i was curious if anyone knows how to handle this.
you know how when someone a bit quirky comes along, people around you smirk and/or exchange knowing glances as if to say "what a weirdo"? what should you do if you disapprove of this behavior but you don't want to get on the bad side of these people either? i used to deliberately avoided eye contact even if i noticed from the corner of my eye that someone was looking my way and trying to get me to exchange glances with him/her, but that only made me seem odd as well. (i am socially awkward by nature, but i can blend in sometimes until things like this happen and people start realizing i'm not one of them.) i've tried making brief eye contact but without smiling as if to at least acknowledge what they're doing, but i think that has pretty much the same effect.
i know ideally these people are not worth my time and i should walk away from them, but based on my experience there's just too many of them and right now i'm trying to make friends, not enemies.
has anyone been in this position before?