For the past year, I've been living in my new, lighter body. I felt pretty carefree most of the time, and each time I read a post about someone having issues with "loose skin" or insecurity issues, I could relate to a certain extent, however I was never really down on myself until recently.
I am feeling so grossed out by myself. Yet I feel guilty that I am experiencing this because I know I worked really hard, and my body forgave me for the damage and **** I put it through over the years, and yet is was still able to give me the results I had strived so hard for. So the option of filling my loose skin back out isn't going to happen. I am happy with how I look. Dressed.
I was talking to DH about it yesterday, mostly because it's starting to affect the "bedroom" department. We actually had to stop during it the last time because I couldn't handle all the "jiggling".
He was a true gentleman and assured me everything would be ok. But then there I go, like your typical woman, and started downing myself like some insecure little baby pointing out all my flaws and asking him how he could find what's left of me attractive. etc etc. Then he started pointing out the things he didn't like about himself. After he was finished, I realized I never noticed all those flaws he brought to my attention. None of it bothered me, and none of it was a big deal. I know his point was, if I don't notice his flaws, he isn't noticing mine. But WHY do I still feel this way?
I am working really hard to schedule "ME" time when I can. Our newborn is now 12 weeks old, and she's perfect. We both do everything equally for her, and he's really great support. I am able to still workout and make sure I continue to take care of myself, but I can't help this insane mentality that I am currently experiencing.
I just want to go back to feeling good, and carefree!! This was really just me venting, thanks for reading! I guess deep down, I was hoping I wouldn't ever get to this point.