I'm 44 and have always been a little overweight (like, since I hit puberty). I managed to lose weight in my early 30s and kept it off until after my second pregnancy (at age 36). This is my first serious attempt at getting back to my pre-pregnancy body since then, and my youngest (3rd son) is now turning 5.
So, I'm dedicated, motivated, rarely cheat (and then, only by a couple hundred calories), stick to approximately 1200 cal a day and exercise religiously 3-4 days per week. I've been doing this since mid February, and have loss a whopping 20 pounds. Weeks go by where I lose nothing at all, or maybe 1/2 pound.
So, I have a couple of questions. First, does everyone's metabolism slow down at this age, or am I just unlucky? Have any of you figured out ways to improve your rate of weight loss, besides starvation or ridiculous amounts of exercise (I work 50 hours/week and have 3 kids at home)? How long does it take you to lose, say, 5 pounds? Is it the same amount of time that it took when you dieted in your 20s or 30s? And is it actually possible to get down to the same weight you could achieve when you were that age?
I'm 5'2", started at 161 pounds, am currently hovering around 141, and would like to get to ~120. At the rate I'm going, that might not be for another 7-8 months, if I can get there at all.