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01-13-2011, 03:32 AM
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New to 3FC!! Have any of you had Lapband or Gastric?
Hi There! (Long post ahead sorry!)
Today I had my pre-surgery consult. I've hit my goal weight, and was pretty sure* i wanted lap-band (**pretty sure, not SURE, SURE) and after my consultation, I was confused again....and after hours on the internet (again)to find some clarity, guidance or answers, I ran into 3FC and am super excited to have found the 20 somethings area! yay!
My consult nurse and doctor both recommend gastric bypass over lapband....but the idea of gastric scares me more than lap-band. I realize this fear should be equal for both surgeries..but its not... irrational I am..maybe. Anyway, I was wondering if anybody here, in the 20s section, have had lapband or gastric bypass? If so, which one did you choose and why? Are you happy with your decision? Do you wish you had gotten one surgery over the other?
Sometimes I feel like I can do it on my own... especially since I had to lose 20 lbs to even get today's appointment with the nurse and doctor and people make me feel like wls is the easy way out and I can do it on my own. But then again... if I could've done it on my own.. I would have over the past 10 years lol. Ok, thanks for your time, sorry for the long post! Any input would be nice! Thank you!!! 
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MORE ((Only if you're interested....))
Also, I'm very interested in hearing 20 somethings weight loss stories in general and want to make some friends here so any tips, advice, stories, anecdotes you have would be awesome!!!
A little about me: I just turned 27 yrs old a couple months ago and right before my birthday, hit 300 lbs. I was never skinny, but never fat either. I started gaining weight in college, and it just was on a steady incline after that... steady & rapid. I just want to stop gaining, and start losing... and get back to where I was hopefullY! I just lost 20 lbs, and even though I cant notice it, people I havent seen in a few weeks do. I dont have any friends who are overweight so its really hard for me to find people to relate to. My friends tell me I dont need wls, and losing weight is easy...UM, i dont know how to tell them losing 150lbs of weight loss is no easy task! And going out is a big deal. I hate that I'll be good all day, or week, and then when I go out I have absolutely no self control... it sucks! Whew! Ok.. thats it for now lol... I promise.
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01-13-2011, 06:05 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: Stafford, Virginia
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Welcome Merissa! There is a forum here just dedicated to Weigh Loss Surgery. You might want to check with them regarding that. It seems like most of us are calorie counters or on WW over here. I think you should ask around, get some info and then do whatever you decide is right for you, whether it's surgery or something else. Good luck!
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01-13-2011, 06:31 AM
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Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Alaska
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Hello! I'm new to 3FC as well. No, I haven't had Lapband or Gastric. I do know a lady though who had gastric, and she's gone from over 400 pounds to about 130 in the course of a year, and she's done wonderfully in maintaining that.
I myself don't have any fat friends, so I know it's hard to explain to them that it's not as easy as they make it sound. I've struggled with my weight for years, and it's definitely easier some days and harder on others. The closer to your goal you get, the harder it is, that's what I understand from most people I've met that have lost a large amount of weight.
Congrats on your 20 pounds though, that's magnificent! Hopefully you can get the insight that you need from the WLS forum here and make your final decision on going through with it or not.
Either way, I wish you luck = ]
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01-13-2011, 10:34 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Southern Maryland
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You can do it without surgery...but it has to be something you commit to...
surgery works, hard work works... you just have to figure out what will work for you
I lost 140 pounds on my own... and in that sense I think that anyone is capable of doing it
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01-13-2011, 10:36 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Southern Maryland
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01-13-2011, 04:03 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: California
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Welcome
Hey girl... i have not had wls but i came pretty close i went to the informational seminar the consult did all my pre op testing and everyhting its still sometimes in the back of my mind but I thought well... if I have to lose 10% or more of my body weight just to be qualified then Im pretty sure I can do this the old fassioned way lol. I have battled my weight since I can remember and being yound it is very hard. I read in your post that you can eat right all week and then go out and lose all control and that is something that can't be fixed with surgery. Another major thing to think about is that wls is not a quick fix nor an easy on there are many emotional ups and downs that come with the package as well as other issues if you thing tht wls surgery is truly for you and you know you can stick to the plan then it can have great bennefits for you. As for your origional question... I would reccomend the lap band if you are going to go ahead with the surgery. This procdure is less invasive and you are young (idk if you have or are wanting children) and of child bearing age, therefore the lap band can be easily adjusted during pregnancy to allow you to grow a healthy and then be tightened after child birth sry i knw the post is long lol but I have been there and just had to give you my opinion
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01-13-2011, 05:11 PM
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Wow, thanks for the replies guys!
