but I know he means it size wise and because she is quite a large lady it always bothered me growing up, still does. I know he is just doing it to tease/? because I am 4+ inches taller than her with a completely different body shape. I cant wait to go beyond the point of comparison with my her :)

I am the largest out of my group of friends/aquitances, I am looking forward to being the fittest and not necessarily the thinnest but the fittest looking.

coastalvagrant
06-04-2011, 08:12 AM
I want to wear beautiful clothes and actually look good in them.

georgeshair
06-04-2011, 08:17 AM
AshleyLaurent, that is a seriously gorgeous dress! You will look fabulous in it.

MzJuicyD
06-04-2011, 10:14 AM
I want to have all the guys who rejected me thinkin about me when they're with their lady friends! hahaha

I want to be one of the smallest people in my family and have everyone jealous!

I want the guys to look at me instead of my skinny friends when we go out!

mzKiki
06-04-2011, 11:25 AM
I want to my (younger) husband's trophy wife
I want to do the full hour of Zumba!
I want to wear a skinny jeans!!!!

MzJuicyD
06-04-2011, 12:06 PM
I want to wear a skinny jeans!!!!

I LOVE my skinny jeans and im larger than u! Shows off the curves!

pixelllate
06-04-2011, 01:09 PM
So that I can show off my body to my sister-who when I first lost weight was a total hater-called me names, nitpicked that I was eating too little, basically tried to accuse me of having an E.D...but never ever acted like that (in fact looked so happy about the way I looked) when I ate ice cream for breakfast every morning and binged all the time. Now she's like "Why don't you ever dress up?" uh cause I can't fit into anything! Funnily enough, she "who loves HER curves" just bought an elliptical. I'm too poor to get one, but I want to prove that i can get there without spending several hundred bucks!
Oh and so I can wear a Herve Leger dress!!!! I saw them in person, its one of my big weight loss goals lol
and go out more often, and therefore have a reason to buy nice makeup
AND buy 1 pair of designer jeans..the first pair of jeans I will wear in over 3 years lol
so if my family who now calls me too fat, calls me too thin because I'm never pretty enough, i can say "meh" and keep on being healthy
I saved lots of money buying cheap "tents" to wear, so I'm definitely treating myself once I get there!
So I can get a VS Miraculous bra and therefore look as hot as my girl roomie.
So I can walk into a room and get attention from not-desperate men! :dancer:

Lambiechop
06-04-2011, 01:41 PM
I want to be the hottest mom at school pickup.

ValRock
06-04-2011, 01:42 PM
Mini skirt with no shame!!!!

OregonLady
06-04-2011, 02:03 PM
In our 20's my sister always made fun of me cause i was fat. she of course had the perfect body, and was very pretty as well... well, in our 40's, due to health problems she has gained loads of weight.. in fact she is only about 40 lbs smaller than me... i know this is horrible, and i dont really wanna rub her face in it, but i do want to get below her weight just so She notices..that will be good enough for me....
when we were younger and she used to tease me relentlessly for being fat i used to tell her that one day she would be fatter than me just because of Karma lol... hmmmm :)

bama girl
06-04-2011, 03:18 PM
So I can get a VS Miraculous bra and therefore look as hot as my girl roomie.


Haha, I have a bunch of those and wear them every day... That way I can trick people into thinking I have something up there. :devil:

And y'all, I love your responses to this thread. Makes me feel like not such an evil bee-otch for thinking those things sometimes! Haha

jenfett
06-04-2011, 03:43 PM
-I want to be the healthiest person in my family, they are all horribly overweight and just very very negative people who are always bringing you down, so I want to rise above and show them I am no longer under their control.
-I want to be able to have no fear going to a carnival or amusement park and ride the rides with out being mortified in front of everyone because I don't fit in the seats.
-I want to make the outside as beautiful as the inside to go with my actually awesome personality, it is just hidden under so much weight.
-to be that pretty hot thing that I feel is inside

pnkrckpixikat
06-05-2011, 11:21 AM
this is a motivation that i feel horrid for even having, but...

i have a friend that was always about the weight i want to get to, at 2 inches shorter she had more padding then she liked having but she was still the one that always got hit on in the clubs and whatnot. well in the last year or year and a half or so she hasnt been too happy and has been having mini binges on all things sugar and has gained to about 190, so about 30-40 lbs.

