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Onederchic
01-03-2010, 05:38 AM
Today would have been our 19th wedding anniversary. I was blessed to have him in my life for 11 years. He passed away on March 14, 1999 while I lay in bed holding him. Even though today I am in a new relationship, I still love him and miss him so much and days like this only refresh my grief.

The following is a picture of me with my husband from 1990 -

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v504/shelspray/menkevin1990.jpg


And this is my song to him ♥ -

Josh Groban - To Where You Are (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BUfTlEoVqbE)


Natoshial
01-03-2010, 06:12 AM
I am so sorry you had to go though something so tragic!!! I will keep you in my prayers. You will always have your memories of him and the Love that you shared with him. Hold on to that because that is precious.

Onederchic
01-03-2010, 06:16 AM
Thank you so very much :hug:


LizR
01-03-2010, 07:19 AM
My heart goes out to you especially today when your loss is so painful. That is a wonderful picture of you together. I know he will be in your heart always. I will say a pray for both of you. :hug:

rockinrobin
01-03-2010, 07:46 AM
Oh Michelle, I am so sorry for your loss, pain and suffering. I can't imagine what it must be like to lose a husband at such an early time. What a horrific tragedy.

I hope you take some time to reflect on some fond memories of him and you today and you can find some peace within. I'm sure it will be a difficult day though indeed. :hug:

Beverlyjoy
01-03-2010, 07:53 AM
This is such a hard day. Losing a loved one is devastating. I am hoping that you have many good memories of your times together to help your through today.

SNMomof1
01-03-2010, 08:01 AM
Major ((HUGS)) I can't imagine the pain you've dealt with all these years.

dragonwoman64
01-03-2010, 08:37 AM
hang in there, Michelle. I know he'd be proud of you for all you've done. I'm sure he's at your shoulder right now cheering you on to experience all the happiness in the world.

losermom
01-03-2010, 08:42 AM
:hug: Michelle! Trust me, he's here with you.

salsa chip
01-03-2010, 09:28 AM
:hug: I can't imagine what it must be like to have your husband taken away like that. Take care of yourself and know that we're all thinking of you. :hug:

CanadianCutie
01-03-2010, 09:35 AM
Awwww Michelle, I wish we could make you feel better. Keep him in your heart and he'll live on in your memories.

PeanutsMom704
01-03-2010, 10:13 AM
so sorry for your loss. the picture is very sweet - your love really shows in it.

sun
01-03-2010, 10:25 AM
So sorry I almost lost my baby so I kind of know what you went and are going through. You have all my love,hugs and kisses,.The photo is beautiful. You are gorgeous!

shcirerf
01-03-2010, 10:33 AM
:hug:

bluebutterfly
01-03-2010, 11:05 AM
:hug: I'm so sorry for your pain.

Onederchic
01-03-2010, 11:35 AM
Thanks very much everyone :hug::hug::hug: ♥

Windchime
01-03-2010, 11:38 AM
Michelle, I'm so sorry for your loss. I love that picture of the two of you; you are so young and so cute together. I'm very, very sorry. :hug:

susiemartin
01-03-2010, 11:42 AM
You are in my thoughts & prayers :hug:
I know about the empty space.

Onederchic
01-03-2010, 11:54 AM
Thanks ladies :hug::hug:

cfmama
01-03-2010, 12:52 PM
I am so so sorry that you lost your dear one. My thoughts and arms are around you today. *hugs*

WhitePicketFences
01-03-2010, 12:55 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss, Michelle. That is a lovely photo of the two of you. I think he would be so proud of you today for how you've been doing.

CLCSC145
01-03-2010, 12:55 PM
:hug::hug::hug: ...to you on this difficult day.

raebeaR
01-03-2010, 01:02 PM
Hi, Michelle,

Having lost my husband in October 2007, I understand exactly so well what you are going through. You never, ever forget the love you shared with that irreplaceable person. Like you, I am moving into a new relationship, but I know Stephen will forever be an important part of who I am... and grief for his loss will never be far from my heart.

I know you will celebrate your late husband's life and honor his memory in important and meaningful ways. He would be proud and most touched to know he is still a significant facet of you. Hugs to you.

Rae

Mommato2
01-03-2010, 01:18 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. I could not even imagine the heartache you are going through. Prayers.

