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Old 05-15-2010, 05:33 PM   #1  
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Some of you here know that I have a lot of social, emotional and mental instabilities and issues so it makes it difficult for me to relax and enjoy new people. I have met my boyfriend's mom previously, as some of you may remember, and I have seen her a couple brief times since then and talked to her on the phone a few times. She called here yesterday and had my boyfriend ask me to go shopping with her today. Of course, I started stressing immediately about being out and about alone with his mom. After a few hours of consideration, I decided to go for it and I am really glad I did. We had a really good time and everything was light and fun and no stress. I just wanted to share this with all of you here that I consider my 3FC family
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Old 05-15-2010, 05:57 PM   #2  
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Congrats on overcoming your fear ... I am glad you had a good day
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That's wonderful! Or should I say onederful?
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I'm so glad to hear that you had a good time! It sounds like fun!
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Glad you had a good time.
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Awesome! (I've been married for 21 years and still have some anxiety issues when I'm alone with my dear Mother-in-law...lol )

So, now...what did you buy? Get any cool new clothes or stuff?
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Nah, no new clothes, just some nifty do-dads for the house lol
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Awesome that you faced your fears and had a good time! I've struggled w/anxiety around people, so I get it. Tonight I almost didn't go out w/my DH and his friends for dinner - I'm feeling fat & uggo today. But, I went and had a very nice time. AND I didn't overeat!
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Oh wow. I'm with Lori. No way could I do that with my MIL after 12 years of marriage. It would NOT be stress free. But that's what I want to do with my DIL's when the time comes. The cycle of treating your DIL's like crap ends with me!!!
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glad you had a good time with bf's mom!
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Congrats on getting out! Here's hoping that you will become more and more comfortable expanding your social circle, including bf's mom! There's a whole world out there--embrace it.
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