she only recently found out exactly how much she weighs and freaked out. she keeps asking me for help on what to do but doesnt listen to me at all, until someone else confirms what i said THEN she'll do it. a couple weeks ago she joined weight watchers which is a good step if she can stick to it. she consistantly goes through her daily point, exercise points and dips into her weekly extra points. by the end of the week she is usually over her weekly point allowence. she will be good a few days then be mad because she cant tell shes losing anything (she still avoids the scale) then goes crazy for a day or two on food and undos any progress she might have made.

i feel awful for her that she is struggling and wish i could give her the patience that she needs to be successful. but, if she doesnt start actually listening to advice and reason about healthy food choices and how itll take longer then a week or two to lose 30 lbs so have patience, then i will be kinda happy that when i next see her in nov i will finally be the thinner one as she will likely keep gaining and i will keep losing.

Marmot12
06-05-2011, 02:37 PM
1) So i can be thin for the first time in my life and not feel self conscious in my clothes.

2) to be able to wear a clingy t-shirt and not have my belly sticking out.

3) to feel hot and sexy

4) to make the feel who think im fat go 'oh wow look at you' and feel good about myself.

bellastarr
06-05-2011, 05:52 PM
to make my now married ex who i work with and have to see everyday think "wow she looks good...how did i let her get away?"

to make my hated fat ugly sister-in-law jealous... she is very big and i use her as motivation of who i do not want to look like, she has no willpower and looks gross

to be able to go out again and not just text guys and talk on facebook... i know there are a few guys interested but i'm afraid if they saw me how i am now they would run... my pic i have up is about a year old

i'd also like to have my pic taken again and not analyze how fat, bloated, gross i look

to be able to wear jeans again and look hot

to be able to wear a short, tight skirt and high boots and look hot

so that i don't wind up all alone and die alone because i feel too fat to meet someone and am scared of rejection

Teresa66
06-05-2011, 06:42 PM
So when I get married (I'm eloping) this fall, I can send pics to my mom, sister, and fiancée's daughter-in-law, and show off my much thinner body. All three of these women struggle with their weight and I want to 1) show off and 2) show them that they too can lose their weight.

NiteOwlMommy
06-05-2011, 07:16 PM
1) To be the fittest person at the family reunions. I have a cousin who is exactly a year younger than me and when I was at my lowest weight (about 7/8 yrs ago) told me I looked weird thin and that it didn't suit me. It bothers me that when we do go to reunions she (she is overweight too) wears clothes that are waaaay to clingy and revealing in the chest area and I see her push up the "girls" when she talks to my husband it frustrates the s*** out of me.

2) To be able to post a full body FB pic of me in a bikini and look super hot!

3) To show my mom that diet and exercise does give you results its all about commitment

4) To walk around the mall with my husband and have him keep his arm around my tiny waist to show that I am taken....He did this when I was pregnant because he swore that other men were checking me out from behind :)

just keep swimming
06-05-2011, 08:06 PM
I agree with so many of these; glad I'm not the only one!

I want to be able to wear a bikini confidently for the first time in my life.
I want to be able to try on wedding dresses and not cringe!
I want to WANT candid pictures of me posted on facebook! :lol:

fullofhope
06-05-2011, 08:38 PM
Oh I love this so much. My most evil motivations are as follows:

To do what everyone always said I never could or would, including mostly my immediate family.
To be thinner than my best friend (who happens to be male and has lost 200 pounds himself).
To put on a pair of 3 or 4 inch heels and be "that 6'5", thin, sexy, chick."

Heh.

chubbypanda
06-06-2011, 12:00 PM
I hesitated when I first saw this thread, because I did not want to unleash the dark side. But that feeling has passed :devil:

-I want to be a fit, trim B*TCH, and piss off the haters in my life even more
-I want to wear all the cute clothes I have stored away in my closet, and rock all the colorful, adventurous makeup I love playing with without having to worry about it all emphasizing how thick my waist is or how round my face is (once again, to make the haters jealous)

It sounds so funny to say "haters", but I just wanted to be able to have a blanket term to refer to the catty women at work, and an acquaintance who seems to hate me because she is used to being the "Queen Bee" when she hangs out with her group of friends, and feels like I am a threat when we are at the same place at the same time. :shrug: If she wants a threat, I will give her a threat! :devil:

