[wibblewobble]

Ok so I've been dating this guy for over a month. At first he was like super into me. Then things slowed down. Then about two weeks ago he started having issues at work...but has other opportunities so he said he was "stoked" about his opportunity to move on or whatever. So then last week I barely heard from him. I texted him Mon and Wed...he texted on Thursday. And we didn't see each other at all. And I haven't heard from him since then (I realize its only Saturday but considering we ususally at least text each other once a day...its weird).

So I'm wondering if he's just over it? Its such a dramatic shift from how it was before (a text everyday, hanging out at least once a week). If he is over it I think just not communicating anymore is kind of BS...

Part of me wants to call him and ask what is up...but then the other part of me thinks that would make me look desperate and like a loser. I'm torn between wanting closure (and the possibility of making him feel uncomfortable which I would enjoy if he is indeed being a jerk) and wanting to just let it go. I wasn't in love with him. I just enjoyed hanging out with him and I'm not understanding exactly what went wrong.

Advice? Thoughts?

[niafabo]

Sounds like it could be one of a number of things 1. he has a lot of new responsibilities at work and he just does not have time for you 2. he met someone else or 3. he just someone who likes his space. i'd definitely voice your concerns if he gets mad at you for asking what's going on then he's not worth your time anyways.

[bargoo]

I would let him make the next move. Hanging out once a week doesn't sound that serious to me.

[lauralyn]

Texting daily and seeing each other once a week does not sound like someone who wants to be in a relationship very badly. I would ask him what he wants out of the relationship.

[Timlin]

I would not contact him at all. The balls in his court! I'd just wait and see if he wants to contact you he will........time to shop around for a new friend maybe?