Audri - thanks! I'll make sure I check it out!
Raphsodysia - thanks, I know bypass is quicker weight loss, but I dont want insta weight loss b/c that means lots of extra excess skin I wouldn't have if I lost it a bit slower like with lapband or on my own. Good luck to you too!
Haley- WOWOWOW! Congrats, you look fantabulous!!!! Thanks for sharing, it gives me super motivation and inspiration to see you having done it on your own!
Ashley- you're right, thanks for the post. I have a lot to think about and a lot to work on in terms of my "control" issues when going out lol.
I didnt know this wasn't mostly wls weight loss stories here... i'm so inspired by you all. The way I left it with my doctor and nurse was let me see how much more I can lose on my own... especially since I'm traveling next month for vacation and sight seeing around the world. That'll be a test too, see if I will gain, lose, or maintain -- crossing my fingers for more loss . I've lost 20.. lets see how much more I can lose on my own and with the 3FC forum - with support, posts, and motivation from and BY you guys!
Thanks a lot again!!!
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01-13-2011, 08:54 PM
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2 chins down, 1 to go
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Midwest, near a big city
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I was in almost an exact same situation as you almost exactly a year ago except I was over 100 lbs heavier.
It was 1/4/10, I was 27 years old and I weighed 407 lbs. My (former) doctor told me the "only way" I could ever lose "any significant amount of weight" was to have gastric bypass - not lap band, not calorie counting, not medi/opti fast- just major surgery. Four and a half days earlier (yes, New Years Eve) my husband of 5 years announced he wanted a divorce because he wasn't "cut out for marriage anymore" and I moved back home to live with my parents. I binged big-time for the first few days (probably hit 410-412 but I only count what I weighed at that fateful dr visit) then I had an epiphany - I was going to prove that doctor wrong.
To make a long story, well, less long - I got a new doctor, started a lower carb, higher protein eating plan, walked EVERYWHERE (now in the winter I bike indoors and go hiking when it's not completely frigid) and lost 135 lbs in less than a year. Obviously I still have a bit more to go but I'll tell you, knowing that I lost those first 135, I feel like I could do almost anything - even lose another 135!
I'm so not telling you not to have surgery - please don't think that. I'm mostly just reiterating what Haley said - if you really want to lose it without surgery, just know it's completely possible. It takes a lot of hard work and commitment but then, if you think about it, so does WLS. I have several friends & family members that have had it - they have to be very careful about how much and what they eat and always be sure to take their various pills & supplements as well as avoiding certain foods & drinks that may cause stomach distress.
I wish you the best of luck in your decision, whatever it may be, and on your journey to a healthier you!
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01-14-2011, 03:32 AM
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ShesLosingIt: WOWOWOW! Your post made me soooo happy Thank you so much for sharing. I'm sorry about your divorce, but sooo soo happy for you and your weight loss!!! Congrats, and thank you so much for sharing! The more I've been logging on here since I found 3FC in the last 24 hrs, the more I'm starting to think I can do it on my own... I'm super excited!!! Thanks again, and I wish you continued success as well!!!
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01-14-2011, 09:43 AM
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In it for the long haul.
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Northwestern Ohio
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I am going to be the first to say, don't go there. I started my journey at 275, only 5 lbs less than you, and the idea of getting drastic surgery, altering my body for the rest of my life when I've got so much of it left to live is out of the question. Also, those surgeries are not without a lot of complications..think about it, you are altering the system that nourishes your body. I personally can't imagine myself living the rest of my life eating a tiny amount of food when you are so young. With gastric, you have to be careful of your nutrition as well since you can only eat so little at a time. Also, like someone else mentioned, if you are going to have a child after gastric, it might be a lot harder to nourish it. Lapband is maybe a little less of an issue but I still don't think its right to have surgery when its not necessary. Over a year ago i was 265..now I am hoovering in the 242 range. Have I lost a crap ton of weight like some people in a year? NO, but the way I see it, I lost 30-35lbs my self and I'm already seeing huge improvement, . There is a group here in the 20s section called the 280s ladies, we are all people who started around 280 (usually we range from starting at 300-270 ish). We are ALL working to do this ourselves there. We all check in time to time and share our journey and you (and anyone else for that matter) would be totally welcome to post with us.