Mickey79sf
06-06-2011, 01:34 PM
This is a great thread lol
1. Be a freakin MILF lol
2. Rub it in my dh face that i did lose the prego weight. we have a 7 month old and he seems to think i should have lost the weight already.. and yet he gained as much as i did!!! why is it ok for him to have man boobs, but i actually carried the child, had a freakin c-section and am expected to be thin already .. JERK!
3.wear my sexy clothes again :)

Laureedee
06-06-2011, 02:41 PM
I've stopped caring about my other evil motivations but this is the one that's sticking with me:

*To show my cousin up. She and I look alike and have always both been chubby/fat, but then she left for a few years and has gotten down to a normal/barely chubby weight. I would say good for her, but she seems to think she's the first person who's ever lost weight and the only one good enough to do so (and what's really irritating is that it was due to stress, not actual hard work on her part), and she likes to act like she's so much better than I am just because I'm heavier. I'd love to knock her off her high horse a bit, and I know I will because she already gets irritated when people mention my weight loss, especially if they talk about the work :lifter: I'm putting into it. We don't really get along anymore because of her snotty attitude so yeah, this is my new motivation :D

ShyHeather
06-06-2011, 10:52 PM
Oooh! I like this thread! :D

* So I can take playful / naughty boudoir photos for my boyfriend (hopefully he'll propose soon.. and be my fiance...)
* Be able to shop even in those so called 'Junior' fashions that I see women of all ages flock to. Really, I envy them and that's just sad.
* To make a few jaws drop when I walk by, hey a girl can dream, right? :p
* To drive my sister absolutely insane and be thinner than she is!
* To fit into a wedding dress that doesn't make me look like I'm about to explode...(I have yet to try one on, but that's how I imagine I'd look...)

kimicat76
06-06-2011, 11:25 PM
i want to make my husband stutter when i walk into the room and say hi to him.
i want to be able to wear a tight spandex phoenix (from xmen) costume and get stared at the whole night.
i want to be the sexiest wife and MILF.
i want to be able to wear a bikini and just worry about if my breasts are going to pop out.
maybe just maybe if the guy i used to like in high school came across my profile hed fall head over heels in lust for me and wont be able to do a dang thing about it LOL
when my two skinny (like size zero) friends come around and we hang out I want to be the one everyone wants to talk to. but they cant have cause i am VERY happily married lol

theox
06-07-2011, 12:16 AM
Good reading. :devil:

Most of my motivations are positive, but I would like people (especially from high school and the time I spent in England) who ignored me, were condescending towards me, or were flat-out jerks to me for no reason to see me (or pictures of me) healthy and trim, just to *maybe* make them think. And so I could blow them off if I felt like it.

Reba McEntire's Turn on the Radio describes my feelings on the matter pretty well. Except without the romance or music. :D

Mickey79sf
06-07-2011, 03:38 AM
i want to be able to wear a tight spandex phoenix (from xmen) costume and get stared at the whole night.
lol

i'll meet u at comic con in a storm costume lol :devil:

Lovely
06-07-2011, 03:58 AM
i'll meet u at comic con in a storm costume lol :devil:

I'll see you both as Rogue ;)

OhThePlaces
06-07-2011, 10:19 AM
I LOVE THESE!!!

I don't think my motivations are necessarily evil, but here are the shallow ones. :D

My husband is coming home in 5 weeks from a 6 month deployment. I've secretely lost 25lbs since he's been gone and hope to lose 8 more to reach my goal. I plan to show up to the pier rocking a beautiful new dress and make his jaw drop! This is my number one motivation. He is so supportive and would never complain about my weight, and I can't wait to reveal the new me!

We're visiting his family in August. They are all super skinny (including him) and we haven't been there in a few years. I weighed around 165 last time we were there and I felt so self concious about being the big one. I can't wait to show up at 130 lbs AFTER having two babies (a two year old and 5 month old) and suprise them.

I can't wait to show up at my 10 year reunion next year no longer as the chunky girl with a good personality.

TooManyDimples
06-07-2011, 10:35 AM
I LOVE THESE!!!

I don't think my motivations are necessarily evil, but here are the shallow ones. :D

My husband is coming home in 5 weeks from a 6 month deployment. I've secretely lost 25lbs since he's been gone and hope to lose 8 more to reach my goal. I plan to show up to the pier rocking a beautiful new dress and make his jaw drop! This is my number one motivation. He is so supportive and would never complain about my weight, and I can't wait to reveal the new me!

