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05-17-2011, 02:03 PM
Haha well this friendship has been on and off for the past 4 years, but I feel like she uses me etc. . And I need someones outside thoughts. I dont really know if you all want to hear whats been going on the past 4 years but if you do let me know, whats been going on lately is she has only been texting me when she wants something, like to have yard sale, and then tells me to have my mom get out pool for her, and have my mom put up yard sale signs for her, seriously wtf??? Then the one time I need a ride to my dentist, she ignores my text, then.writes me next day so are we still on for yard sale?? Lol. She never wants to hang out like friends do. Ok wait I will bring up the past lol now that im venting, grrrrr. Ok so few years ago, I was hanging out with her, well she had a crush on my ex asked me if she could have sex with him lol I said no, told her what a poopy man he was, so anyway one day I called her to hang out and she said she couldnt cause her boyfriend had car, so later that night me and this oother girl I knew went to my exs cause her ex.was hanging out with mine and she wanted to talk to him, we went ober there and guess who was there??? Yup christine my supposed friend, she was there screwing my ex although she said she was stuck at home lol. Oh and one time she came over to spend the night with me and my ex was there what do you know, and he was acting crazy around my kids so I asked him to leave but he wouldnt so I called cops, she told me I was messed up for doing that and left with him,.gr eally???? She use to always ask me for rides but if I needed one she wanted gas money. When we have had yard sales she goes through my stuff without asking and takes what she wants, etc... List goeas on. Let me know what you think of situation.

05-17-2011, 02:06 PM
I'd get rid of her fast! What on earth are you getting from her that would make you want to retain her as a "friend"? Purge your life of toxic people.

05-17-2011, 02:08 PM
I think this is a very sick situation and if I were you I would cut ALL ties with her.

05-17-2011, 02:10 PM
Gone . . . you dont need people like that around you, at all.

05-17-2011, 02:16 PM
I thought so, I have stopped talking to her hanging out quiet a few times, but I get lonely as I dont have friends really and start talking to her again, but im done for good this time, its starting to really get to me now. I have ignored her texts all week. Sorry for my crappy writing using a cell phone.

05-17-2011, 02:22 PM
Wow, Vanessa! I thought I had crappy friends- get rid of her pronto! I understand about being lonely- get yourself out there and make some new friends!! I know, that's easier said than done but you deserve much better friends than that!

05-17-2011, 02:22 PM
Get rid of her plan and simple....toxic people are bad bad news....Exs are OFF limits. My bestfriend well ex best friend ended up marrying my highschool sweet heart and we tried to maintain friendship because I got over the situation but she continued to be jealous of me (she got the guy which I'm glad I didn't in the end haha) but still...ex's are OFF limits. Not to mention she sounds like a twit. so move on.

05-17-2011, 02:25 PM
I can understand being lonely, but there is not one thing positive about having someone like this in your life. Flush her ASAP.

05-17-2011, 02:29 PM
Thanks you guys, my husband and mother hate her guess they saw it all along but I was blind at first, only recently I noticed it, and im sick of her. And miztaccen I totally agree exs are off limits.

05-17-2011, 02:45 PM
I'd cut her off so fast... You don't need her in your life. I'd be so pissed if my friend had sex with an just don't do that. If she only talks to you when she needs something she doesn't care about you.. You'll be better off without her. I promise...