I do want to say that I know for some people gastric seems like the best option, but I don't think you are that sort of person, just by the fact that you committed to losing the first 20 lbs. Set small goals for yourself. Can you lose 5 more? I think you can.. and then, can you lose another 5? Absolutely! Suddenly you've lost 30lbs! There is a lot to learn from this forum, and I personally really believe you can totally do this without surgery. Notice I don't say on your own, because there is a TON of support to be found here.
Here are some face shots of me at my highest and current weight, if it helps.
 
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01-15-2011, 04:47 AM
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U Look great Phoenix! Thanks for the support and for sharing! I see ur goal of wanting to go to Japan... woohoo! Make sure you tell me all about it. I'm a travel junkie myself . Going to Dubai and then India in the next couple months. yayyY!
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01-15-2011, 09:58 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Central New York
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Ok, This post sounds like me at your size in your position just a little over 1 year ago. I started out by losing what I needed to for lapband surgery. Well plus some as a matter of fact. By the time it came to have the surgery I had already lost 45lbs by myself. I waivered for months on doing it on my own and needing the surgery. I knew I could in the short term but the FEAR drove me to stay with the surgery plan. I was fearful of doing it all and then gaining it back. I was fearful of only getting part/half way and not get to where I was going.
To be completely honest you know what the deciding factor was? Support group meetings. I sat there with patients that had the lapband that were 1 year post op (many of them) and they were only 65-80 down and all plateau'd and that were not at goal weight. The discussed how they all could cheat with food and I thought...."Wow" I dont want to have the surgery and not mentally fix myself enough to learn how to deviate the procedure so I still could manipulate food. They all had not learned a thing. Plus I was already so far down myseld, many were shocked I lost so much already by myself.
So one week before surgery I cancelled because I was going to continue the succesful path I was on. I had one HUGE positive factor on my side, my husband. He did this with me and was on board and lost a significant amount of weight himself. He told me he didnt want me to have the surgery, that we were doing it on our own and wanted to finish it the way we started.
To me there is such a HUGE comitment to have the bypass- that is some serious stuff and never an option for me. The lapband is a much gentlier option in my opinion. You are not severely obese where you would need the bypass. But thats just my opinion.
I think if you even think you can do it on your own and YOU ARE! Then I would more than anything for you to join us all here and stick around and share your journey and get to where you need to be.
I kept journaling my food and calorie counting and found a cardio exercise I could get excited about, that was running. So now I Run almost everyday and feel on top of the world. Just a little over 20 more pounds to go for me.
If you are strong and you think you can do this...then go for it!
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01-16-2011, 04:49 AM
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01-16-2011, 09:18 AM
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If you feel like you can do it on your own, then by all means, let yourself!!! I'm glad I could help, well all of us for that matter, we are all a testament that doing it on your own, can work! It take time, it's all about re-programing yourself to view food differently.
How have you lost so far? Does it feel comfortable to you what you are doing now? Does it feel sustainable/adaptable? Do you calorie count? Do you have an exercise regimen that you are doing or thought about doing? Doing it on your plan is being proactive and reactive. You will have fleeting moments/meals or maybe even a day where you didnt stay on target as planned. The biggest thing I learned was to let that moment be what it was and learn why you ate and what emotions/events were attached to the eating and learn from it. When I used to journal in the beginning I quickly learned what my triggers were for food cravings, the emotions the times of the day. I learned to not eat when I felt those feelings and found alternative ways to deal with emotioins/anger/happiness/content besides food. I could eat for all kinds of reasons. So yes, you will have stumbles and there are going to be times when it does not come off as fast as you would like but keeping your mind set on the idea that through 'time' it will all payoff! Not just with your weight either but your HEALTH! You will live a longer and healthier life. I have 3 small children so I look at them and into our future and want to be here, so I make good choices!
Please stick around you are so Worth it! 
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) or once I get to my goal weight... I'll one day just balloon back up to where I was or...God forbid even bigger than i was...YikeS! Congrats on your 130lb weight loss. Its so inspiring! 