That's awesome! My husband is going back to AIT in a few weeks and will be gone for 4 months. I'm planning on hitting it hard while he's gone and my goal is going to be to get under the weight I was when we met when I was 15! I would love for him to come home and be shocked as ****. =) Good luck with reaching your goal!

catahoula
06-07-2011, 11:21 AM
AshleyLaurent, Are you from New Orleans?

Tohisha77
06-07-2011, 11:31 AM
well i feel it wouldnt be EVIL if someone teased you about your weight and now theyre FAT and youre thin and you want 2 flaunt it in their faces.
THEY DESERVE IT!:carrot:

but ill just say,
#1. i want 2 flaunt my new body(ill have it by next year)in my female cousins face because back in 1997,everyone noticed that i did slim down some and they were complimenting me and she got all jealous and told me i still had a pouch on my stomach:mad:
funny thing is,shes had 2 children since then and now shes big as a house:D
even though im not 155lbs at the moment,im STILL A WHOLE LOT THINNER THAN HER!!:devil::devil::devil::rofl:

#2.i want 2 flaunt my new bod in front of every guy who said i was ugly back in elementary,junior high and high school!
let them look at what they will NEVER HAVE:devil::devil::devil::devil:

pixelllate
06-07-2011, 07:45 PM
That's awesome! My husband is going back to AIT in a few weeks and will be gone for 4 months. I'm planning on hitting it hard while he's gone and my goal is going to be to get under the weight I was when we met when I was 15! I would love for him to come home and be shocked as ****. =) Good luck with reaching your goal!

eeeep! super excited for the both of you! please report back with their reactions, i bet that their jaws will DROPPP ;)

speaking of, now that i can post pics, i want to get fit enough to walk into a room wearing this
http://g-images.amazon.com/images/G/01/Shopbop/p/pcs/products/herve/herve2000412530/herve2000412530_p1_1-0_254x500.jpg
:devil:
!

mandy1974
06-07-2011, 07:53 PM
secretly i'd like to be the hot mom too. ;) Right now I feel like the one that's let myself go but slowly movin it along. lol

AshleyLaurent
06-07-2011, 08:20 PM
AshleyLaurent, Are you from New Orleans?

Nope. I'm from Denver. Are there socially isolating churches there too? :D

georgeshair, thank you for the kind words!

Oh, pixelllate, I LOVE bandage dresses too! Great evil motivations!

catahoula
06-07-2011, 09:30 PM
AshLaur, the store Trashy Diva is from here. There's two locally. I used to go in there all the time but have been in because nothing would ever fit.

shcirerf
06-07-2011, 11:44 PM
Oh my! I have all kinds of EVIL motivations!

My boss's wife. She's only 6 months younger than me and a month ago she blew into town, and looked at myself and my co-worker and told us we had really aged. Grr! She is a story for a whole new thread.

My other current motivation is a bit strange, but, my son coaches high school football and the players, are poo pooing weight/strength training. So my current plan is to spend the summer at the gym pumping iron, and mastering planks, side planks, back planks, etc., and going to football practice, and proving that weight/strength training is important!

Next, in the small community where I live we have a large worldwide business. I know, through where I work, most of the very rich wives that are thin and fashionable, do "Elite Fitness" and all that. I want them to look at me as not just the gal who takes care of their dog, but the hot "gal" at the veterinary hospital! Don't get me wrong, they are all very nice, but, you can still tell, they look at me as nothing other than the hired help.

And my final is to be a smoking hot gramma! My oldest son has a MIL, who I get along with, but her and I are just not on the same page. She's all self sanctimonious and such. Her husband is a great guy and I can visit with him and be more comfortable than visiting with her. I've tried, I don't dislike her, we just don't click. I get along with my younger son's MIL, great, but I just want to be the HOT gramma!

tinamariex16
06-08-2011, 07:02 AM
I REALLY want my ex to be sorry.. really really bad.. I see him once in a while at the same gym I go to and any time I see him there it gives me a little extra push.
And I want to wear tiny shorts. I haven't worn shorts since I was probably 14 and I'm 23 now.
I don't want to be mortified when I See pictures friends put up on facebook from a night we went out

AshleyLaurent
06-08-2011, 07:15 AM
AshLaur, the store Trashy Diva is from here. There's two locally. I used to go in there all the time but have been in because nothing would ever fit.