Onederchic
01-03-2010, 01:55 PM
Thanks everyone :hug:

LotusMama
01-03-2010, 03:28 PM
Sorry that this is a tough day for you. :hug:

Steelslady
01-03-2010, 03:29 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss! I can't imagine the pain and agony you've felt over the years since his passing. Sounds like the love you had between you both was very special and precious- how lucky you both were to have found one another.

I hope this new relationship is just as fulfilling as your marriage was to your husband someday. :hug:

starfishkitty
01-03-2010, 03:51 PM
:hug: :( :hug: Stay strong Michelle...

LitChick
01-03-2010, 04:08 PM
I'm so sorry and hope that today you can focus on the good memories of him. I love the photo of you two, you look so happy. :hug:

Onederchic
01-03-2010, 04:18 PM
Thanks so much :hug::hug::hug::hug: ♥

Jen415
01-03-2010, 04:42 PM
"A breath away's not far....to where you are...."

He's as close as a thought....so he'll never be far!!

Onederchic
01-03-2010, 05:07 PM
Thank you, Jen :hug:

cathydoe
01-03-2010, 06:05 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my prayers! Cathy

LookingForMeAgain
01-03-2010, 06:06 PM
Nothing but Hugs for you!

Onederchic
01-03-2010, 06:42 PM
Thanks very much :hug::hug:

lovemyboy
01-03-2010, 07:06 PM
:hug:

I'm so sorry. You can see the love in that photograph.

Onederchic
01-03-2010, 07:17 PM
Thank you :hug:

TIARA
01-03-2010, 07:22 PM
I just listened to this song for the 1st time it truely is a beautiful song...

Onederchic
01-03-2010, 07:28 PM
Yes, I love it and love Josh Groban :)

Michelle98272
01-03-2010, 07:31 PM
Your picture literally brought tears to my eyes. What a beautiful young couple you were! My thoughts are with you.

Onederchic
01-03-2010, 07:49 PM
Thanks Michelle :hug:

time2lose
01-03-2010, 09:12 PM
I am so sorry that you are going though this pain. :hug:

Onederchic
01-04-2010, 12:03 AM
Thank you, Cheryl :hug:

JasonsLea
01-04-2010, 12:10 AM
:hug:

Onederchic
01-04-2010, 12:53 AM
:hug:

kuhrisuh
01-04-2010, 02:16 PM
:hug::hug:

I'm so sorry for your loss :(. I can't imagine how hard it must have been, and must still be. You are so strong, and I know that he is looking down on you, proud as ever and so happy for you.

All my love!

Smiling_Sara
01-04-2010, 02:19 PM
Big Big Big :hug: to you today.

thundahthighs
01-04-2010, 02:45 PM
An enormous hugs, and HEAPS warms thoughts to you!
And what a handsome fellow, and a pretty wife!

:hug:

Onederchic
01-04-2010, 05:00 PM
Thanks so much ya'll :hug::hug::hug:

BarbPA
01-04-2010, 10:49 PM
Great Big :hug::hug::hug::hug::hug: to you!

Onederchic
01-05-2010, 01:33 AM
Thank you :hug:

Thighs Be Gone
01-05-2010, 02:14 AM
So sorry Sweetheart. He isn't gone--he is there in a special place inside of you and always will be!

chewysmom
01-05-2010, 05:25 AM
I'm so sorry. :hug::hug::hug::hug:

Onederchic
04-01-2010, 10:30 PM
:hug::hug:

JessicaDawn
04-01-2010, 11:48 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. You are so strong to be able to hold yourself together still. You're in my thoughts <3

Onederchic
04-01-2010, 11:57 PM
Thank you :hug:

astrophe
04-02-2010, 01:44 AM
:hug:

A.

Onederchic
04-02-2010, 02:01 AM
:hug:

time2lose
04-02-2010, 08:19 AM
Michelle, I am so sorry for your loss. :hug:

Onederchic
04-03-2010, 02:52 PM
Thank you, Cheryl :hug:

JustBeckyV
04-04-2010, 09:48 AM
My heart breaks for you - it's hard to lose someone you love so dearly. Big huggles~!

Onederchic
04-04-2010, 01:50 PM
Thanks Becky :hug: