i feel sad because i feel like my body is a giant obstacle between me and the men (man) i want to get closer to.
that being said, im also kinda pissed off! i know i've got a ways to go, and i know i've slacked off mucho the past few wks, but holy eff, i wear an 8 or a 10 (in grown up women's clothes not juniors
) and i honestly DO think i look good a lot of the time.
i hate feeling like i'm not good enough, thin enough, hot enough. and THEN i think maybe i'm just making this up anyway...maybe it's not that i'm "too fat" maybe it's that IT just isn't right...
it's just super discouraging. like i will never be there. and even if i am there on the scale there is NO guarantee (duh) that anything will materialize romantically.
i feel so sad and so stupid for feeling sad
and layer on a little stress over what a mind game i'm playing with myself and my fear that i'm going to come completely unravelled, and im just ahhh...don't know what to do.
right now im thinking something like: stop thinking about him. stop thinking you can change your life and somehow change the situation with him. BUT do go for it. go for gold and run your heart out and stay on plan and get healthy and get well. but i guess i just feel discouraged. and verging on the --what's this all worth anyway-- kinda feeling...
i don't know what im looking for in terms of advice or help or anything, but maybe it's just good for me to put this out there... so, hello universe. you got any wisdom for me?