Oooh~ Thanks for the info! I shall make a note to visit the store if I go down to that area!

Catahoula, You've made some great progress! I'm sure you will look great in any of the dresses in the store!

170starting
06-08-2011, 09:22 AM
I want to finally see pictures again where I dont scoff at my flabby arms or full face.

I want to feel as sexy as a Victoria's Secret model.:D

I want to get second glances when I walk into a room again.:devil:

I want people to say... I can't believe she just had a baby in April. :dizzy:

LataJones
06-08-2011, 10:46 AM
I want to be more smokin' hot than my size 0 cousins who spend all their time on makeup and boys.

I want to be fitter and hotter than all the chicks in high school who thought they were so much better than me.

Proatthis
06-08-2011, 03:29 PM
I want to be the hot mom with the teenage daughters. I want to be skinnier then my friend because when she is skinnier than me I can't stand her attitude.

catahoula
06-08-2011, 06:28 PM
AshleyLaurant, Thanks so much!! I haven't bought any new clothes yet since I started losing weight. My coworkers say my dress pants look like they belong to MC Hammer. I have been putting off getting new clothes, trying to hold out as long as possible.

AZ Sunrises
06-11-2011, 04:45 PM
I want to meet my an ex for dinner the next time I vacation in CA, be flirting with a gentleman I met at the bar...and have the ex not even recognize me.

sstripedmonkey
06-11-2011, 10:10 PM
Mine are to wear those great underthings for the hubby, not nessisarily FOR HIM more for me, and to show the people i moved away from what ive accomplished

Pint Sized Terror
06-11-2011, 11:50 PM
Ok, I finally have one worth posting about!

I have a very good friend that I love very much. She is at her all-time heaviest now and constantly goes on about how fat she is. The thing is, she went from being a size 1-2, up to a "whopping" size 4. Yes, that's right. My always-complaining about being fat friend is a size 4. I'm only about 2 inches taller than her, and wear a size 12. To hear her complain that only a fat-*** wears a size 4 makes me want to SCREAM. She justifies it by saying, "But you look GOOD for your size." For my size. :dizzy:

Today I told her I was having trouble sticking to plan when we hang out, and she goes, "Yeah, you won't be losing weight around us!" har har har. She totally meant it in fun, but it really ticked me off. See, she complains enough alright, but she eats SO badly, doesn't work out at all and her favorite drink is beer, LOL.

Keep in mind, that besides this one little thing, my friend is beyond awesome and is literally one of my best friends. She's just a tad annoying with the MASSIVE size 4 comments, LOL.

So, my evil motivation is to eventually look more fit and toned than she does.

pointless2011
06-12-2011, 12:52 AM
1. To make my ex's jealous.
2. To finally wear a bikini to the beach
3. To feel good about my body

MidnightRaven
06-12-2011, 10:24 PM
I LOVE this thread.

I want to be the thin and fit one of my family. I especially want to be thinner and fitter than my older brother! And fit into my younger sister's clothes!

I only see my extended family once a year or two - I want to make them stop and do a double take.

I want to blow people away at my 10year reunion. I want to be the hot one, not the fat but fun and friently nerd that everyone knew.

I want to be be able to shop in the same stores as my friends... not long to be able to fit in the same clothes as they do. I want to go shopping WITH friends... not just watch them try stuff on and tell them how great they look, when I can't fit into anything in the store...

And finally, on a fitness note, I want to be able to join in conversations about running 5ks and taking yoga classes and things of that nature...

This thread has re-motivated me!

Live Laugh Love
06-12-2011, 11:00 PM
1. I want to feel as hot and gorgeous as my boyfriend says I am
2. I want to be able to buy and look good in cute clothes and actually be comfortable with myself instead of embarrassed.
3. I want to finally be able to wear a bikini!
4. I want to look and feel good when I get married (which won't be for another 2 years or so)
5. I haven't seen all my guy friends in quite awhile (since I graduated college) and would love to see their jaws drop next time they see me :)

est1991
06-13-2011, 01:29 PM
I want to shove it in my moms face! We've never had a good relationship, but recently it's getting out of control. I want to enlist in the Air Force this chirstmas after I've lost weight and am able to do the required amount of sit ups, pushups, and run 2 miles with out too much effort. Everytime I mention this to her, she immediatly puts me down saying that tehy'll never accept me, I'll never lose weight, and that I'm to f*ing fat and lazy to do anything with my life.

My dad on the other hand is a Capt. in the Air Force and is really supportive. Me and my mom are WAY to much alike to ever give in to one another or get along.

lilmomma2011
06-13-2011, 06:01 PM
Ok this post is one of the reasons I love 3FC! The comments here have made my day!!

Ok so here goes:

1) I would like to see my ex-fiance's face when he sees me at my goal weight. (sidenote: he called off the wedding 4 months prior to the date and now he wants to come back)

2) I would love to look as hot and sexy as my boyfriend says that I am.

3) I would love to see the look on some of my old classmates' face at my 20 year class reunion this fall.

4) I would love to be smaller than my sister who always says she got the skinny genes!!

:carrot::carrot::carrot:

gonnadoitthistime
06-14-2011, 02:00 PM
I have a fantasy (right down to what I will be wearing) stopping by to visit a friend I used to work for who is a complete weight freak (she is in her 70's, abuses laxatives and has "accidents" in her pants) who not only let me know just how fat I was all the time, but that I was a "harlot" and not too bright. "Friend????" you might be thinking? Sadly, a lot of women have friends like that. But I do thank her for contributing to my misery so much that I made huge changes in my life and for my future.
I stop in to see her, looking great, and well, there are several scenarios, all of which end in me not saying much, giving her a really condescending look and one final "goodbye ruth".

tuende
06-15-2011, 01:34 AM
Um, LOVE this thread!!!

My evil motivation: to make people jealous of my muscles.

Is that so much to ask?!

jennyplain
06-15-2011, 12:47 PM
So I have this friend who always weighed more than me. Well, she's sort of a frenemy. Mostly, she's my evil motivation, because she's losing weight, too, and I feel like I HAVE to get to my goal before she does. And be cuter when I get there.

IsabellaOlivia
06-15-2011, 04:07 PM
Post a bikini picture of myself on Facebook. Have certain people from my past be 'wow'

My mom has always been on my case about me being fat and mocked me for it. I want to show up in front of her face ( she lives in another country) and just walk up to her, wearing a Herve Leger dress and just put on the fakest smile and say 'hi'.

Looking hot in said Herve Leger dress

Get thinner than my mom.

For Halloween 2012, I'm going as the slutty nurse, as opposed to my previous costumes, were I didn't feel good enough to wear something insanely sexy.

MaryB75
06-15-2011, 04:54 PM
* To be the size I was when I met my husband
* To feel comfortable in a bikini again
* For my husband to notice guys flirting with me like they used to :)

DCchick
06-15-2011, 04:56 PM
Ummmm....I LOVE this thread lol. LOVE! I subscribe to so many of these motivations as well. The last time i really lost weight, i wanted to look better than an ex's new gf, who I knew I was going to meet for the first time at a wedding (and see the ex after not seeing him for a few years). I lost a good amount of weight, and I cant even tell you HOW good I felt standing there. This was years ago, and I STILL remember how great it felt.

skinnyelle39
06-17-2011, 10:26 AM
I only got through the first page but I am loving this!

*To be able to walk into any room, bldg, event, etc and be the hottest, fittest, sexiest woman in the there (or at least one of them). I just want to turn heads :0)

*To be able to wear skirts and shorts and look GREAT in them. My legs are currently a work in progress.

* To see my ex-bestfriend, frenemies, and old friends and be smoking hot and slim.

* I want to effortlessly be able to slip into 5/6 and 3/4 in any store. Im totally going to revamp my wardrobe once I finish losing.

* I want to make all of my exs ( good and bad) wish they still had me, lol.

* I honestly LOVE hearing the "you're too skinny" or " don't lose anymore" comments. Ive never really been fat but was never considered petite, skinny, or small.

TurboMammoth
06-17-2011, 10:55 AM
I want to have the ''I think I'm so cool'' people from high school (where I graduated 7 years ago) who are still looking at people this way to be astonished when I'll see them again this summer and next Christmas. I want their boyfriends to turn heads on ME.

I LOVE this thread ahahahah!